Weekend round up – Oxford Half Marathon, Canal Boat, Glastonbury tickets

Nice weekend which started on Friday when John and Pauline came round for a catch up and drinks, they were here from about 7.00pm onwards and it was really nice and relaxed evening. I had worked late and it was a full on day so I was knackered but that was fine and we got the fire going and had nibbles and drinks. Didn’t stop talking all night, loads to catch up on as we’d not seen them for ages. It was also a chance for us to plan for the Sunday morning military operation of trying to get Glastonbury tickets…

Saturday morning had a bit of a heavy head and when I eventually got up Tash was already on one of her missions to make everyone ashamed of how she gets done! She went out and only as she was walking out the door did she admit she was off to get a facial! Alright for some! It was raining, not hard, but I then went out into the garden and set about chopping back some of the trees, made good in-roads to some of them actually and it looked good. The tree out the front that we have lights in and the horrible hedge that I hate I squared off so it looked nicer.

We had a nice coffee and then went out towards The Rock of Gibraltar pub because Nikki and Gareth had hired a canal boat for their 30th anniversary and were travelling around and would be at this pub at lunchtime, on the way we stopped by Kidlington and I got my hair cut as I’d missed Annie in the week. Pub was nice and they were set up to spend the day there – they were not moving anywhere as a result of the weather, which was drizzling at best! Well they were happy. We had a couple of drinks and some food and stayed for about 90 minutes and then made our way home.

Made a fire again and relaxed in the evening, Tash made a nice curry and we watched TV.

Sunday was the Oxford Half Marathon, I was entered into it but I just couldn’t face it, I’ve done no training whatsoever and I am out of shape and actually injured, my back is really causing me a lot of grief at the minute, so Jack took my place and went off with Mum to do the run. I wandered down the road to John and Pauline’s and we set up with laptops and PCs ready for the 9.00am opening of the ticket office. Sadly it went tits up as per usual with these things, were able to get to the site but didn’t once get to any ticketing page, after 40 minutes the message came up saying all the tickets were sold out – so pissed off, as were so many other people. But two things to consider, 1) we didn’t get to the payment page and the website crash like it did for some people and 2) I didn’t have to make a decision who the 6 people were that we were getting tickets for! You could only buy 6 at a time and there were 9 people wanting tickets, I felt under intense stress!

So with that all done I jumped in the car and went down to Summertown and cheered on Jack and Tash and kept finding places along the route to shout encouragement. They did really well, Jack breezed it and could have done so much quicker but he stayed with Mum and kept her going when she wanted to stop and they completed it on 2hrs and 29 minutes so that was excellent – I would have been pleased with that time.

Tash was shattered and done in, but she was glad she’d done it, but said she’d not do it again. We went and got their t-shirts and then made our way to the car and went home. They had baths etc but as usual Tash didn’t sit still and kept getting in my way and doing jobs! I got a few things done for work etc and then in the evening we watched one of the Jurassic Park films…so very predictable…but it was entertaining.

We then had a phone call from the insurance company as Jack had backed into another car and drove off last night but his number plate got caught and they were claiming. The worse thing about all this is that Jack had completely and utterly lied to us about how the accident happened and someone drove into him in Summertown, I am incredibly hurt by the lies, it’s just not what we do and after the situation with Lewis last year lying to us about his degree I thought that Jack would have known better. Such a shame and we will rein him in a bit now I think as he’s had too much slack too young..I doubt we will but that’s the intention!

So after the film, early night for everyone to another eventful weekend..what’s new there?!?!?

Jack’s frustration with football…

Felt sorry for Jack this evening, as well as at the weekend, he’s been sub for two matches now and not got a sniff in either of them, it’s so wrong and it pisses me off no end! I have to walk away and ignore it, not sure what to do about it. This evening was sort of understandable as it was a local derby against Abingdon Town and it was quite close with Utd running out 2-1 winners, but it could have been a lot more had the Utd forwards finished their numerous chances.

He will just have to stick it out and when he gets his chance make the most of it.

He’s certainly good enough and could hold his own with the players I’ve just watched, in fact he’s better than many of them!

Charlotte’s Birthday weekend round-up

A nice long Birthday weekend is completed. We took Charlotte, Miles and Jack out for a meal at the Coconut Tree on Friday night and it was lovely. Great setting and the food was lovely, it was a really nice evening and a good start to the weekend. We tried to go to the Mad Hatter bar but that was a private party so we went to another bar along the Cowley Road and had a couple of drinks there – all very relaxed. Taxi home, another beer sat listening to music and then to bed not too late.

Saturday morning I was up and working all morning for 4 hours on a Help Guide, really productive actually as I got it done, but it meant that I wasn’t able to go out with Tash on a 2 hour run, I can’t see that I am going to be able to run this Half Marathon next week, which is a shame, my body just isn’t ready for it. I’ve let myself down badly here.

We then had all Tash’s family up for afternoon tea but I went to Jack’s football to try and video him but unfortunately he didn’t actually get on, we were both pissed off about that. I must admit I did keep a watch from the bar whilst the Ryder Cup was on having a couple of beers, very disappointing.

Back home and we then had a load of Charlotte’s mates coming over in the evening, they were supposed to get these for 7.00pm but didn’t come until 8.45pm and Charlotte was a bit miffed, but it was fine once they’d all arrived and it was the usual rowdiness that we’ve come to expect and it was a nice evening, had a few too many beers! They all left just after midnight to go clubbing and we tidied up afterwards.

Sunday morning I was up late and had a very heavy head, got some stuff tidied up and was then off to football for the vets. Said goodbye to Charlotte as she’s back up to Nottingham an Tash was taking her. Football was fine, we won a comfortable game against Headington Butchers (6-2) and I got a lot of football, we had a new signing in Jack’s old Woodstock Town manager, Matty, so that was interesting seeing him play (and vice versa)! Back home afterwards and had dinner and kept the new student entertained whilst doing various chores I’d been allocated!!

Tash came back about 7.30pm in not the best of moods and she went to bed early, I stayed up watching the highlights of the Ryder Cup – we won with something to spare so that was enjoyable.

So all in all a good weekend and to make it better I didn’t feel too bad following the football match, I did a lot of running about and my body doesn’t seem to have reacted badly…will see if that’s the case in the morning!!

Charlotte’s Birthday tomorrow

So she’s going to be 22 tomorrow, can’t believe how my kids are growing up, it’s a scary time it really is.

Mum popped round with some presents for her this afternoon but typically she was out walking the dog, but she had been out for afternoon tea yesterday so it wasn’t so bad, Mum also brought a nice cake round that looked like a Japanese fan so that was appreciated.

I think Charlotte is going to be celebrating in style yet again…we’re taking her and Miles out tomorrow for a meal, I think Jack is coming too now so that should be interesting as it’s at a Sri Lanka restaurant!, then we’ve got all the Bull family coming over for afternoon tea and then we’re hosting all her mates in the evening at our house – I didn’t know about that! Not sure I can handle a big piss up… They’ve already made jokes to Charlotte about fighting with the neighbours..oh dear!

Aside from that, all is ticking along fine, work is busy and I am getting behind with things even though it feels like I am working flat out. Talking of which, I’d better get some more done

Brief Update…nothing much to report

Just a quick catch up…

Last Friday night we met up with Nikki Henderson and Matt in the White Hart – had a few drinks and that was a nice evening catching up

Last Saturday we took Millar and Holdy out to the Black Boy in Headington, Jack dropped us down there and we got quite drunk actually. Nice food and had a good time. I got my sums slightly wrong at the end and still asked them to pay £25.00 each when we paid £150.00, Tash said I should have not asked…bugger. Really nice evening though, enjoyed it. Jack picked us up as well so bonus!!

Jack made his Abingdon Utd Development squad debut in the afternoon as well, he got 35 minutes and shone and at 0-0 he helped make it a 2-0 win so he was buzzing. Was telling me how he kept rinsing the right-back because he was put on at left midfield which is where he should be. We later learned that the player he replaced in the match has decided to leave – probably because he can see how much better Jack is than him. That might be fathers pride speaking but that’s the impression I got from Jack – well done him

Miserable day on Sunday and Tash wanted to go out for a run, I am still struggling with my back so cycled along with her but after about an hour she was struggling to run, problems with her stomach not fitness, she was doing well. It was pissing down with rain the whole time so wasn’t much fun. The Oxford Half Marathon is in two weeks time and I’ve done absolutely nothing at all, I can’t see that I will be competing this year unfortunately.

Work is busy, but then the outgoings are mental – they really are. We’re getting the prep done for the USA holiday and that’s exciting.

Lewis has been in Dublin doing a presentation for his work, one of the sessions was in front of about 90 people and he’s enjoyed it, I saw on LinkedIn there’s a photo of him doing it that his Team Leader uploaded, seems really strange having your son be tagged for his work on LinkedIn! He’s also back with Amber so he’s pleased about that, will see how things move along with that – I have my doubts, once you have a break-up it’s hard to get back to what you want it to be. Hopefully it will be okay though.

Anyway, that will do for now, only a brief update

Poor old Lewis

So he’s not feeling too good at the minute as he’s on some medication to help with problems with his stomach that the GP has prescribed. But to compound matters his girlfriend, Amber, has finished with him last night. He called Tash in tears and she was working and unable to commit enough time to get to the bottom of it and console him so I called later whilst Jack was at football. Usual thing in that she’s just got bored or said the spark isn’t there or whatever…he’s keen to get her back but we shall see. I gave some advise which I doubt he will take on board, it’s difficult as he’s in a situation that he’s desperate to keep with her but it sounds like she wants to move on, so he will have to allow that to happen. I just hope he doesn’t make a fool of himself in his desperation to get back with her.

I won’t say more than that, will let the dust settle but we had a feeling this was coming with some of her social media posts and also the long texts that were going on all throughout our visit to Japan and even during the Test match. My thoughts and loyalty are obviously with Lewis and if we have to go up to Manchester at the weekend to see him no doubt we will…let’s see what happens

Such a shame and glad that I don’t have that hassle anymore…unless Tash is planning to leave me!!

New Vets season upon us

So it’s a new season for the over 50’s and we’ve played two matches, I’ve started as sub in both of them which I am not overly pleased about!! We beat Goring last week 2-1 and beat Chinnor today 5-2 so it’s been a decent start. Some new faces including Ronnie Williams and Gary Coyle and all the old faces are still involved as well. I enjoyed today a bit more than last week as I went into midfield but my legs aren’t there and I didn’t run very much not good!

Afterwards, all the families that are going to New York met up in the White Hart and discussed our plans for the time we’re over there. Should be good but I think it’s going to be an expensive experience! Even in the White Hart we ended up downing 7 pints! Wasn’t nice as when we went home Tash was really drunk but is also saying that she thinks she’s on a pre-menopause which is making her scatty and forgetful, we ended up arguing once everyone had gone to bed – not a nice end to the day/weekend.

Perhaps something is wrong with her, she’s got a doctor’s appointment lined up so we shall see after that – hopefully she’s okay.

England v India Test Match at the Oval

Woke up with a heavy head head but not feeling ill and we got ready to go. Last minute packed lunch made us Tash and then she dropped us off at the train station for our 8.45am train...can’t believe I was on such an early train. The boys slept on the way there, v tired from last night and there were no problems whatsoever getting to the ground. It was fun “people watching” on the train and then the tube as so many people were going to the match.

It was mad when we came out of the Oval tube station as you were going up the escalator there was so much noise at the top and it was mayhem. We got into the ground fine and found our seats and the ground slowly filled up. It’s a strange experience as there is just constant drinking and eating. We were in a good section and it was fun. Jack and Lewis were both asking questions about the game and cricket in general, they’re not fans but I think it was okay for them. Doubt Jack will come again though, he did have a snooze a few times. But then it was a long day just sat there watching no much happening...admittedly it was a slow days cricket but I enjoyed it. Saw Steve Escott for a catch up as he was in a block near to me and had seen my Facebook post saying I was on my way. Managed to have about 5 pints of lager but it was tough going and eventually gave up...

Bit of history witnessed because Alastair Cook had announced his retirement and we got to see him bat for the last time. He wasn’t out and by the time we left at 6.15pm to get our trains England were in command having got India out and only losing two wickets in the evening session. Lewis was getting a different train to us so we said our goodbyes and Jack and I carried onto Marylebone. We were 50 minutes early so got some food and pottered about and then home at 8.35pm, almost missed our stop as both of us were fast asleep. Tash got us and we caught up and then had an early night

Old Faces, old men!!

It was Wayne and Jason’s 50th birthday joint party on Saturday night and it was at the Chequers in Headington. Loads of old faces as you would expect and loads of memories and silly chatter, it was a great evening and I loved it. Lewis came along and we all ended up in town and Hank’s bar. Jack picked me up and we got a kebab after Lewis left early because he was hanging! Youngsters these days!

Some names: Latch, Dale Thorne, Nick Dawson, Jan Varney, Paul Bradbury, Paul Mulvaney, Jason Caffel, Jon Ward, Brian Falnnery, Phil Tomas, Buzz Fowler, Paul Fawkes, Paul Kimber, Leigh Bastable, Dean Ferguson, Paul Creed, Steve Tavinor, Andy Thomas, John Hilland, Nozzer, Liam Carroll, Rob Tutton, Mark O’Hara, Blinky, Paul Holden and others!

Typhoon in Japan and other happenings

Working at Raintree today and on the hour, every hour, an alarm went and we all got up to do some exercise!! Only 20 seconds of something – I did 20 squats, it was quite tiring but it was also amazing how quickly the time came around and you thought, “Already?”

Decent day working here today, so much to work through which I did, that’s one nice thing about being off on holiday is how the work piles up, same with tomorrow at Peters Books – I’ve got a shedload of stuff on my plate to do for Claire

Last night I sorted out the train tickets for Lewis to come down at the weekend and go to the England v India Test match on Sunday, bit worried about that as we’re getting an 8.45am train on Sunday morning but on Saturday night Holdy and Millar are having a lads night out and get-together for their 50^th birthdays and we’re meeting at 6.30pm…I’ll be steaming drunk!! In saying that, hopefully I will have some discipline with the cricket being on the following day and I don’t want to miss that for the world!

Not much else to report really, the training session with Hodder/Rising Stars yesterday afternoon seemed to go ok, it could have been better but the problem was you had some people on the ball and understanding what was required and some that were not…anyway, hopefully the other sessions will be easier and smoother to run through, we’ll find out in the next week or so.

Couldn’t believe the news last night, the worst typhoon in 25 years has hit Kyoto and Osaka causing deaths and mayhem – how lucky were we? The photos and videos paint a bad picture and I cannot believe the weather we’re viewing when you think about what we experienced, simply amazing to think we missed all of the bad weather during our time there, same as with going to Thailand during the rainy season, we experienced none of it. We do have some bad luck with our travelling sometimes but we’ve certainly benefited from good fortune more than enough! Such a shame that it’s so severe and causing so many problems for people.

Back to work today

Well that was hard work if I am honest! Woke up again at 4.30am, read some news for 30 minutes and then managed to go back to sleep until 7.30am so that wasn’t too bad, slowly getting our body clocks back to normal

I worked from home today and appeared to get quite a bit done, I am determined to get paid as much as possible in the coming months to pay for this holiday and all the other things we have lined up, so trying to focus on doing work I will be paid for and ensuring I record the time that I do. I’d got out of the habit so that needs to be addressed!

Not a huge amount of backlog for me but plenty of work in the pipeline for the next fortnight so that’s pleasing. Just ploughed through it during the day

Tash was around from the afternoon onwards and she went out with Zoe for a long walk in the evening and I just watched the end of the Jack Reacher film (what a load of shit that was!) and then had an early night.

I am trying to reduce the amount of Social Media and procrastination but it’s not worked yet!!

St Giles Fair today and tomorrow as well - haven't been down there for years, I don't like it anymore as it's a rip off and too expensive, but the kids enjoy it!!

Japan Holiday - Day 15 – Homeward bound

Sat on the first of two flights on the runway at Japan heading for Seoul, were delayed about an hour but thankfully should still have an hour for the transfer so if we take off shortly I will relax, but I must admit I’m getting a little anxious about missing our connecting flight!!

As predicted, no hassle getting up and out and found a coffee shop in the terminal area and also walked round the shops buying last minute gifts to use the money or just put on creams and smellies!!

Hold on, I’m pretty certain the captain just said the departure is now delayed by 1hr and 20 minutes. I can’t believe that’s the case and hope he’s got that wrong. We surely can’t be sat on the plane parked for the next 80 minutes, that’s mental!! It will mean we will have problems with our flight from Seoul to London. Fuck all we can do about it.

Well that was exciting. We’re now on the plane at Seoul as that was delayed by an hour. We didn’t know that when we landed at 2.15pm and raced off the plane and ran all the way to transfers, it was there that we found out that our 2.30pm flight was now 3.30pm and was at the same gate as we’d docked at. Meaning we were getting back onto our original plane!! What a stroke of luck. So all of us that had panicked etc were calmed down and now we’re ready to go for 12 hours flight. I’m bored of the films now.

The flight home was fairly uneventful, I forgot to mention on the first flight the turbulence was pretty bad, this flight had some but not as bad as the first one – quite scary but all okay. Watched loads of films again and didn’t really sleep and we got home to Heathrow about 7.45pm, no problems whatsoever with Immigration, there was no queueing at all and then got our bags and car, stopped in Headington at MacDonald's and home for 9.15pm and Miles was waiting with Bessie and predictably she went mental but it was all good.

Caught up on things with Miles and then every crashed out around 10.30pm.

What a fortnight that has been – absolutely loved it so very, very much. Now to pay for it!!!

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Japan Holiday – Day 14 – Shirahama to Osaka

Relaxing by the pool in the morning having checked out at 10.30am and after lunch. Had quite a hangover this morning and everyone was tired. Had a snooze then Jack and I walked to the Family Mart to get money out and then walked to the Divers Bay centre and paid one of the guys for the scuba diving. Over £340.00...that hurt!!

Got the family sandwiches and crisps and back to the pool for lunch and the last hour went quickly so we had to change and get our taxi to the railway station. No hassle there and we got the train got a two hour journey in which most of us slept.

Arrived at the Hineno station and got a subway train to the airport. That was interesting as the airport is on an Island just off the mainland connected by bridge. The hotel was really nice and posh and we settled down for an hour or so before going out for a wander. But because we’re at the airport already it was all the same expected shops and restaurants!!

Mum and Tash managed to buy some things they wanted and we went to a nice Italian restaurant that was reasonable and was great food. Just right.

More walking around the airport shops and these all closed at 9.30pm. The kids thought it weird walking round an airport but it was a laugh though

Back to the hotel and crashed out. Good idea doing it this way as we can get up at 7.30am and not have travel hassles or worries.

Shame we’re coming home and back to the real world. Have really enjoyed this holiday.

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Japan Holiday – Day 13 – Shirahama relaxing

Today we did literally nothing all day!

Up late and down for breakfast in time and then out by the pool to relax and enjoy the weather and sleep! Went out into town to get some lunch from the Food Mart but that was about it, had some cocktails by the pool and snacks, really, really lazy time that we all needed.

Stayed and played games at the end of the day like Bananagrams and cards etc and then went and got ready.

We had a meal booked in the evening at the Italian restaurant we couldn’t get into last night and that was excellent, really enjoyable food and after that we went back to the cocktail bar that we were in last night. It was quite lively in there and we were in a mood to make it livelier as it was our last night…we did just that!

The drinks were flowing, the girls were all on cocktails and knocking those back and the music was great. We then got some of the bar games out like table football and the like and other people then wanted to get involved and more people came into the bar and it was a great night. At some point we were all up dancing and singing…don’t remember that though…but the photos are evidence of course!

We stayed pretty late and then all staggered home and crashed out! A nice end to the holiday experience.

Japan Holiday - Day 12 – Shirahama – Scuba Diving

Shit nights sleep, the cold I’ve got just gets worse and I’m throwing up phlegm and coughing like mad...it’s not much fun. Anyway, enough feeling sorry for myself.

Alarm woke me and I really didn’t feel like going but had some breakfast with the two boys and we jumped in our taxi to go to the diving school. When we got out the guys there were not expecting us, I think we’d gone to the wrong location, luckily we kept the taxi there and he took us down the road to Miss Ocean but they weren’t expecting us either. Was getting a bit pissed off but they were good and the lad we were dealing with made some calls and it got sorted out. So he then took us to another location right by our hotel and I think this is where we should actually have met in the first place!! Ah well.

The good thing was that there were other people there but more experienced so instead of being with them we had the lad for the three of us. So we got set up and a quick refresh on the basics and putting the gear together and then got on the boat and the others also came along and joined us. I think they were beginners as well but it was fine. Got some looks as we were the only westerners!! It was very choppy getting out to the location, only about 10 minutes so not far but the waves were making everything very rocky.

So we got our stuff on and went over backwards into the sea and went towards the road we needed to use to get us down to the sea floor. Jack and Lewis cane in and we started to dive, however, I didn’t like it and panicked a bit and returned to the surface. I couldn’t see anything and I couldn’t breathe, it was horrible, I really considered stopping, but we loosened the chest straps and that was better. But it took all my self control to push down and dive, it really was only about 2 or 3 metres of visibility down there. The typhoon had swirled up all the sediment and was buffering us about. I couldn’t keep sight of the boys and that scared me loads, I was worried we’d lose jack. I also had problems equalising and a few times I needed to stop as my ears wee really hurting with the pressure.

About 10-15 minutes in I gradually relaxed and assumed a bit more control of myself and breathing and it went okay. We saw some shrimps and crabs and a few fish but otherwise just moved along and kept close to each other. Eventual returned to the surface and got on the boat where Lewis and I were both then throwing up, we weren’t the only ones!! A few of the others were the same. We went back to shore and were asked if we still wanted to do the 2.00pm dive but we all agreed we didn’t want to and so we called it a day. That was fine. We’d done it and proved we could manage, but the view underwater was so poor there wasn’t much point going again

So we sorted a few things out, got some food from Family Mart and came back to the hotel, bloody hot again, but we had spaces by the pool so that was good and we just crashed out and relaxed in the sun, shade or the pool. It was nice just sat there doing nothing more than people watching. There are a lot of Chinese here and a number of Europeans but we’re definitely outnumbered.

I was quite wiped out by the scuba diving and slept, I also had a real issue with my left ear, I simply couldn’t pop it and that only got sorted out he following day, so I couldn’t really hear much when spoken to.

We stayed by the pool until closing at 6.00pm and then played cards for a bit before going to change and get ready, had a couple of tinnies left over from last night so had those and then walked into town for our usual frustrating and fruitless search for a restaurant that we can all agree on. The one that looked really good was packed out but we made a booking for tomorrow and we walked on a bit further and found a nice local one and had more beers and tried sake. It was okay but not something I’d want to taste again, just not a taste I appreciate as opposed to tasting horrible. The food was really good and they were so nice when we left as the waiter, owner and kitchen staff all shouted their goodbyes.

We walked down the road to a cocktail bar we liked last night but didn’t go into then, tonight we did go in and ordered drinks. The loud group of friends from our hotel were all there playing games and being boisterous but it was fine watching them and gradually we joined in when singing or clapping so it was a good atmosphere. We had more drinks, the girls were all on cocktails, and then the noisy lot left but new people came in. It was nice.

Once we’d had enough we went to Family Mart again to get nibbles for tomorrow, some more beers and sweets for sitting on the seafront. Charlotte was annoying a lady that worked there as she kept walking out of and into the shop to set the melodic beeper off. So we went down and sat watching the stars and sea and then entered some philosophical discussions about the end of the world, God and how little time humans have been in earth etc. That was nice hearing them talk about that.

We then went back to the hotel and it was about 12.15am so it was quite late. A nice day but that scuba diving was definitely an experience!!

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Japan Holiday - Day 11 – Kyoto to Shirahama

Leaving Kyoto today...Kyoto obviously didn’t want us to go!! More of that in a minute.

Our train wasn’t until 11.45am so we didn’t rush in the morning and had breakfast and packed, Tash went off to buy some things and we then all checked out just before 11.00am and went to the stations. Did well to use up the balance in our Simoco cards using the fare balance option and got to Shin-Osaka with loads of time to spare, we were on the 12.15pm train. The airport train was sat there at our platform and didn’t move at 12.00pm. The kids were joking each time the announcement board kept increasing by one minute late...slowly our time passed...nothing. To cut a long story short, we were told there was nothing we could do, there had been a fire on the tracks and nothing was moving. So at around 1.50pm the helpful English speaking attendant suggested and alternative route but the train we needed to board left at 2.30pm.

So we rushed for a subway and got that, we then weren’t too sure it was the right one and loads of people were all checking their phones and giving us their opinions. It was quite funny really and everyone said goodbye at each stop...they are all locals or Chinese tourists I think. Luckily we were on the right one but when we got off we had 6 minutes to find the platform and this really helpful guard took us from one platform to the train itself and we made it with 60 seconds to spare!! So I’m sat on the train to Shirahama typing this now and we’re about 45 miles away which means we will miss out transfer bus and will have to get a couple of taxis which is annoying. That’s been our most eventful journey so far but we made it. Everyone is now crashed out asleep!! It all meant we lost about 2.5hrs because of the delay.

Got to the location fine and ended up using a normal bus and the town looks quite quiet and we walked up to our hotel reception, quite literally “up” as there was a steep hill that we could have done without with all our luggage!! The hotel is very nice, it’s a Marriott so you know what you’re getting!

We had 30 minutes before the pool closed so quickly chucked our bags in the room and jumped into the pool to cool down. It’s small but will do us fine. Played some cards and then got showered and ready to go out. Wales into the town centre and where the restaurants are but there wasn’t a great deal of choice and we walked around for a bit before deciding on a rough looking one for some reason. There was plastic sheeting on the chairs...I think to stop sand ruining it and an old lady sat watching us. We think she was the owners mother. So we ordered our food and after a hit heard the microwave ping...that set alarm bells and Charlotte was funny as she then offered to get water but she was really looking over the counter to check out what was happening!! Then they started frying stuff and sure enough it was delicious when she brought it out for us. Really tasty food.

Had a couple of beers and then walked into town and it was really misty, I guessed I might be BBQs, I wasn’t far off, it was loads and loads of fireworks being let off on the beach. We went into the Family Mart and got some food and drinks and sat watching the sea (although it was pitch black) and watching the fireworks being let off. It was nice and chilled and then we went back to the hotel and another night ended. Didn’t go too mad on the drinks as we’re scuba diving tomorrow!!

Should be nice to be able to relax for a couple of days now.

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Japan Holiday - Day 10 – Kyoto

Had a bit of a lie-in this morning as didn’t want to rush everyone and after breakfast we got the subway line north and went to the Grand Palace gardens. Sweltering hot (again!) and we made every effort to walk through the tree to avoid the sun.

After about 20 mins of walking in the outside of the walls I found the main entrance and quickly realised why it was all so quiet and deserted...the palace is closed every Monday!!! Bugger. So we walked through more of the park and onto a main road that would take us towards the next place we wanted to go. I say we, the kids are fed up walking I think!!

I can’t blame them, it was very warm walking along there and there wasn’t much to see, not even many shops, mostly residential area.

Anyway, we eventually made it to a dojo we wanted to get to and it was worth it. As we walked up to he entrance there was a chap getting things ready for a Kendo lesson he was going to run later in the afternoon. He gave us a bit of background about the dojo that was really interesting and offered us to stay for the lesson and watch. It was too far away in terms of time and too hot to wait around for so we politely declined and moved on

We were heading for the Path of Tranquillity which was miles away but Tash was adamant we could walk there. Eventually we jumped on a bus that took us right there and that was the correct decision as we weren’t close at all!!

Walked down some of the pathway but it wasn’t too spectacular if I’m honest, we can all imagine what it would be like in Spring with the cherry blossom on show or in Autumn with coloured leaves but as it’s summer it was just full on green leaves but it was nice. Didn’t go too far as we got the gist of it, you can walk for a couple of miles down the route with loads of shrines but we all agreed that wasn’t necessary!! Did a bit of pottering about and then got on the bus back to Kyoto station which took almost an hour with all the stops but it was interesting as it went through a part of the city that we’d not seen yet.

Grabbed some sandwiches from the station and got back to the hotel for 4.00pm to crash out for an hour and half and then back off again at 6.00pm, nice to be leaving the hotel during light!!

We walked along the main road and did some last minute shopping and continued into the Gion district which was bright lights and shops and then in a side road all traditional Japanese buildings that Walter mostly restaurants or homes.

We found an excellent restaurant and had dinner there and it was all Italian pasta that everyone had and it went down really well. Jack was loving the toilet and this one even had a dryer...this announcement meant everyone had to go and try it out. Must admit, it’s not something I’ve tried yet and I probably won’t. An added bonus to the nice meal was that we were not charged for the bottle of wine that their girls had. So it did feel like a really cheap evening.

We walked round some more of Gion in the hope of seeing a Geisha girl but we were out of luck so we made our way back along the Main Street with the intention of going back to the hotel but not before taking a detour to a bar for one more drink. It was a standing bar which meant we didn’t have a cover charge and on the bar we’re a couple of bottles of whiskey that had a snake and scorpion within then which made for some gruesome photos and Charlotte reading up about it all on Google.

That was it really, back to the hotel about 10.20pm and to bed nice and early although with the cold I’ve got I wasn’t really looking forward to another night in the air conditioning!!

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Japan Holiday - Day 9 – Kyoto

So we woke up this morning and had some serious hangovers! Took it easy and got some breakfast just before it closed but weren’t very enthusiastic…had a walk around outside and then got the tube and train to near enough the same place as yesterday for the tea ceremony but this time we went to the cycle place and the lady was waiting to take us on our tour. After a quick briefing we were off and up the hill towards the main template that you have to see, the Golden Pavilion was the first place we went to and walked around. Really interesting and great to get the background information and history that we wouldn’t have got without the guide. After that we were off again and cycling down back streets and alleyways to another temple.

The next one had 12 stones in the Zen garden that were positioned so that when viewing them from the side it was impossible to see all of them – one would always be out of sight. That was a deliberate design.

Off we then went through some paddy fields - it was hot today – not an ideal day to go cycling, but we persevered and it was well worth it. We made it eventually to the bamboo forest and this was amazing, had a wander around before making our way back to a local town to leave our bikes, say our thanks to the guide and get some well-earned ice cream and a train back to the hotel.

A rest and freshen up and we were then out into the town and looked around Kyoto station because of the architecture and then found a nice restaurant for dinner, nothing fancy but it was a laugh and was clearly popular with the locals…we ordered and sat waiting and then all of a sudden the waiters and manager came rushing over..Lewis had been pressing an emergency button, instead of a toothpick dispenser!

So that was it, we were all tired and ready for bed, Tash had other ideas!! So we jumped onto another train and went to the Fushimi Inari Shrine, it was spectacular. The brightest orange pillars led all the way up a hillside to the main building, there are literally thousands of them. It was late and we didn’t want to miss the last train but we walked around and got a good feel for it all and it was another good experience. Because it was so late there were very few people here which was nice..although a bit spooky.

That was it then, another couple of trains back to the hotel and to bed, the end of a long but enjoyable and absorbing day

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Japan Holiday – Day 8 – Hiroshima to Kyoto

Back on the bullet train this morning, currently writing this travelling to Shin-Kobe before changing for Kyoto. This train wasn’t until 10.54am so we were able to relax this morning and not go down for breakfast until 9.30am. Same as yesterday so that was fine, finished packing and then of to the station after checking out of the hotel.

As great and posh as the hotel was I have to say I was disappointed that they charged for the use of the pool, about £14.00, which I feel is taking the piss!

Anyway, couldn’t board the train without a bit of drama, Lewis somehow got a cup of coffee poured over his leg and scalded which upset him. He’s in a different car to me so not sure how he is, but got him a drink to cool it down and Mum’s with him so he’s in safe hands!!

Apparently there’s a shedload of things to do here at Kyoto...as if we’ve not done enough already. We have signed up for a tea ceremony and a cycle tour of the city, both in really awkward places to get to and both really expensive for what I think they will offer...but I can worry about that when I get home and not now!! Signing off for 30 mins. We have an 18 minute window for our transfer which I hate this rushing around and not knowing the platforms, that’s when I get stressed in this holiday!!

Our train this morning wasn’t early so there was no rush in the morning and we took our time with getting up and having our last breakfast. No issues with travelling, we had plenty of time and the one change we had we didn’t even have to change platforms!! I Kyoto the station was huge but we found our way and got to the hotel with no problem, it was hot here again as well but it looked a nice area where we were.

We had a walk around for a bit after freshening up and then made our way to where we were going to have the tea ceremony. Before we got there we got off the bus at a couple of stops early and went looking for a market that was near a temple. Very hot walking round and we were soaking but we found it, and the temple grounds were amazing, could have walked round them for ages but we were on a time limit, we left after watching a bit of a monkey show, it wasn’t very good or animal friendly so we weren’t particularly impressed!!

Found the tea room and went in, the girls were led upstairs and us boys led into the room downstairs where we got to choose the colour of the kimonos we were going to get changed into and a young lady dressed us up in the full gear. Took some photos and then the girls came down fully dressed up and looked good, cue more photos and laughter!

The girl doing the ceremony came in and introduced herself and went through the process of explaining the history of the ceremony and it was really interesting. We then had to participate as she gave out tea and we had to bow and say things like “I will join you” and “sorry for going before you” which you can imagine made Jack and Charlotte giggle!! We then made our own, it was powdered tea, Mitcha, I think it was called, it was fine and I’d drink it again if offered to me. It was very interesting and we learned a number of things so I’m glad we did it and then it was over and we left, crossing over the road to get the bus, train and subway home. Same again tomorrow as the bike place was near here too.

Back at the hotel we slept for a bit and then went out and stayed in the downtown area. We walked through the fish market that was all closed and more of a mall and got distracted with all the shops offering so much, it was good walking through here. Went down so back alleys where it was all old stuff and shops and cane out them and into a glare of bright lights and modern shops, it was amazing the contrast and we walked through for a bit. By now there’s a bit of hunger going on so we went to the bridge which was nice and you could see people eating on terraces overlooking the river so we decided to find one of hem and we did really well with our choice. It was unsurprisingly expensive along here but we seemed to find a reasonable one and went in and they were so accommodating. What was also nice was the waiter was from America so we were able to pick his brains on where to go and that was invaluable. Stayed quite late and it was a really nice evening. Next door was a bar that we fancied so we went inside there up the stairs and it was a tiny little place with about 5 people in there quite drunk and loud, all young including the barman. We just got some drinks and took in the scenes for a while and they were having a laugh, the tv was being controlled using YouTube videos and after a while we asked for control and put some on and started singing and joining in. It all got quite drunk and hazy from there on in! We had a great time and didn’t really want to leave, obviously we did and staggered home to the hotel only to be greeted by the main staff saying we’d left our key at the bar...no idea how the bar knew we were staying at that hotel but we had to wait for one of the staff members to go and collect our key for us, cost me £10.00 for him to do it!!

Very lucky as I guess they’d charge a lot for lost keys. Thankfully it didn’t ruin a really great night. We do join in with things so easily and quickly.

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Japan Holiday - Day 7 – Hiroshima

Supposed to be kayaking today so needed to get the 8.21am subway train so up and down for breakfast at 7.30am and after about 15 minutes Tash got the email that we sort of expected cancelling our excursion because of the weather. Not so much that it was raining, it wasn’t, but the wind. As we would later find out that was the correct decision!

So we went back to bed after breakfast and left the hotel at 10.30am instead. Last night and this morning I’d tried for baseball tickets for tonight’s game but it’s completely sold out. I hoped that going to the stadium which is only 10 mins walk might prove differently.

We wandered down and loads of people were queuing but clearly we were not going to get any tickets. The people queuing we think had non-reserve tickets and like a concert we’re hoping to run in and get the best seats. This was at 11.15am and the match kicks off at 6.00pm. It was burning hot and there were already a few hundred people queuing like this. It was astonishing. I Hat made it stranger is today is Thursday...don’t they work?!?

So we left the stadium and I treated myself to an expensive baseball cap which I’m happy with. We got the train down to the xxxxx station and straight into the ferry. Our JR tickets meant it was all for free which really is brilliant. So this Island was really quite a surprise, there is a shrine in the water and a cable car until the mountain but that was turned off because of the wind. However, the big surprise was the modernness of the town itself, loads of nice souvenir shops and restaurants we were spoilt for choice.

However ignoring all that we did the touristy bit and walked round the area and the shrine. The sea was out so we were above to get on the beach and walk under and through the shrine. There were loads of coins in the ground around the bottom of the shrine which I think was the result of people pressing coins into gaps between the sheeps encrusted on the base of the pillars, for luck or prayer, and these had either stayed with int eh gaps or been pushed clear to fall at the base of the structure. Interesting.

After that we walked round more of the town and it’s been the hottest day so far I think. We kept getting breeze but it was constant sweating! Nice!! Got something hung to drink and nibbles at a brewery and then walked down this great Main Street where I found a great t-shirt (in my opinion!) and then a mojito bar...that went down well!! Got some postcards and then the ferry back home but not before missing the ferry we were there for and needing to wait another 10 mins for the next one...so grabbed a beer!!

Writing this whilst on the train home to the hotel, such a good day so far and need to make it a good new night. We’ve given up on the baseball so will go out into town and will likely give karaoke a go. Just to try something different. We feel that the city break is perhaps dragging for everyone so we want to keep their interest. We have another few days of this in Kyoto before the beach! I don’t mind it but I just hope the kids aren’t getting bored by it.

Will update this tomorrow on the train as I intend to have a few drinks now and won’t be able to write in here later. Perhaps “able to” os the wrong word, I will be able to as I’m not going to be drunk, just “can’t be arsed” to update it tonight!!

Didn’t sleep as we tried to organise things for Kyoto and then I went out and got some food/crisps to keep everyone happy whilst we looked for a restaurant. At 8.00pm we got the last green tourist bus and went to the same place as last night but went off to a different area. I knew the bar I was looking for but it was too small so we walked around aimlessly looking for another restaurant. You’d think nothing could be easier...ah no...mum wanted authentic as not western food, basically we were after noodles but could we find one that was right?!? No chance. So we sort of gave u and went to a small restaurant that surprised us.

We had to sit outside because it was busy and the first two items we ordered weren’t available..this was going well! We got that sorted and the waiter was lovely, really wanted to help and Tash was happy because her Gin and Tonic came full and strong in a pint glass!!

The food when it came was lovely, and it was delivered by the cook and he too was really nice. Then it started raining and by that time upstairs was now empty so we were cleared a space and went up there. Loads of locals were around, in fact that’s all it was we had a laugh though and fancied another drink so we crossed the road and went to an Irish pub. That was packed full of mostly Europeans and I suspect English. Had our first pint of the holiday and the girls had their cocktails...Mums second of the day! Again it was a nice atmosphere in there now and it was good fun, I’d happily have stayed longer but it was already 11.30pm so we went and got taxis as the tram had finished and made our way home.

Another good day, we do keep ourselves busy and full on with what we try and do, perhaps it’s a bit too much and we need to slow down a bit, but we’re only here for a short length of time so we want to as much as possible...we can sleep on the train and plane, but I do appreciate that being tired during the day makes the holiday become a chore or a challenge to get through, we don’t want it to be like that. Hard balance to get right.

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Japan Holiday - Day 6 – Hakone to Hiroshima

So I’m writing this on the bullet train to Shin-Osaka, which we will then change to go to Hiroshima. We did well this morning so far because the train were on is not the one I planned for and I don’t understand why it wasn’t suggested sooner that we go on it. For some reason this missed all the recommendations and timetables. We have another 90 mins on this for something to go wrong like they come and charge me for this journey but looking at our paperwork and what the guard said I think we’re ok...

Anyway, I’ve jumped ahead, Much better sleep for everyone, although someone’s alarm went off at 3.30am which woke us all up but we went back to sleep quickly and at 6.00am I was up and packing and writing the diary, Tash got up and was sick loads, she’s not well, it’s not the beers as she didn’t have too much so must be the food, she’s been more adventurous than any of us!! It’s a shame and she’s laid out next to me on the train fast asleep so hopefully that will do her good.

No breakfast today, checked out and went down to the station, we were way earlier than planned but it was fine. Went to the ticket office in Odawara and asked for the specific train I’d researched and it was all fully booked. We could only get the non-reserved one. So we made our way to the line and realised there was a train in 3 minutes and having rushed for it and checking with a guard we jumped on board. And away we went!!

There was loads of space on our carriage and we all made the most of it and now we’re at the first stop which is Nagoya, a large city having travelled about 120 miles in just over an hour!! The weather is holding up but I think we still have more than 250 miles to go...anything can happen!!

Nearing Kyoto and I have to say that these trains are amazing!! Absolutely bombing along the track, every now and then we curve round a corner but the speed of these things is incredible. I love it!! Spacious and clean, everything you don’t get in the UK. Probably get bored of them by the time we leave but this has been a good experience, I keep drifting off to sleep though and cross I didn’t make my book more accessible but will be better organised next time.

In saying that I’m enjoying he scenery and the towns and buildings and countryside.

So we got to Hiroshima and off the train and everything was in order and not a problem, I’d worried about it all for no reason. Our hotel, The Sheraton Grand Hotel, was next door to the station and we walked round and checked in. The rooms we had were deluxe and certainly lived up to their description, they were lovely!!

We crashed out for an hour and cleaned up and then went out to explore the city. Our JR passes meant we could use the sightseeing bus so we jumped in one of these and it took us to the main Hiroshima memorial park, in fact it was the bombed out A-Dome building that we got to at first and this was the main sight I was really to see here. I had to explain to the kids the significance of this building and it was great how interested they were. Loads of questions to clarify their understanding of what this all meant and how Japan were our enemies in world war 2 and how the Americans are viewed.

We walked through the park and took in the memorials on show and the museum and it was really interesting. Bloody hot it was so any chance to jump on the bus or view a museum was taken and appreciated!!

It wasn’t morbid or anything and it was as one of the guide books say, a little bit generous to the side of the Japanese in terms of the facts about the history of the war involvement and bombing but they didn’t whitewash the facts to be far.

It was incredibly hot and I’d happily have walked round for longer but we decided to move on so jumped in a sightseeing bus again and travelled towards the Hiroshima castle. Got some ice creams on the way and then walked around the moat, I loved this. The moat and the castle walls were reconstructed to resemble what it would have looked like about 400 years ago and we walked through the gardens towards the castle tower itself and got some good photos, we didn’t go up the tower, no need to really. Walked back towards the bus stop and managed to get one immediately and this took us on a long route back so we got to see more of the town.

Crashed out at the hotel for a couple of hours, Jack was disciplined and went to the gym but the rest of us couldn’t be bothered!!

After showers and a freshen up we caught the sightseeing bus into town and walked towards what is called the Entertainment District which is what we’d seen on the way back on the bus earlier in the day. Why it was called the Entertainment District quickly became apparent...it was like mini Tokyo. Full of bars, restaurants, slot machines and gentlemen clubs. We walked round for a bit looking for an authentic restaurant but it was quite hard work so we settled for a small bar/restaurant open to the street called Nee York, New York...and yes it was a western menu! Had a couple of beers and I had the Japanese Chicken Burger which was delicious, I could have ordered a second one, it was so good. It was nice to have ‘proper’ food to be honest.

I think everyone was quite tired tonight, it wasn’t exactly stressful or a nasty atmosphere but there was a quietness about the evening so we called it a night, jumped on the tram and made our way home. I’m not surprised people are tired, we were up at 6.30am and it had been a really long day. It was interesting outside our hotel where it is next to the train station, it was a sea of mostly red with white clothes. Tops and caps all from the baseball match, it was incredible, there were thousands of them. I went to 7-eleven to see about getting some tickets but they were sold out, might try tomorrow but not too hopeful as I tried again in the evening without any joy

Ah well, a good day, I like Hiroshima and it seems a lively place to be. More sightseeing tomorrow and hopefully do the kayaking but that’s going to be dependent on the weather

Oh that reminds me, the typhoon didn’t materialise and the weather was fine. A bit windy but nothing more than a normal day in England! On that though, the heat down here is quite oppressive, it’s like a sticky heat, as soon as you’re outside it just feels sweaty and sticky, apparently Kyoto is hotter..that’s going to be interesting.

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Japan Holiday – Day 5 – Hakone & Mt Fuji

I slept appallingly last night, I was in so much pain because of my back, I think everyone else is getting there though with their sleep patterns, and we were all up for our 8.30am breakfast wondering what we’d better getting this time, as we arrived at our room you could smell the fish!! And sure enough another traditional Japanese breakfast banquet awaited us.

Loads of unusual things again and rice and we got through most of it but admittedly felt more comfortable with leaving food this time, didn’t feel quite so guilty. At least there were some orange segments at the end!! Oh, and nice coffee as well.

We then packed up and went on a tour firstly by bus to the south of the Aisha Lake, that journey in the bus was good as it went up and over and through the mountains which were really winding roads and chock full of forests and trees. All very much as you’d imagine and see on telly. We walked from the bus stop through some of the forest called a cedar trail and then also through a replica traditional check point that would have been manned by soldiers and guards.

Found the booking place for the boat trip and was delighted to realise we were on one that resembled a pirate ship and an old style pirates of the Caribbean design. From the jetty and then from the deck of the ship we had a fantasy view of Mt Fuji. The sky was really clear, it was bloody hot, so the sun shining and causing real bright colours so we were really lucky

Stayed in top deck for the 25 mins journey to the north of the lake where we then boarded a cable car to the top of one of the mountains and again the view was spectacular

We had to change cable cars and took the opportunity to walk around a vantage point and this was the best place for photos and the view. It was from here you could see for miles and then appreciate how big Mt Fuji is when compared to the surrounding area, it dwarfed everything else around it. There were clouds around it but these just added to the setting. Really pleased that we made the journey to see this, it was excellent

So we then had to make the downward journey and this time got a type of tram down the mountain and then finally a very slow train back to our town. What was nice was that there was a commentary and explanation of various key points on the way down, although pretty much everyone was exhausted and slept!

Back to the hotel and we sat on the outside with our feet in the springs and caught up with some of the world on the internet before showering and getting ready for the evening.

We went down to the train station first because whilst still in our room Tash received an interesting phone call...it was from our trip organisers who warned us of an on-coming typhoon that was going to hit Hiroshima!! She suggested we get an earlier train and just get there ASAP and into our hotel. So I spent quite a bit of time working out the best trains to get but we couldn’t do anything at our current station so need to sort it tomorrow and change tickets and all that.

We then went to 7-11 where Jack got his dinner and Charlotte got a pot noodle and we got supplies for breakfast tomorrow and more importantly a couple of cans of beer and we went and sat by the river again. Seemed really funny Charlotte being in Japan eating a pot noodle!!

Back towards the hotel and we got a couple more beers and sat on the bridge drinking and chatting and then went for our meal at 7.30pm. It felt more “western” today in that we had a bit more normal food and even a beef steak that was lovely. So all in all it wasn’t as hard as yesterday’s meal but I’m happy to eat normal now, but we had to do it!!

We then sat in the lounge area and because there was no bar I popped back out to 7-11 for more beers and we just relaxed and it was really pleasant end to the day. What was interesting is that we witnessed the groups of businessmen brining in girls to eat dinner with them. There were about 6 girls and there were all dressed in identical uniform and left after dinner. Quite interesting and something we will probably never really understand what actually that was all about

I think that’s it, set the alarm for early and crashed out, such a good day and Mt Fuji was an experience and we were so very lucky with the weather, just wondering what to expect now when we’re off to Hiroshima. Both in terms of the city but also the weather!!!

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Japan Holiday – Day 4 – Tokyo to Hakone

Both Tash and I were wide awake at 2.00am so read Twitter and Facebook for an hour and then managed to sleep again until 7.00am. Tash still slept through whilst I packed and got organised and then downstairs for breakfast.

We checked out and left our bags and wandered round Shibuya shopping to kill a couple hours. We went up to a vantage point above the crossing and looked down and it was a decent birds eye view and then some other shops. The donki one (Don Quiote) and also some arcades, those were interesting and I’ve no idea how those worked, just thousands of ball-bearings like pinball. Line upon line of then for about 4 floors, and it was really busy.

The weather today was oppressive, sunny but really warm arm and breeze, really quite uncomfortable and so glad it’s not been like that the previous two days, sweat was pouring of me all morning.

Back to the hotel to get our cases and then to the station, couple of stops and then we were on our first bullet train heading for Odawa and then a local train to Hakone for our next hotel

The place looks like a spar but when we went to our room it was like a traditional Japanese living and sleeping quarters. All 6 of us are staying in the same place. Our made sat us down and went through a few things and we were left to our own devices. We knew Jack wouldn’t like dinner so we walked into town and down to the river and then found a pizza place so he was happy with that. Back to the hotel and I crashed out and the others did their own thing. Tash went to the public baths where you share your space with others and have to be bollock naked. I might do it but no one else is going to!!

So dinner time!! We all dressed up in our traditional kimonos, which of course caused lots of hilarity and then went down to our private room and it was like a banquet laid out. A banquet with so little food that we could recognise...different people came and served us and explained what was in front of us and how to eat the food and it was okay. Jack didn’t eat much at all and Charlotte wasn’t much better but us others gave it a good go and tucked in. I got through it by trying to not focus on my hat I was eating and it was fine. Not delicious but edible...mostly.

Once we were done we walked over to the bridge outside the hotel, still in our kimonos, and took some photos. Other people from our hotel and other hotels dressed up were doing the same, although we were the only westerners!! Sat around at the end of the night and lots more people were around and either at the karaoke or going to the public baths that stay open until 1.00am.

Back to our room and the room had been transformed from a living room to sleeping quarters and 6 futons were laid out on the floor. Did this diary and then crashed out, not sure how good a nights sleep we will get...fingers crossed.

Really good experience but not really looking forward to breakfast or a similar meal tomorrow, but can’t complain and will just get on with it.

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Japan Holiday – Day 3 – Tokyo

Having gone to bed at 3.00am (drunk) I think we all thought we’d get some decent sleep, that didn’t happen!! I was awake at 7.00am but managed to get back to sleep

And then the alarm went at 9.00am. Everyone was absolutely knackered and had we been anywhere else I don’t think we’d have done anything!! Anyway, had breakfast and was out the door by about 10.30 and got the train to the Tschubio fish market. We knew we weren’t likely to see everything happening because we were late and that was the case. But it wasn’t a wasted journey because we walked through the town adjacent to the market which was packed full of people selling all the fish etc caught from the morning. There was also some famous woman being followed and filmed by loads of photographers, no idea who she was or the boy and girl with her but they were miced up and sampling loads of the stalls and causing a stir.

We walked through the fish market but they were just clearing things away and then made our way to a nice park next door called... which we walked around for a bit before going to the boat jetty just as it was pulling away, we wanted to do the trip and waiting 50 minutes for the next one but it was nice to get a rest.

When the boat came we got decent seats and luckily there was space for everyone to lay out and they all fell asleep!! The boat trip was just under an hour and we were then in site of Tokyo Tower which we had to walk towards and then went in. Up about 450 metres and that wasn’t even the top. It wasn’t the best weather so the view wasn’t amazing but it was still really impressive and worth the journey. Tokyo is vast, as far as the eye could see there are buildings. We didn’t feel

We needed to go any higher so we went to the glass floor section and as expected that was scary!!

Once that was done we headed back towards the subway and another temple even though people were flagging a bit! Stopped at a nice bakery for food and then we found the temple and it was definitely worth the walk and visit and we wandered around and took photos. Also the streets before the temple were packed and there were also tons of people in kimonos. We did wonder if something was going on, celebrations or graduation as they were everywhere but we didn’t ask or find out.

By now it was about 7.00pm and we had been planning to go home, sleep and come back out again but I felt it was a bit late so we might just as well stay out and have an early(ish) night.

So we jumped on the subway to the next place and went to the Mori museum which was supposed to be amazing, we were expecting something like the one in Thailand, it was anything but!!! The exhibition was based on architecture and it was a huge let down, we were already tired so this didn’t help. What was good though is there was also a skyline view and that was amazing to see Tokyo by night again, it’s so impressive.

Once all done we stopped at a burger place and treated ourselves to burger and chips and then that was it. Couple of stops on the subway and home to bed.

A really long. Day with hangovers and tiredness, had we more time we wouldn’t have done that but I’m glad we did, another amazing day.

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Japan Holiday – Day 2 – Tokyo

Up and awake at 8.00am for breakfast and we all agreed we’d had a rubbish nights sleep! Our body clocks a bit messed up, we were all awake around 4.00am and tried to go back to sleep with limited success!

Anyway, down for breakfast and it was lovely, a mixture of both western and eastern food options. We filled up, got changed and went out exploring. We started in the Shibuya area and went round loads of the shops. Did well and bought some things and then wandered around. We had some plans for where to go so we went to this area called Takeshita Street which was so crowded, we went into a cat cafe, that was an odd experience, I’ve never seen a Pygmy cat, their legs were about 3 inches long... carried on down the road, really busy place but that was good and then through a park and the ‘something’ temple. Enjoyable walk through that area and then headed for another park but when we got there it was chargeable which we decided wasn’t worth it

So we jumped on the subway train and made our way back to our hotel and crashed out for an hour or so. We all needed it and when the alarm went I think we’d have all been happy to go back to sleep but we forced ourselves up and headed for the station and went to the Metropolitan Government buildings. This was an amazing skyline of Tokyo from these towers and that was great. Jack then bumped into a mate he knows so that was hell of a coincidence!!

We then walked from there to another district for the Robot Restaurant we were going to see the show later for. The area was just absolutely lit up like mad and was so good to walk through. Shinjuku Golden Gai We then went to a restaurant and it was on a second floor with sliding doors where we had our own table and had to take our shoes off. That was a laugh, we got loads of nibbles and it was tasty and nice food, but it was expensive!! You seem to get charged for everything!! You live and learn...

So we then went to the Robot Restaurant and that was absolutely brilliant. Hard to explain what it was but it was really entertaining and great fun. Like watching the Power Rangers and everything that you of as being mad about the Japanese- would definitely recommend it to anyone I know that’s coming to Japan.

The beers were flowing and when it finished it was about 11.30pm so we walked around to find another bar and had a few pints in a great little pub, quite expensive but it was a laugh and some of the people in there were absolutely steaming drunk. We then found out that the subway was no longer working so we had to get two taxis home. We still were awake and fancied a drink so Mum went to bed and we walked around d looking for a bar...without success...it was Sunday night at 2.30am and it was all closed down. We did find a fast food place and had a drink in there with a spring roll and then back to the hotel for bed!

What a great day, absolutely full on and we really pushed ourselves to keep going but it was worth it. Tokyo really is a fantastic city, love it here.

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Charlotte’s Funny…

We’re at Heathrow having something to eat and Charlotte hears the Pet Shop Boys singing “Go West” on the radio and asks…”Is this the American National Anthem?”

Of course Jack and Lewis didn’t wet themselves laughing…no not at all!

I love her so much!!

Japan Holiday – Day 1 & 2 – Travelling & Flying

Spent the day working and sorting things out but also finished packing and went round Sues for lunch. Lewis took Bess to Dan and Vics and then at 4.00pm we left. Mum was making her own way there by coach as Derek was working and the run through to Heathrow was perfect, no traffic or anything so we were stood in the departures lounge chatting to Mum an hour and ten minutes after leaving!!

Check in was fine, sadly no upgrade and then security etc was problem free. Had some food and a few beers and boarded and we’re off on an 11 hour flight.

Food on plane was nice...something and rice every time. Had another couple of beers and watched films. Ready Player One and Tomb Raider, both were ok. Got some sleep but intermittent as it wasn’t comfortable at all.

Got to Seoul in South Korea and transferred there for 3 hours. Really nice airport and then back on the plane to Tokyo for two hour flight. Caught up in some of the things we need to do in Tokyo and finished a film. Immigration took and hour and through customs our taxi driver was waiting, with his sister! It was an hour’s drive but once we hit Tokyo it was exactly as you’d expect, bright lights, clean looking skyscrapers and flash cars speeding around. It was mesmerising!!

Got to the hotel and checked in. Really small rooms but they will suffice as a base. Local time it was now Saturday 11.00pm. We’d been traveling for a long time but instead of going to bed we went out for a quick explore and so glad that we did. We’re in the Shibuya district and there is a famous traffic crossing that is just a visual treat as it’s so busy. We watched that and took part and then walked down some side streets that were alive and mental. Neon signs everywhere, lights and live and so busy. It was great. Loads of food and bars. Lots of drinking going on. We did get a kebab and then went back to the hotel. Didn’t get a drink. Prices are like in England so this is going to be an expensive holiday!! But from what I’ve seen I can’t wait to get going.

Day one and day two I guess done...we’re in Japan!

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Jack little knock in the car

About to go to bed this evening and Tash got a phone call from Jack, he’d only gone and driven into the back of a taxi!! Thankfully it wasn’t fast, no one was injured and very little damage but it does look like it might cost a few hundred pounds of insurance job to get it sorted – their car not ours!

Pissed off but hopefully that’s a lesson learned by him and he’s a bit more careful with his driving as he was obviously too close to the taxi when it braked suddenly!

Visit to Wendy & Graham

Got up around 9.00am this morning, I was okay but Tash was in the bathroom constantly with her head down the toilet!! She’s useless! Charlotte came home and she was in the same state and being sick…lightweights!

Anyway, finally got on the road at 11.00am, Jack came and we picked up Sue as well and made our way down to Dorset to see Wendy and Graham. The traffic down there was a nightmare and really busy, took over 2.5hrs, I was knackered. Anyway, when we got there we just relaxed and did nothing all day except eat and chat. Graham was home but on call and ready to go to Italy at any minute, he’s doing well with his business. He then got a BBQ going and as well as the usual stuff he’d brought 6 amazing steaks, they were the biggest I’ve seen I reckon, they were lovely but too filling!!

So dinner was lovely and we then sat around catching up for a number of hours and finally left at 7.00pm so it was nice to spend time with them.

I was a bit anxious about coming home because the traffic coming and going on the way down was terrible, and yet…it was really clear, I was about to travel about 80mph for much of the journey and we were home in one hour and 40 minutes, I think that’s the best run I’ve ever had!!

Didn’t do too much once we were home, and bed by 9.30pm so it was a nice early end to an enjoyable weekend

Birthday celebrations..x2

We were busy with jobs in the morning and I went out and got a new pair of trainers and some shorts/t-shirt for the holiday next week. When I got back Tash and I went out for a run and went to Wytham and back – exactly 3 miles, I did it without stopping again but couldn’t keep pace with Tash so she went off and finished some time ahead of me, I don’t mind, I am slowly getting back into it. Got some more gardening jobs done and then we went to Danny and Victoria’s house as they were hosting for Katie’s birthday party in the afternoon. That was nice, we were all out in the garden and then Danny did a BBQ and the drinks were flowing. Not much else to report on that side of things, unfortunately it started raining so we all came inside and gradually got more drunk!

We had a party in the evening that we wanted to go to so about 8.30pm Jack came back out and picked us up, he was with Maia again, and they dropped us down at Southfield Golf club, we were rowdy in the car and showing off but it was amusing I think! At the golf club is was Bradley’s birthday party and there were loads of people there I knew aside from all of Charlotte’s friends of course but people from the golf club like Fraser, Nick Dawson and Dale Thorne, it was nice to catch up with them although truth be told I can’t remember much of the conversations that we had.

As the night progressed we got overly drunk and Charlotte was a bit of a nightmare but I can’t remember specifics so I’ll leave that there. Jack, bless him, came out again and picked us up and got us home.

Overdid it really, can’t control our drinking very well which is a shame

Countryfile visit to Blenheim Palace

Worked out in the garden again in the morning and took the rubbish down to the dump. They’re charging these days but it’s for anything that’s not household waste and is DIY, there’s a bit of a hoo-har as you’d expect but all the stuff I took was fine and not an issue. When we got back Charlotte came with Tash and I, Miles didn’t as he had some family thing he’d forgotten about, and we went to Blenheim Palace as I’d managed to get free tickets for the Countryfile event that was taking place there. We went last year so knew what to expect and it wasn’t any different to be honest!

We parked near to where Jack played football for Woodstock and walked through, long bloody walk but it saved car park fees!!

Charlotte was really surprised by the scale of the set up and we just wandered round loads of the stalls and took our time – it was hot again, when is it not hot these days?? Saw a few decent things and at the Blacks store there were two for £30.00 camping chairs exactly like what we’d listed that we’d like to buy…so we did! That also helped because when we were walking round it meant we weren’t relying on seats and could just bang out the chairs and plonk ourselves down. I had a couple of pints – one at the Craven Arms of course and we watch an amusing (but informative) presentation by a bloke with sheep and then that was pretty much it, we made our way back to the car and home.

I did a BBQ in the evening and Sue came round so that was nice and then that was it, had a few more drinks and relaxed and reflected on a decent and productive weekend, the garden and garages look good!

Saunton Sands Day 3 – pissing down with Rain!!

Last night was mental!! We experienced really heavy storms, thunder, high speed winds and tons of rain. I was awake nearly all night because of it. At one point (3.30am) I had to go outside and sort out the pegs and some of the loose fittings that were flapping about making an unbearable noise. In the morning I did wonder how things would look and luckily it was okay, the wind-break hadn’t broken, and I’d had the foresight to take the flag pole down – else that would have snapped!

The rest of the day it just rained and was miserable weather. So instead of going to the beach and just getting cold etc we jumped in the car and went to Ilfracombe, that was after I’d cooked eggs and bacon for breakfast..hooray, no way I couldn’t have a fry-up at some point!! Ilfracombe is a decent seaside town and we wandered around, it was good actually. We managed to find some free parking and then wandered down the High Street popping in and out of shops etc before stopping for an afternoon tea in a Candy Shop. That was interesting, we’re pretty certain it was under new ownership and it was two gay lads getting going with a new venture, they took an absolute age to serve us because there was a bit of a rush of people (6 or 7) but we were patient and glad to sit and chat and relax. They asked us to write a nice review as we left, which of course we did!

Down to the harbour and walked round there before deciding to go to a pub for a pint (well I had two of course) and then drove home for dinner.

We decided we couldn’t be bothered to go surfing now and just spent the night in the tent again, but we treated ourselves to fish and chips so Charlotte and I drove back into Braunton and they were fantastic chips and sausages and fish – so that was worth it.

We then shut down the tent as it was raining and windy again and played games and drank a bottle of wine and a couple of beers. Nothing too exciting but another enjoyable day and evening just taking it easy

We then had another night of thunderstorms so that was a shame and a frustration!!

Saunton Sands Day 2 – Charlotte coming down

Up nice and early this morning and another morning of fresh fruit etc for breakfast, none of the usual fry up which I can’t get used to!!

It rained last night and this morning so we decided to take things easy and dawdle about, so we walked into Braunton to give Bess a decent walk and look around the shops to kill time before needing to go and get Charlotte. She got the 10.30am train and was due into Barnstable around 2.30pm but there were complications so she was delayed an hour. We got everything ready and then drove down to collect her, by now the weather was better so we went straight down to Saunton sands again (about 4.30pm by now) and it was great.

The sea had come in, but more importantly the waves were huge! We sorted out the windbreaks and all that and then piled into the water, Tash and I were bloody useless with surfing, I could just about do some body boarding, but Charlotte was up on the board and away the first time and thereafter!! I had a couple more attempts but nose-dived each time and just gave up!

We must have been in the water for over and hour and then went back to the base and I had brought my portable BBQ grill so I cooked dinner there on the beach, and though I say so myself, the steaks I’d bought (and cooked) were delicious!! We also opened a bottle of bubbly so it was lovely just sat there watching the sunset, eating and drinking and having a laugh.

As it got dark we made our way back to the campsite and washed up the suits etc and walked Bess and then played card games etc sat out having more drinks!!

Another nice day and it was good Charlotte came down, it’s very much appreciated that she made the effort, sadly the weather isn’t going to be nice for her, or us for that matter!!

Saunton Sands Day 1 – on the beach

Woke up early but so nice not to be bursting for a wee or have a hangover!! Sad but that’s the usual feeling when camping!!

Took Bess out for a quick walk and then had a very nice (healthy) breakfast before potting around for a bit. Went into Braunton to get some cash for the car-park and then drove down to Saunton Sands – it doesn’t change, thankfully, and we parked up and made it down to the beach. It was nice weather, very hot, and a little more crowded than it has been on the webcams that I’ve been looking at in the last couple of days.

Set up and simply sat on the beach relaxing and reading, managed to get through most of the Private Eye magazine for the first time ever!! It does wind me up because it highlights all the injustices and cheating that’s going on in public life, everyone is on the make and ripping off the tax-payer in the main! Anyway, it was nice and easy but very hot, although the sea breeze was good.

We went out to the sea after an hour or so and Bess absolutely loved it, straight in the sea, no fear and jumping over and through the waves, Tash and I took it in turns to go in on the body board and I was amazed at how warm the sea was. I really don’t want to sound like someone we know “warmest ever!”, but I genuinely can’t think of a time and place in the UK when the sea has been that warm, it was so surprising. Didn’t do much else other than relax, catch up on social media and read (or eat and drink!)

Back in the sea for a second time and this time because it was coming in we didn’t have to go the half bloody mile to get wet and the waves were a lot better and higher and more fun!

That was it, packed up and made our way home for about 7.00pm! Some new neighbours had turned up with loads of kids playing football but it was fine and we had a couple of drinks and a nice dinner. Walked the dog, wrote this diary entry and then off to bed for about 10.30pm!

It was actually really quite cold last night which surprised us – had to snuggle together for warmth!!

Off to Sunny Devon…me, Tash and Bessie!

So Tash and I are down here in Devon! Worked at Raintree today, normal day, busy but got a lot done and then got home as soon as possible once the day finished so that we could finish the last bits of packing and get on the road to Devon. It’s just the two of us and then charlotte is coming down on Friday by train which is good of her. The drive down here (setting off about 5.00Pm) was a fantastic idea, admittedly the traffic on the A420 was a bit shit and busy but once we were past Swindon it was plain sailing, honestly there was hardly any traffic and we flew down her – we were pitching our tent at 8.30pm and completely finished and starting our dinner at 9.30pm.
It’s great down here in Braunton, we think it’s our fourth, possibly even our fifth time of coming to the campsite (Lobbs Farm) but it works so well for us because it’s a 3hr 20mins drive, dog friendly and close to a great beach and also town, Perfect!
So we got all sorted, we’d had practise at the weekend so were dab hands at this now and then had spag bol and a few drinks. Tash wants this to be a detox weekend so healthy eating and drinking and all that…we will see!
Not much else to do in the evening so sat around chatting and then around 11.00pm off to bed for an early night!
I do have things to do with work and will aim to deal with those over the next couple of days, but I really do relax and switch off from everything, I shouldn’t but I can’t help to do so. I definitely think there are better things in life than working all the time..however, how the fuck can I pay for it all if I don’t work!!
I have to work on getting the balance right, and also lose some weight and get fit at the same time! Hopefully this will give me that impetus!

Family Camping trip in Standlake

Really slow day at work, hardly got anything done, bit of a nightmare at the minute, just not doing the work I need to do – have to snap out of it before I start losing business I really do, yet here I am writing my diary and procrastinating again!

Anyway, Tash finished work and when she got home we drove off to Standlake for our family weekend camping with the Bulls. They were already there having had the time off work and relaxing – it was just Nikki, Gaz, Victoria and Danny tonight and we set about erecting the tent and everything else. They helped with the shelter and we were all done and sorted in just over an hour – not bad at all!

We then just sat around drinking, eating and chatting – took the dogs for a walk by the lake of course and later it absolutely pissed down with rain, really heavy thunderstorm that lasted a couple of hours – we need it so we weren’t complaining and we were fine under the event shelter! Earlyish night and then up and at them in the morning – I made breakfast as usual, loads of fry-up and gradually everyone started turning up – Jack and Charlotte, Emily, Tom, Katie and Oscar, then Sue and the Foxes. And yes..the drinking continued.

We eventually made our way down to the lake and took the massive cool box full of beers and wine and also the kayak – both of which were very much appreciated! The lads and kids loved the kayak and were in the lake for ages, really good fun.

Nice meal in the evening and everyone left near the end of the night and left the 6 of us alone again, seems strange just being me and Tash if I am honest. But it was nice

In the morning Tash was throwing up everywhere – nightmare!! I was heavy-headed but fine, made another breakfast and she couldn’t even smell it without retching.

Packed up and was gone by 10.45am – crashed out at home and watched TV and took it easy and gradually everyone came to life, so we decided to take Charlotte and Miles out for dinner to celebrate their end of year results at Uni and we went to Mowgli in the Westgate centre. It was really nice, the food is lovely and tastes/smells great. We did well and obviously paid for it and it was a nice end to the weekend.

All good fun, we’re away next weekend to Devon so we didn’t really unpack the car and no doubt we will organise the trip to Standlake for next year as always!

Speedboat on the Thames

We went off to London today to use Mum’s 70th birthday present, a speed boat ride down the Thames! We left a little later than I had planned and picked Mum up whilst Lewis and Jack went and got petrol and we then caught up with them on the M40. We had to be at the pier (right by the London Eye) by 10.45am, we somehow got there with minutes to spare, I was stressing, it shouldn’t have been like that..if we’d left on time!

Anyway, after a quick safety briefing and putting on the life belts we boarded the boat (12 people) and were off, initially it was a tour at a slow pace along the river and getting information on various landmarks which was interesting (I knew quite a few of the facts being raised but also learned some new ones so that was good.) And then after Tower Bridge we were allowed to put our foot down, and he certainly did just that, it was excellent. They had music blaring out as well so it worked really well. Everyone loved it, twists and turns and it was exhilarating, didn’t last long (about 15-20 mins) and then we were turning round to return home, but definitely worth it. Mum loved it, in fact we all did.

When we got back we then walked along the South Bank heading towards Giraffe restaurant but before we got there we found the Italian restaurant, Strada and went there instead. We sat outside but I wasn’t in shade, wow, that was hot! The table and cutlery were absolutely burning hot, I couldn’t pick up the knife and fork! Anyway, really nice meal, then walked along and got an ice cream and we all crashed out asleep for 20 minutes under a tree and finally got ready and left.

Lewis was going back up to Huddersfield which is why he’d driven so we waved him off and made our own way back through Chiswick and dropped Mum off and back in time for the World cup

The World Cup final was between France, strong favourites before the tournament began, and Croatia who beat us in the semi-final. It’s been a great World Cup this time and the final lived up to that as well and was a great spectacle. Croatia were hard done by with two goals conceded that were very harsh indeed, a penalty decision using VAR that the ref got completely wrong I feel – but France ran away with it in the end and it was a comfortable 4-2 win, but it was a decent game and I really wanted Croatia to win it…ah well.

That was it then really, pottered around at home and had an early night after a long weekend.

Still bloody hot!

Jack at Eminem

Strange day today, woke up hungover and not in the mood for speaking with Tash after the hassle last night so I just got on with replacing the lining on the shed roof which was a shit job that I hated doing. Jack wanted to leave early to go to Eminem at Twickenham so I agreed to take him on my own meaning Tash could stay at home with Lewis, although I think he went out in the evening anyway! We didn’t want to let Jack drive there on his own as he’s not been on the motorway yet but I did let him drive and we collected Max around 3.45pm and off we went. He was fine as expected and the trip was uneventful, they jumped out near to the venue and I drove off looking for somewhere to set up a camp to work – that was not successful. I drove round all over the place and ended up in Hounslow, and wandered round there for a couple of hours to kill time and go to MacDonalds.

Jack texted me to say that he’d managed to bluff his way into the VIP area and was about 30 yards away from the main stage – absolutely delighted so he was happy. I then continued my drive around places and eventually ended up in Hampton Court and sat in a park for a while before making my way back to Twickenham, what a nightmare that turned out to be. All the roads were closed and I couldn’t get where I needed to be to pick them up. Then it was gridlocked, I was getting so pissed off. Eventually after loads of phone calls with him Jack we caught up and then I tried to drive through as many backroads to get out of the town, it worked to some degree and then I was out in the open and we got home about 1.00am in the end. He’d really enjoyed himself so it was worth it.

Kept saying that it was the best concert he’s been to and how good Eminem is and what a showman he was – he was also pleased that 50 Cent was there as well and it likely to get tickets to go and see him as well asap

I still can’t believe he managed to get into VIP – he’s a jammy git!!

Nice meal at Victors in Oxford Westgate

It was Chloe and Paul Holden’s birthdays today and we were invited out with them all to go to the Victors restaurant that Nicole works at. Tash and I got there at 5.30pm and got a drink and everyone then turned up and it was a really nice evening

Had quite a bit to drink and the food was really tasty and kept on coming out, we let Nicole lead the way and choose all the dishes and they were loads of tapas type meals, it was expensive though!

At the end of the meal they did this huge desert with loads of sparklers and that and we then had the bonus that they gave Nicole 50% off the total cost because of her being an employee, even better, Wayne and Kerry refused to let us pay our way saying this was a 25th anniversary present from them! Really generous as it was £50.00

We paid that back when buying drinks at the bar for the rest of the night, we stayed where we were and then around 11.00pm they left to get the bus home. When Tash and I came to leave she got really funny with me for some reason so I just thought ‘Fuck this” and walked off. She then started calling and texting me so I just turned the phone off, I was drunk but I was also sick of being treated like this whenever she has a drink, it’s horrible.

So I went round to the Living Room and had a pint in there and then to Hanks for an hour or so, just stood there having a drink people watching, and then Tash turned up in there about 1.30pm I reckon!! So got dragged out and Jack gave us a lift home, don’t remember much more than that but it turned a nice evening really sour, need to think about what’s going on when we go out and what’s being drunk.

England out of the World Cup

Well it was fun whilst it lasted but Englad fell to Croatia this evening 2-1 after extra time, it was a deserved win for Croatia after we were strong in the first half they took control and battered us for the rest of the game. England dropped deeper and deeper and I said that after the Columbia match and the same happened. No one is really to blame, there was no injustice, or cheating or anything like that, just beaten by a better side, but the fact is we were so close to getting to a final, such a missed opportunity, so I’m disappointed

However, I had a nightmare of my own!! I ran late for my training session and panicked getting a taxi to the train station but I made it with minutes to spare meaning I’d get home to the pub to watch the football at 6.45pm – perfect, I got on my train, made a woman move as she was in my reserved seat and then got working for the 2.5hr journey home to Banbury, only slight problem was that after 2 hours the train stopped at its final destination and they said “Welcome to Newcastle!” – I’d got on the wrong fucking train!!!!

So I was now over 5 hours away from home…I was going to miss the match afterall. There was another train at 6.35 back to Doncaster and then on to Birmingham and Banbury and I’d then drive home for midnight, I was so very disappointed. Nothing I could do about it, posted and update on Facebook and everyone obviously took the piss out of me and thought it funny! I managed to get some coverage on the train but it kept buffering and was very frustrating. Got home and was absolutely knackered and drained.

So it’s been an enjoyable tournament but it does feel a little flat today and I don’t think we really gave it our best shot yesterday when it really mattered, especially with the clear cut chances we missed in the first half when we could have easily gone two or three ahead.

So another tournament over…

England in World Cup Semi-Final!

England are in the World Cup semi-final tonight, I am on the train to Doncaster writing this and hopefully should be back in time to see it all. It's been an incredible summer of football, the tournament has been brilliant, so unpredictable with the big teams missing out (Germany didn't even get out of their group!) and it's been enjoyable.

So it means we've been up to the White Hart a lot to watch the England matches, that's a tough one to take really because there are always going to be a couple of pricks that have no idea what they're talking about, and for some reason they stand next to me!! Drives me nuts. But it's slowly got busier and tonight will be mad I reckon. England are against Croatia, I think it's very close indeed, both teams will fancy their chances of making it to the final. As could be expected, the mood and enthusiasm around the country is completely overkill but everyone is so excited by it. It does bring back memories of 1990 in Italy when we lost on penalties in the semi-final, I really hope we can make it.

However, a VERY strong France side are waiting the winners of tonight's match, and they look formidable.

Anyway, it's been a good and enjoyable tournament whatever the team achieve tonight…

Silver Wedding Anniversary Milestone reached…just… :-)

Wedding anniversary today, 25 years we've been married, amazing achievement, it really is. Tash bought me some lovely silver cuff links and I gave her the presents I'd bought her, not as nice at all but she pretended to be pleased with them! I am useless, I really am, I don't deserve her.

Anyway, posted a couple of Facebook messages and the comments and love from people was amazing, really generous and loads of people wishing us the best and saying nice things! Normal day other than that, we both had to work, I was in Banbury so not too bad and it was a good day.

Back home in the early evening and we opened a bottle of Champagne and relaxed before cycling down to Gee's restaurant to use the voucher that the kids had bought for us. They provided us a glass of champagne on our arrival and we had lots of starters instead of a main meal and that was a really good choice to go for. Halfway through, Katharine and Pete Casey turned up meeting some friends…so we were there on a very special occasion and they were there just for a normal Tuesday night!! How the other half live!!

When we finished we came home and finished off the half bottle of champagne from earlier and relaxed in the garden reflecting on our time together and what we've achieved and other things with life, it was nice and made us appreciate where we are with our lives at the minute…we're doing ok!!

Anyway, a lovely day and now to start again to get another 25 years under our belt!!

Jack has passed his driving test!

So today was Jack’s driving test, I must admit I wasn’t not too sure whether it was too early for him as there are a few areas that need more work and experience, roundabouts for example. Anyway, it was at 11.11am and about 45 minutes later we got the news that he had passed with only one minor (clipping a kerb in the tight roads around Wheatley!)

He phoned me before I went into a training session in Banbury and he was buzzing, I was so pleased for him, so well done to him! He will be out and about in the car constantly now so we won’t be seeing that for a while.

Another milestone passed in his life.