Jack’s got an ear-ring!!

Got a Snapchat through to the Dark Dickheads family group and Jack has got an ear-ring in Aiya Napa! Mad. It’s fine, it’s a diamond stud but he makes us laugh!

Haven’t seen any update from Tash, in saying that, Raff has got a big tattoo as well…not sure how that’s going to go down with his family, huge great rose on his forearm

Jack#s get us up to date well and it looks like he’s had a fantastic time, he’s been on the paraglider and even talked his way into an all-inclusive luxury hotel and send videos from there in the infinity pool and getting free drinks

No idea how he manages it!

I go and collect them from Luton tomorrow…

Working away from home

Haven’t worked away from home in bloody ages! I am up n Derby today working for EdCo to try and help with their Support team set up and reviewing calls that are coming in. Not sure how it’s going to go but it’s been okay today, hopefully I will impress, but it’s going to cost a fair amount so I hope they don’t get funny when I send in my invoice!

Left for home this morning at 6.00am and it’s now 10.30am in a pretty ordinary hotel, won’t come back here again in a hurry I must admit.

I have gone from being quiet and worried about money to being quite busy again now, but I think I like that as it focusses the mind and makes me push myself that bit harder – I am not a good person with too much time and being the one that has to motivate myself to work, definitely a stick not a carrot person!

Oh, have ordered the building materials today from Blanchfords for them to get working on my new office next week, exciting! It’s costing a bit but with this extra work on my plate hopefully we’ll be fine with setting it up…the bar in getting closer all the time!

Jack has now finished his A-Levels!

That’s it, he’s finished his A-Levels and his school years!

Makes me and Tash feel old, but it’s not about us. He’s worked hard but this has been a hard time to get through, he’s an annoying little shit who has an answer for everything and we’ve really had to push him to keep his focus. I am concerned that he’s not done enough but it’s clearly too late now, he’s NOT doing retakes.

I so very much hope that he’s done enough to get some decent grades, he keeps saying that he’s not going to go to further education but he still needs to have some decent grades to show for the last two years, else they were a waste of time and he might as well have done an apprenticeship.

Not sure how long we have to wait for the results, but he just doesn’t care about them and now will be dossing about and then goes on holiday next Wednesday which I am sure he will absolutely love

Charlotte’s Dissertation Result…what will it mean overall??

Charlotte got a FIRST in her dissertation – she was almost crying, Tash said she was shaking she was so pleased and shocked about it – I am delighted for her and so very, very proud. She’s worked incredibly hard so to get the recognition now and the feeling that she’s capable is so pleasing for me, Tash and herself – she rightly deserves it too, she’s very good at what she does and I don’t think she has that confidence in her ability. She’s going to do so very well whatever it might be and I hope this result gives her that confidence. So what does that result mean?

Well, all this year she’s got mostly 2:1’s and a few 2:2 – I think this is her first time she’s got a 1st this year so I am expecting her to get an overall 2:1 which her and Tash are going to be delighted with. I really, really don’t think she will drop to a 2:2, that can’t possibly happen, we’d be stunned if that happened. But what about sneaking a First????? I don’t know, I think we all think that would be a real stretch, but we won’t rule it out and none of us are really thinking about it, so let’s hope for the best and that will be a 2:1 which like Charlotte said, she didn’t think she’d even get into University in the first place!

So proud of her – she’s lovely!

MRI Scan & Raff’s Family for Dinner

Went to the JR this afternoon for an MRI Scan – they’re not much fun at all it has to be said. Tash dropped me down there and it was about 25 minutes in this little tube that is quite claustrophobic and tight. I just accepted it and closed my eyes and then all the noise starts up and it’s odd feeling in there. In saying that I almost fell asleep…! Will find the results out in due course and hopefully they’ll be able to see what’s wrong with my back, if they say there’s nothing obvious I will be so surprised.

In the morning we did work on the house and got loads of jobs done including another dump run for Sue, but then found out that Nikki has been round as well and has suggested getting a skip and then took Sue for lunch – it’s pathetic it really is, the answer to everything is spending money and eating food. Tash was quite upset because it was obvious that Sue’s been moaning about her being round and she wasn’t invited to the Jacob’s Inn with them – I do feel sorry for Tash.

In the afternoon we hosted Raff’s family for dinner and it was nice, Jack and Raff are going off to Aiya Napa in a couple of weeks so it was some last minute planning and we’d been to their house so it was our turn. It was a nice enough evening and they left quite abruptly when Raff said “Can we go now?” – quite shocked by that rudeness but there you go. Stayed up and watched a film and then had an early night.

Another nice weekend all told

Chernobyl drama – brilliant TV viewing

We’ve been watching a fair amount of TV over the last few months, we always get an hour or so at the end of the day to sit and relax. Got through loads of programme and the latest one we’ve completed was one on Sky Atlantic called Chernobyl.

As the title suggests this is a short 5 part docu-drama about the events at the Chernobyl Power Plant in April 1986 – it was fascinating and has garnered constant praise and acclaim, I’ve not heard anyone moan about it.

Last episode was this evening and it finished as strongly as it started and was a shocking view into the mentality of the men involved and what being Russian involves and their hierarchy and command chains – it’s scary.

Anyway, I am sure it will win awards and rightly so, it’s been great. Now to find something else to watch…what’s on the planner?

Kate Millar’s 18th Birthday

Up quite early washing the car this morning and 3 people (including Charlotte) said “You can do mine next!” – made me smile putting that on Facebook and got some good reactions. I did actually do mine, Charlotte’s and Tasha’s cars in the end. I then sorted out the wood in the stable and then trimmed the hedge out the front, so was busy busy busy. Took the dogs for a walk, hot again.

Our latest student, Michele from Switzerland, left this morning as well, she was a lovely girl and really enjoyed her stay with us. She was very quiet but would get involved if only to sit and observe us being drunk or a bit crazy (as she put it in her card). She gave us a thank you card that was lovely and also some spaghetti because of her first meal and Jack throwing his on the floor! Doubt we'll ever see her again, we never do, but I think we made a nice impression on her.

Over to Didcot to the Millar’s house, haven’t been there for a long time I don’t think, they’ve sorted out the back garden and it’s really nice there – done it well. Phil Thomas was there cooking at the BBQ and Tracey was on form, usual suspects were there and it was a lovely afternoon. Had to go inside near the end because of the rain but food was all good and loads to drink!

Jack was driving so Tash and I had a few  and when we got home Charlotte was on the sofa so we watched some films and it was a nice evening.

Everyone was knackered, it’s been a long weekend.

Bournemouth Beach & Champions League Final

Up fairly early this morning, got things sorted and then jumped into the car and me, Tash and Charlotte went down to Bournemouth for the day. We got there about 12.15pm (quite a long journey) and it was nice and hot but very busy. We went to Canford Cliffs as normal but there were no dog signs everywhere.

Walked down to Branscombe and found the only section of beach that was dog-friendly and set up there. Had our picnic and threw the ball for Bess into the sea and she loved it. We then all crashed out and slept nearly all the afternoon. Listening to music and relaxing, it was lovely.

We needed to get home for the football in the evening and left about 5.15pm, I was worried about the traffic but there was no need, we flew home, it was amazing how smooth it was.

Quick shower and change then up to the White Hart, I was originally happy to stay at home but Tash wanted to meet the Henderson’s so I watched the TV and she sat talking outside. It was a game between Liverpool and Spurs and I obviously didn’t want Liverpool to win. Unfortunately, they were fairly comfortable in winning 2-0, Spurs were better than them but didn’t threaten and it was a really shit game to watch. Liverpool also were gifted a penalty in the first 30 seconds, it was incredible. I am not 100% sure about it being a pen, but there have been so many instances where they’ve been given I am not surprised. Thankfully it wasn’t the only goal.

I was quite drunk by the end and we had a chat with Matt and Nicky before coming home.

A lovely day and decent evening, if only the match was better and a different result! As you can well imagine, all my mates were celebrating on Facebook and Twitter.

Nicole Holden’s 18th Birthday

I did absolutely nothing all day today, I was heavily hungover and didn’t lift a finger, just browsed the internet or slept, fucking idiot!

Went to Wayne & Kerry’s in the early evening as it was Nicole’s 18th birthday and we sat in the garden and Wayne did a BBQ. nice food and relaxing evening. I did have a few beers but it was a struggle!

Zoe and the girls were over and other family and friends, it was nice. The girls went into town and slowly people left and we were last as usual.

Tash drove although I could have really.

Can’t believe they’re all turning 18, it’s so odd.

Elton John film – Rocket Man

I’m going to take a leaf out of Elton John’s diary and be more perfunctory with my diary entries now, he used to do everything in bullet point form and short sharp entries, I think if I do the same then I will not find creating diary entries such a chore, that’s not the right word, just so I can add them more quickly really.

Worked at Raintree today, went ok.

Finished early and home by 4.30pm – quick lunch then over to Grandma’s house to meet up with Brett and Melanie who are over here. Nice to see them if only for 45 minutes along with the rest of the family. We get on well with them and there is a nice/special bond we have with them so they’re always really pleased to see us.

Over to Bicester and met with Nikki, Gaz, Emily and Sue in Nando’s for a quick drink and then over to Vue for the Elton John film Rocket Man. Biggest thing of popcorn I’ve seen (free) and couldn’t finish it, felt a bit sick!

Film was very enjoyable, won’t win any awards but it was entertaining and we liked it – certainly gave us a taste for his concert to come in Italy.

Home by 11.00pm – saw that Chelsea beat Arsenal in the Europa League final – 4-1, not good for Arsenal at all!

Lazy (very) TV day!

Tash worked today and was up and out around 9.00am – I was dead! Stayed in bed for another hour before feeling guilting and getting up and walking the dog and doing chores. Went and got Lewis from Bicester and also the shelter and then home around midday in which we proceeded to watch TV literally all day long! Tash came back from work and just crashed on the sofa so we watched film after film, incredibly lazy but quite satisfying at the same time.

Complete waste of time but we didn’t mind

Has some food and then more TV and Lewis went back to Manchester about 8.00pm after I’d walked Bess once more

A really enjoyable weekend all told.

Victoria’s pregnant!

Pottering about in the morning. More of Sue’s garage clearance with help from Lewis then over to Danny and Victoria’s for a BBQ. We took our shelter and that was an excellent idea as it pissed down with rain at one point and it helped keep any heat in.

Loads to drink and nice and relaxing.

They then announced that Victoria was pregnant so that went down really well and everyone was pleased as you’d expect.

Tash had to work in the morning and surprised me by drinking as much as she did! We were planning to get a bus home but Jess offered us a lift so we didn’t turn that down and she gave Tash and I a lift home – Lewis stayed and went out into Bicester town with Katie and Oscar and a couple of other people

Really good day and evening and great news about the pregnancy – please about that.

Yoga and Punting–not a good mix!

Heavy head and tired but not too bad.

Did some gardening and then Tash dragged me to the gym to participate in a Yoga season. Oh my god that was hard. Sweat was pouring off me and I found it so hard, I have no flexibility at all and struggled. Was in pain for much of it. Afterwards we did some clearing out at her mums house and then made some lunches and went down to Wolfson College to get the HMC punt.

Zoe and Laoisa came with us. Zoe has never been punting before. We went to the same place as we did last month with Ivy and stopped for our food. Lewis was late so didn’t meet us for the beginning but he then parked at the Victoria Arms and walked along the bank to find us.

We then punted back to the VA and had a pint there and then back to college to drop the pint off.

My back was killing me from the yoga so I jumped in the bath and also slept a bit for an hour by which time John and Pauline came up and we hosted them and got the pizza oven going.

Had a few drinks but nothing mad and it was a really pleasant evening.

Stayed outside under the heaters and it was really good. It wasn’t too late either, they left around 10.30pm, we cleared up and off to bed.

A really good day.

Jon Ward’s Mum’s Funeral

Didn’t get too much done in the morning, quite distracted really and then got ready for Jon Ward’s mums Funeral. It was held at the crematorium near Wantage and it was a good turn out. Lots of familiar faces and Jon was pleased that we turned up.

We then went to Cosenor House in Abingdon and had a few drinks and food there. I wasn’t drinking but it was good to catch up with people.

Back home I did some more work and then signed off around 5.00pm having taken Bess for a long walk run around the meadow, I’d done well, was pleased with my running and then worked around the house.

Zoe came up in evening and we sat outside eating nibbles and drinking. It wasn’t particularly hot so I went in and watched some TV but I was drinking double and treble gin and tonics!

Bedtime came but I wanted to stay up watching more Tv. Which then turned into a YouTube night! I eventually gave up and went to bed at 4.00am pissed up!

Good fun and hopefully not too groggy the next day!

Lewis pay-rise, Charlotte in France, Jack in exams

Really pleased for Lewis – he’s been away in Croatia for a week’s break and had a great time. He was driving and there were no reports of problems or incidents and the photos on Facebook suggest it was a lovely place and they loved it. Back to reality now but he’s just advised the family group that work are really pleased with him and he’s been given a pay-rise again so he’s now on £34.7k – which is brilliant for his age!

Certainly a lot more than I am on. Told Tash about Peters Books and she wasn’t surprised at all, positive attitude and all that but I need to get more work and in touch with people to get more money coming in asap.

Charlotte is now in Nice, South of France, she travelled down yesterday by train of course because Miles is still scared of flying and they didn’t get there until about 10.30pm – they travelled all day, nightmare really but there you are. She’s been sending photos throughout today and it looks lovely and hot there and she’s spending money on perfume and clothes so she’s enjoying herself

Jack as Business and PE exams today, I’ve no idea how he’s doing, I don’t think he’s doing enough and last night he went off and played football and didn’t d anything in the evening claiming that he’d done all the work he could in the day. I’m not convinced!

That’s it, I am in day 4 of a new diet and fitness attempt to lose weight, it’s not working yet but I am really watching what I am eating and I am trying to be more mobile and doing exercises. I’ve given myself 8 weeks to lose a stone – I’d love to get under 12stone, currently I am about 13st 9lbs, that’s depressingly fat and heavy for someone my size. It’s early days yet but I am not missing eating loads of food so it might be something that I can stick to…again, I doubt it very much but it would be great to not be self-conscious and embarrassed when I am on the beach in Crete. I hate my moobs and stomach so much, getting really pissed off seeing me in photos looking so big…well,  it’s up to me to sort it!

Jack’s A-Level Exams started today…

Jack starts his exams today and the first one he had was 9.00am this morning on Economics. We didn’t get much out of him when we asked him about it, I don’t think it went too well if I am guessing right.

Not much we can do about it now other than to keep encouraging and helping where possible, although I don’t think my idea of help is much appreciated.

Really hope he does well, he’s not asked for as much help from us as I’d like and when we push him he claims he’s in control, I am not so certain.

Well, fingers crossed, I am sure he’ll do well.

This was our encouragement last week…Tash’s idea – she’s learning well from me!

Game of Thrones – Finale

Today was the last ever Game of Thrones – I watched it this morning as I normally do at 6.15am and it was okay. It wasn’t particularly emotional or poignant, it was just…okay.

It’s a huge shame that a massive great story-telling machine has been wrapped up so quickly and the overall feeling is that this has been rushed. I think the show-runners and maybe the actors had had enough and wanted to move onto other projects, this has been running for about 9 years after all!

I think there will be other offerings but they won’t have the same impact and I suspect will feel forced and will slowly die off, but it’s been great fun and I’ve enjoyed it so much. But like all good things, it has to have an ending and this was it. If ever they wanted to do follow-ups then it would be possible because so many of the main characters actually survived, but I don’t think that will happen.

Anyway, that’s all done and dusted and it’s time for me to get into something else now with my time…

Garage clearance, Wedding Reception & FA Cup Final

Pottered around the garden in the morning and then went and got an eye test at Spec Savers – wasn’t in there for long at all and only went because my close up eyesight is a bit blurred now.

They advised that reading glasses might be a good idea but I didn’t need them for anything else, I wasn’t keen to spend money on them right now so I thanked them and made my excuses!

Back home and we went round to Sue’s and worked in her garage removing stuff and taking it down the dump. It’s going to be a long and full-on job to complete!

I then watched some of the FA Cup Final, this was between Man City and Watford, I said before the match to Tasha that I wasn’t too bothered about watching it because it would be one-sided and it would likely be 4-0 to Man City. It was okay for 20 mins, I was right about it being one-sided and Man City scored one goal and you knew it was all over so I got ready and walked the dog, no interested and sure enough it ended up 6-0! Not good really.

Tasha’s friend Ria got dropped round and we then went out to Thame for a wedding for Tash’s old work colleague Michelle, we also picked up Mike on the way. I had agreed to drive and it was a shit decision, I was bored out of my mind and it was a pretty shit evening, just sat there drinking water and eating cheese people-watching. We were not involved in anything and I was relieved when we left at 12.45pm – everyone there had a nice time, but we were very much on the fringes. Dropped them all home and got back about 1.00am.

What made the evening worse??? It was the Vets end of season night out..so WhatsApp was full of daft and drunken messages and photos. They had a great time – the only consolation is I didn’t spend too much and I didn’t have a hangover!

Family BBQ out of the blue

Worked in Raintree today and pretty full on but finished and got home as we were hosting again this evening with a BBQ for Mum, Derek and Grandma. They came over about 5.30pm and I got the coals going, wasn’t the best one but it cooked all the meat fine in the end, we had loads today for some reason. Miles was also over and we got on the gin that Pauline and John gave to Tash for her birthday. It was a small-ish bottle and it didn’t stand a chance…it was so tasty we actually finished it.

We then went through loads of wine as well…anyone would not think it was a school night. It was a lovely evening, a bit cold but those near the patio heater were okay…I wasn’t one of them! Wrapped up in blankets it was fine, stayed outside chatting etc until about 9.00pm when they left and we then stayed out until about 10.30pm. I think both Charlotte and Miles would happily have stayed up longer but we’d run out of wine, so that was the signal for bed.

A very nice evening and Mum appreciates us doing it for them and Grandma just enjoys being out and about so it works well. It’s so nice for the kids to have a great grandparent – she’s 99 in a couple of weeks – we’re going to host a lunch for her then as well, all the families are invited, that’ll be interesting.

Lewis on holiday in Croatia, and a quick family update

Lewis is in Croatia right now, he’s gone with some friends and he’s the designated driver! Not too sure how I feel about that because he’s responsible for about 9 people in a minibus. He’s pretty confident about it all so I am sure he will be fine. They’re just travelling around places and sight-seeing and enjoying a week away from work. Looks nice what I have seen of his photos so far so I hope he has a great time.

Not much else to report, work is desperately slow, I am getting fed up with a client who won’t pay me so that’s a stress I could do without and obviously I don’t have as much work as I’d like..so stress from all areas!

Charlotte is working at Anna Balance’s old school and she’s enjoying it but the real stress in the house is Jack’s A-Levels coming up thick and fast. He’s been working really hard with revision and such like but we have an argument almost daily because I still don’t think he’s doing enough and is too easily distracted. We will see soon enough, they start next week, I really hope he does well in them