Oxford Half Marathon

Ran the Oxford Half Marathon today – I had done x3 runs before turning up for this – 2, 3 and 5 miles the last of which was 4 weeks ago! So unsurprisingly I was anxious about entering this and how it would pan out because so many people were taking it so seriously and really putting in the training hours

Tash dropped me off down at the Uni Parks and then I met with all of Team Taylor before making my way to the start line where I met with Tash and Pauline Bampton & Julie Goodall. There were over 9,500 people entering and it was quite exciting and good to be part of the crowd. The start began at 9.30am and it took 20 minutes for us to make our way to the start line and cross it. I went at my slow and steady pass and managed to maintain it (albeit getting slower) throughout, I did get round the whole course without stopping – I couldn’t believe it, very pleased with myself in that I’d done no training but embarrassed by the time it took.

I didn’t go past many people and at the halfway point it got to the stage that people were walking, I’d go past them, they’d run past me and walk again and I’d go past them again! Familiar people were then dragging me along so to speak. Kept seeing Tash along the way which was nice and Jack as well after his football had finished down at Oxford City

It was nice being part of the Team Taylor as there were a lot of other runners with the same t-shirts so we kept encouraging one and other.

Got over the finish line in 2h 47m and got some goodies and then walked to the car and went home – the rest of the day I didn’t get much done at all, it really flaked me out and I crashed out on the sofa and that was pretty much it. I have so much work on my plate but I couldn’t face it so just went to bed early after a long bath – although we did make it down to the Apple Day in the village, that was nice as usual – we live in a lovely place.

Anyway, I’ve done it now so that’s that! Might enter the one next year but will see how it goes, I have pre-registered my interest, I think I should surely be able to improve the time if I try a bit harder!!

On the Start line…

At the Finish Line…almost 3 hours later..not smiling now!

Charlotte at Uni

Was training in Nottingham today which wasn't the best, didn't enjoy it at all. Wouldn't be surprised if I don't get full pay for it. Never mind

Afterwards I met Charlotte in the town Centre and we had a lunch meal at Turtle Bay which was lovely. Nice food and it was great to spend time with her, she didn't stop talking!!

She's really enjoying herself and the lifestyle she's experiencing at the minute which is pleasing of course but she will have to learn to work when the work is there to do. It's only 2 weeks in so it's all new and exciting and it's just so pleasing that she's settled and enjoying things. She's in the ski society and also tonight in the cocktail making society (yes that exists!!)

We were there for about 90 minutes and then I had to get home. It's nice that it feels close although it's 2 hours. Will meet her again soon. Nottingham city centre looked interesting with some nice shops so will explore that next time I guess. Some rough types though which sounds like some students are being targeted which is such a shame.

Went out for a run in the evening which was pretty pathetic and with the half marathon on Sunday I am not in a good place!!

Decent Weekend

Decent weekend overshadowed by not doing work I should have done…oh dear!

As per a previous post Jack passed his Karate black belt grading and we had Lewis down as a result as he wanted to be part of it and on the panel judging him.

Lewis was down on Friday when I got in from working in London and I didn’t see much of him as I was working outside once I was home. Saturday morning we had a fry up and got ready for the grading but I then went off to football as we were playing Worcester City who I was nervous about because they’d won so well last week.

It was a decent game and we challenged them but we fell short and were 1-3 losers in the end. Couple of injuries made life difficult but it was an improvement on last week. Once finished I went and got some balloons from Jericho and then we went out to see Jack’s karate grading result and had a nice evening out

Sunday we were up fairly late in the morning, so surprised Tash wasn’t hungover, and we pottered around, again I put off working.

Took Jack to watch his football team at Harwell in the afternoon – his bruising came out really bad – he was even more proud of those! We then went back home as we were hosting friends and family up for Charlotte’s birthday, leaving for Uni and Jack’s black belt celebration…any excuse!

It was a really nice day/evening and people stayed late. Of course I had a few beers so got absolutely nothing done in the evening which is making me more and more stressed, even typing this diary feels like I’m delaying the inevitable. Early to bed but really nice relaxed evening.

Jack Black Belt Karate Grading–Part 2–Passed!!

So very, very proud of Jack today – he’s done it!

We have another karate black belt in the family.

It’s such an achievement and he’s proud of himself it’s obvious. He went to the school at 2.00pm and obviously worked all afternoon with interviews, katas, paired combinations etc and finally the fighting at the end. We got there about 5.30pm and they finished soon after – we saw nothing of course – but we know what happens…Jack was being beaten up!

We went in when they finished and it was clear there were a few tears by both lads – the other lad (Fred) was a shaking nervous wreck, but you could tell that from him size etc, same age as Jack but looked like he’d blow over in a strong breeze.

We watched as Rob made speeches to them – which they no doubt will forget because of the adrenaline coursing through them and they were then presented with their certificates and belts. It really was so pleasing, he’s worked so hard for this.

We took some photos and made the usual thanks and pleasantries and then went home to get ready to go out. Jack was talking about all the experience and Lewis was adding context as well, Jack’s face was a bit puffy and swollen but he was in good spirits. We went out for a meal in the evening to Jamie’s Italian which all the family including Sue and Mum & Derek. Lovely meal and then went to the Wig & Pen for a couple of pints afterwards – Jeez that was rough…taxi home and then bed.

He’s now quite excited as he’s been offered working in one of the classes with Mary and he’s expecting £12.00per hour which is pretty decent by anyone’s standards!!

I’m still smiling now thinking about it, I’m really proud of him – Facebook photo got so many likes and well dones for him. Pleasing

Jack Black Belt Karate Grading–Part 1 done

So Jack has got through the first stage, the one he was most concerned about, the exam.

He got 69 and the pass mark was 65. Bit tight but a pass is a pass!

I watched him do his paired combinations in front of all the class this evening and was proud of him. Sensei Rob also appeared to be happy with what he and Harry have worked on with their own choreography.

So now it's the grading on Saturday. He has an interview and then the katas he needs to do and then finally the fight. He's nervous of course but I think, and hope, he will be fine.

Will be very proud of him if he makes it, obviously we will be proud of him if he falls short as he's done so well to be grading at this age and we know that OSMA don't just hand out these belts for the fun of it. He'd have properly earned this belt.

He's looking forward to fighting Lewis...should be interesting because Jack is possibly at the fittest and strongest he's ever been, Lewis is not!!

I also found time to make it to the gym at the Nuffield today (I still think of it as Esporta) as I have a two week free membership. I was there for an hour on the rowing, bike and running machines...it was fine. I'm not a good gym person though it has to be said!! I find it dull and boring, will take my swim kit next time but also need to find more time for the running with the Half Marathon so close on the horizon!

Tash had been out in the evening with Lucie and Chrissie catching up so I was the taxi driver. It was ok.

Finally seem to be shaking my cold off, still feeling really rough though, hate feeling sick. And of course Man Flu is so much worse for us than a normal cold!!

Oxford Half Marathon–Training Run #1

Shattered today, what a wasted day I had! I couldn’t get up in time to go to GL in London so stayed and worked from home, but got so very little done, it was one of those days! I spent much of the morning sorting out the registrations for the JPL side – took me hours and then I just got distracted by videos on YouTube!

In the afternoon I then fell asleep for 90 minutes and taking Charlotte to work was about the only productive thing I did – nonsense!

In the evening I took Jack and Darius to karate and as soon as I dropped them off I went out running around Kidlington. I have the Oxford Half Marathon on 9th October – so 4 weeks away and I’ve done nothing. So this evening I just wanted to try and run for an hour however slowly…and it was slow! I managed 4.97 miles in 60 minutes, but it was non-stop so that was the goal I was aiming for.

Went and waited for Jack to finish karate – his black belt grading is in two weeks (we’re all nervous!) and then got them home and did some last minute registrations before bed. Stiffened up something terrible!

I learned something in the evening, a chap called Prince Buster died and he was the name I recognised from Madness songs, but on checking out his back catalogue it was clear that so many Madness songs – particularly One Step Beyond – were cover versions from the 1960’s, I was amazed. I can’t believe so much of that influence was so old, I’ve been very naïve. One Step Beyond was from 1964 – incredible. Well as I said on Facebook, thank you Prince Buster, massive influence on my childhood (and adult life) that I wasn’t fully aware of.

Great holiday but back with a bump!

Had the most amazing holiday over in the States but I’ve been back x3 days now and straight into the routine as if nothing happened. Sat on a train in Marylebone typing this to get back home for a party for Sue’s birthday only to be back to London tomorrow! Should have stayed over but couldn’t really.

Everyone is asking how it went and looking as brown as I do that’s no surprise really I guess, they soon get bored of me telling them though!

We took over 1,500 photos which are all downloaded now and the black and white one as a screensaver of New York is so good – in fact I will save it below.

Tucks was so good to us, he’s the most generous person I know and he loves treating us and sharing everything he has, I hope he’s happy with Alison as she’s lovely and having an extra child with Grace will help I think to share his focus, we will see, I only wish him the very best.

Can’t determine any specific highlights from the holiday, so many to think of, if anything it was just great being a full family together and the kids all getting along and having a great time.

Loved it – now to work to pay everything off and save for the next one! Oh, mine and Charlotte’s bags turned up yesterday from Zurich…phew!

Statue of Liberty

Woke up around 4.00am cold and with toothache again. Turned air conditioning off and back to sleep thankfully until 9.00am. Up and all out quickly and went to the subway not before grabbing some breakfast from a deli.

Got the subway straight down to the South Ferry so as to get on the Staten Island ferry which was fine and we went over on it to see the Statue of Liberty. That was good, straight back and then walked through the Veterans of Vietnam

USA Holiday–Day 3

Woke up a bit late around 9.00am. Tucks was ready for a run so I was dragged along. Did ok to start with and we went to one beach but I was then flagging and he left me behind. Went to another beach and then the Galley for a rest. We'd stopped a few times but I was very slow. It was hot as well!!

When we'd completed 4 miles and were in town we stopped and wandered around the harbour. Some amazing boats there, so much money on display.

Went back to the house, made some sandwiches and then went on to Cisco Beach the same as yesterday but Alison cycled instead of Tucks. Went the wrong way once. Nice down on the beach. Not too busy, relaxed drinking and eating, playing bat and ball etc and loads of swimming. I went for one swim for a long distance.

Around 5.00pm we called it a day and made our way back to the house where we planned to have dinner. Tucks had bought this huge slab of steak, haven't seen one like it before. Loads of other food prepared and then nice sweet tea vodka as well.

Really nice evening that finished with more beers and sharing round the iPad to play YouTube music. Good fun

Finished around midnight

USA Holiday–setting out

Up at 4.30am having gone to bed at 12.30am so was a bit groggy but we were all out by 5.00am and on the road to Heathrow. Lovely quick journey and passed over the car at 6.00am. No problems checking in and because of the queues ended up in Business class check-in...there's a hint there!!

Nice breakfast and then a wander round the shops before embarking. At the gate she took out tickets from us and replaced them...we got an upgrade to Business Class after all!! Everyone was excited but it was only a short flight and a small plane but there was more food, proper cutlery and glasses etc so it was a lovely way to start the holiday.

It was only 9.45am but I couldn't resist asking for a beer..no problem..Swiss beer. Nice. Was only one drinking, typical Brit abroad.

Typing this whilst on the first leg to Zurich where we change to get out flight over to Boston. I'm not expecting an upgrade there though of course. Will have to make a note to thank the airline lady for the upgrade. Nice treat. Loads of room.

Faithless at Brixton O2 Academy

Worked in Birmingham today at Peters Books and it was successful, Jayne from EdCo came in for a Management meeting and I was involved, went well and then in the afternoon worked hard before leaving at 4.30pm to get the train to London. Couldn’t believe that 3 days ago I could have got the ticket for £9.00 but it had jumped to £28.00 – not good!

Travelled into Marylebone, bloody hot, and then travelled across London to Brixton and walked down to meet John & Pauline Bampton who had driven in with Tash. Got a drink at a pub and then went to the O2, queued for ages to get a drink and then at 9.00pm were in place for Faithless.

They came on and the place rocked, it was so enjoyable, they were brilliant! The place went mad for all the favourites and then they finished with an encore of We Come One – which was so good. When we left we were soaking wet from the sweat as it was incredibly hot in there – like a sauna.

John drove us home of course and we stopped at MacDonalds – home by about 12.45am – tired but buzzing, such a good concert.

Short clip of video I took is here on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/BJQ6Q_lAkfd/?taken-by=juliandark 

Oxford City 1st team first match

Went to Oxford City today for first game of the season but more importantly for the respect of Colin Taylor. Turned up at 2.30pm when Tash dropped me off and managed to get in for free, £12 otherwise...not paying that much!

Lots of familiar faces and chatted to people and gave Laura a hug and had a quick talk. She was composed and was telling me how much support and messages she and the family were getting. All very, very sad

Before the game there was a minutes silence but on checking the programme there wasn't much else to be fair. I was slightly surprised. The game was okay, I'm not a good spectator I have to admit, so I just kept having a few pints and wandering around the ground to see who was there.

Bloody hot day and City won via x2 penalties so that was pleasing. Had a chat in the bar afterwards with Paddy and Justin then Lewis picked me up. He had a pint and we went home for the BBQ.

I continued to drink and got a bit drunk if the truth be told!! Food was nice.

Invited John Bampton over and he was down like a shot and we stayed up chatting nonsense for the rest of the night

A really good day & evening all things considered.

But I am drinking far too much alcohol at the minute.

Colin Taylor’s Funeral

Didn’t get too much done for work throughout today, not sure why, just seemed distracted and not interested, not ideal with my holiday coming up and so much to get done. The day didn’t start too well because I needed to drop Tash to work because she woke up late and as soon as I got home I needed to take Lewis out to drop his car in the garage so I was out at 7.45am until 9.05am…

Anyway, in the afternoon it was Colin Taylor’s funeral at the Crematorium, we got there at about 2.40pm and had to drive through all the people there – about 400 I reckon in total. Walked round and obviously too many people for us to go inside so we listened from outside and it was very moving and sad. Loads of people there as I mentioned and so many faces I knew and chatted to briefly. Sad that it’s events like this that you see people, but we say that each time and it is only things like this where we will catch up.

Went back to Oxford City for some drinks and food and chatted to more people like Paul Lee, Mick Woodley, Justin Merritt, Mark Jones, Rob Tutton and so on. A number of conversations regarding the set up at Oxford City and how things need to change there in terms of new blood coming into the club etc, it could be the catalyst for change, we shall see.

I then dropped Tash into town as she was meeting work friends at Thai Khun for a meal.

I went home, took the dog out to the meadow and ran. I didn’t do very well as I kept stopping for Pokemon and my back was a nightmare as I appear to have trapped a nerve, in fact by the time I got home I was in agony – didn’t get much sleep at all – desperate problem.

I have to get out and run because I have signed up for the Oxford Half Marathon so we’ll see how that goes!!

Bess was absolutely shattered as a result because she was running to keep up with me..

Tash phoned for picking up at 10.40pm and she was quite drunk…not surprised but it was nice, she was happy.

So a sad day and people were continuing to question why Colin did what he did, we will never know or understand why – it’s something I hope I never get to a stage in my life that I want to take such drastic action.

Jacks Soccer Showcase

Spoke to Jack this evening and he’s confirmed he’s enjoying the football and it was better today. Sounds like the coach is a bit of a twat as he’s not encouraging any of them and is also excluding a lot of the less able lads. That seems harsh to me and I would have thought they’d change the squads around so that the level of ability is better. Fortunately Jack is one of the better players so it’s not affecting him but it’s a shame for these other lads who’ve paid money to be there.

He said the food isn’t good but he’s making friends and is holding his own so I am very proud of him, it’s good he’s enjoying it.

Busy day in London & Jack’s first day of football coaching

Worked in London today because of the funeral of Colin Taylor tomorrow. It was a tough day at GL because I had to focus on both my frogs and yes I did finally get one of them eaten…the SAGE integration document with Datel finally got off my desk.
I was then too tired to work on Data Usage which is so confusing – but will try and sort that on Thursday when I am next there.
Had a few texts with Jack throughout the morning and it sounded like the plans had changed for his football week, I wasn’t overly happy as they have changed it from x2 2hr sessions to a single 4hr session. He sounded happy enough though but I will phone him later and find out all about it
I hope it’s going well.
Chatted in the evening and he said it was fine. He’s in a good squad but said there were some lads not up to scratch at all and could hardly kick a ball which messed up some of the drills. Strange for them to be there if you ask me, but there you are.
He was picked in the first team for the matches and did well and set up players, started to make friends and is eating and chilling with the new found friends. Pleased for him, was nervous how it would all go.

Oxford Half Marathon entry…oops!

Some people at Oxford City have suggested a team be entered into the Oxford Half Marathon as Team Taylor as a mark of respect for him and his love of the Casuals (Learning Difficulties team) and I have agreed to be part of this event.

So I have paid my £40.00 entrance fee and now committed to taking part and running in this. It’s a dual thing for me as it’s a mark of respect and showing that respect but also from a selfish perspective I hope it gives me that kick up the backside to push myself to get that little bit fitter, well a lot fitter and less fat over the coming x8 weeks.

We shall see, I tried the other day running and got to 4 miles and struggled so it’s three times that which I need to get to…oh dear!

OCFC JPL u16’s pre-season training

First training session for the lads today. I was really nervous and hardly slept last night, no idea why but got all this planned and sorted and then met the lads at 9.00am at Cutteslowe. In the end there was x7 of them which was a bit disappointing but hardly a surprise as I'd been told of the numbers that were missing and on holiday

It was a decent session I felt, very hot indeed, I joined in the football to make it 4v4 and that was bloody hard work, I was shattered!!

They all worked really hard on all we did so I hope they enjoyed it. We will become a fit side is my intention. Need to do some more plans as well.

Finished at 10.30am and my back was killing me...I'll never learn it seems but I can't help myself. Even though I gave the ball away and didn't track my runners!

Who’d be a kids football manager??

Horrible morning today as I sent out x2 emails to Twariq and Maro advising them that I was releasing them from the squad for the coming season. Not heard from Maro yet but Twariq was begging me to change my mind, it was really sad and I hated it. I like him and wish I could help him with hi life etc but I had to make the decision for the team and moving things forward. Maro I will feel less emotional about but this was painful.

Jack text me later in the day to say that Twariq had been on their Facebook Group wishing them luck and thanking them for him being involved with them and he’s taken it quite well now it’s sunk in.

Jack is then asking me if this player and that player can come along to train and join the club – I have too many players to choose from, it’s so hard. Will let them train for a couple of weeks and then have to make a tough decision to include or drop them.

Anyway, will keep an eye on Twariq’s progress and see if I am proved to be wrong.

Sport for all…Jack better at tennis than me…

Jack has been nagging at me to play tennis against him so I agreed today and regretted it!!

We went up to Cutteslowe Park and paid for once – although I don’t think he really needed to and played two sets. I was struggling to get around if I am honest, very stiff legged and my back was playing up but it was good fun.

I tried I must admit and he won the first set 6-3 I think, I upped my game a bit in the second set and was leading by about 5-2 when we decided we needed to get going and stop. He’s so well coordinated and mobile it was pleasing to have a good challenge. I will have to challenge him to a rematch and get some better tennis balls for the next game.

It was also nice to spend that time with him, he’s a good lad.

Devon break surfing & camping

It was 7 years ago when we last went to Saunton Sands which is near Braunton and the Lobb Fields campsite, but we were there again this weekend. I know it was 7 years ago as I got one of those memories reminders from Facebook when I returned.

Nothing much has changed, which is the nice thing about it, but this time we had a dog! Travelling down there took just over 3.5 hours but it was fine and Bessie was good as gold on the journey, we obviously stopped halfway and it was a fine run down.

Set up the tent on arrival and the kids all pitched in so it meant we were sorted within an hour and able to hire some surfboards and get down to the beach, the waves were huge which was pleasing and we were straight in there. This was Bessie’s first visit to the seaside so we wondered what she would make of it and she loved it – the beach there is huge, especially when the sea is out so she had a massive area to run around and it’s dog friendly so there were loads for her to make friends with.

We went into the water and so did she! No fear that dog.

Didn’t surf for too long but Charlotte got to show off the skills she’d learnt in Bali and was better than all of us, stood up straight away no problem, that was pleasing for her.

Stayed for a few hours as it was so mice and hot and eventually went back to the campsite for beers and food! About summed up our time away!

The following day wasn’t the best – constantly raining so we gave up on the idea of the beach and spent the day in Barnstaple wandering around the shops getting things and playing Pokemon Go! Before returning to the campsite we took a detour to the open sand dunes there and they were massive, really enjoyed that and Bess was going mental running up an down them – very enjoyable end to the day. Back to the tent and a quiet night playing games and drinking – very relaxed.

Friday we were determined to make it to the beach and the weather was better so we managed it and it was a good day down there with mostly sun and we were in the water for over an hour and a half surfing, the waves were even bigger than Wednesday and it was great fun, loved it. Absolutely shattered though and fell asleep for a couple of hours in the afternoon and got rained on! Went for a walk over the dunes again and flew a kite before getting a pasty each for lunch.

Had an ice cream before making our way back to the campsite for dinner in the evening and more drink and games played.

Saturday morning we were up and packing away and did a good job of it, kids really helped so it was quick and then Lewis said his goodbyes and drove off to Penzance (I think) to meet Evie and her dad and friends for a week camping/surfing. We made our way home and it was so slow going, a bit of a nightmare, that just kept delaying and delaying us.

Eventually there was an accident on the M5 heading towards Bristol and it was closed down, luckily I’d turned off and even more luckily I worked out a way to go down some backroads and even more…more luckily was that I scrounged a key code for a barrier from one of the members of staff and was able to leave the service station where everyone else was blocked in and no one was able to even re-joined the M5. We drove over it and people were out of their cars and it was a nightmare, we were so very lucky indeed.

It meant it still took over 6 hours to get home and we were very late for the Molineux Family tea party at Tash’s work but we did make it there so they were pleased we turned up, chatted to some of the known family (Ben, Sue, Wendy etc) but Tash went into ‘work-mode’ and it was a waste of my time if you ask me, but we showed our faces for what it was worth!

Back home finished unpacking and then sat on the sofa and watched the concluding episodes of ‘The Catch’ which we’ve enjoyed watching as a new series – nothing to strenuous to concentrate on but good fun and good enough quality viewing. So a long day and few days concluded – really nice to have all x5 of us spending time together, hopefully we can make it an annual thing, especially with Bessie loving the attention so much!

P.S. I want to buy a VW Transporter Campervan – they’re everywhere and I think it would make the camping experience so much more enjoyable, but we will see…they’re not cheap!

Golf Wanker…

Bit still from the practise last night but was dropped off by Tash down at the golf course at 8.00am and met up with Wayne & Paul. Cup of tea and bacon sarnie and then collected the clubs I was going to use and then had a swing of a few balls to warm up and get my eye in…not impressive!

We were the first group off at 9.00am and away we went. Overall I was okay, I didn’t par any holes or even come close but I enjoyed myself and didn’t let myself down until the last x3 holes where I was tired and sort of just gave up. Lovely hot day and I feel quite confident that I will carry on now as more of a regular thing as it was enjoyable when you hit the ball right and it went roughly where you intended. So that’s my challenge to keep it up and practise. How much I will do so is anyone’s guess!

Had a few pints afterwards and there was a raffle etc and the girls arrived for a couple of drinks and a chat and then we went home but Wayne & Kerry came over for a BBQ in the evening. Loads to drink and it was good fun, bit tipsy!

Colin Taylor – R.I.P.

Shocking news today when driving home from Wrexham and speaking with Zoe and Wayne when I learned that Colin Taylor was found earlier this morning hanged in the changing rooms at Oxford City’s ground. What a terrible, terrible shame. Really very saddened to learn of this.

Wayne said that with the owner of the club being jailed for fraud there are obvious financial problems with the players money, the Berinsfield project and also Colin just would seldom delegate work and would heap all the pressure on himself. He did have a breakdown a number of years ago which is why he took early retirement from working at Rover and it was felt that City was his life thereafter.

I knew Colin for upwards of 20 years because of mine and his involvement with City so it’s a real sickener that this has happened for all concerned and of course for his family, Laura & Sarah absolutely worshipped him, you can only imagine what they’re going through. It’s all so public of course because of the nature and standing of the club so Facebook and Twitter are full of condolences, unsurprisingly and no-one had anything but praise and good words to say about the man.

It’s so sad to think about what he must have been going through and how desperate he must have felt to do this awful act and it’s so senseless, football, finances and things like that are so insignificant when it comes to life and family, nothing you couldn’t just walk away from or say ‘Ok, let’s start again!’, but there are so many other factors that I couldn’t possibly imagine or appreciate.

I just hope we’re around so able to pay our respects at the funeral when it is organised as we’re away next week. It will be a big affair that’s for certain.

Jack’s Football Presentation & Ghostbusters…

Had a nice breakfast in the morning and when we checked out I was pleased to see that they'd forgotten to charge us £12.00 each for breakfast…that was obviously a huge saving! We hadn't planned anything for the morning so after a quick Google search it was obvious there was nothing to do in Wrexham so we decided to make a move and get on the road home. Nice, quick and straightforward journey home and then it was a case of unpacking everything and getting sorted out. Didn't have too long as we needed to go out for Jack's presentation and also the cinema. We decided to decline the invite to the Phelan's for a BBQ as time was just too tight.

Took Jack to Cutteslowe Park in the afternoon as it was his u15 presentation and because of the events earlier in the day at the club it was moved there but it worked because it was out in the sunshine and we could enjoy the weather.

I didn't really mingle as I don't know the people but Ellie (Adam Shea's mum) was there organising as she does so that was one familiar face! I chatted to Rid, obviously about Colin, but about next season and other footballing matters.

The presentation then went ahead and he did a mini speech for each of the players as they received their individual trophies and it was a nice atmosphere, they're a good bunch of lads and have a great spirit about them.

Jack and I had to leave around 5.45pm so we missed out on the lads v dads match but that might not have been a bad thing!

Went and parked at Tasha's work and made our way to George Street cinema and we were only x2 minutes behind Charlotte & Tash and we then went and watched the new version of Ghostbusters. As much as I didn't really want to go along or even want to enjoy it, I was surprised that it was actually really quite enjoyable and good fun. It was great that they included ALL of the original Ghostbusters cast in minor cameos and it was amusing family entertainment. Predictable but definitely enjoyable - I am glad we went.

When that was all over we just went home and pottered about and got things sorted for the coming week and downloaded the photos etc which were soon on Facebook etc!

Early night to bed…a really lovely weekend, now for a busy week ahead!

White Water Rafting…

Got finished packing in the morning and getting ready, got some petrol as I’d forgotten to fill the tank and Mum was here at 8.30am and we were all set to leave on time.

Mum and Derek are slow and steady drivers but thankfully we weren’t in a rush so I bit my tongue and trundled along at a snails pace for them to keep behind me! We reached Llangollen around 11.25am and found Lewis before getting something to eat with a picnic by the river. We saw other groups who’d just finished their rafting experience and you could see they were all buzzing so that bode well for us in my opinion!

We walked up to the offices, checked in and got our gear on and were driven up the road to the location that we would start the trip down the river. We were split into two boats in which one was me, Tash and Mum, the other being Lewis, Charlotte, Miles and Jack. Went through some drills and explanation of the requirements and then straight away Tash & I went in the water to run a drill for the pulling of us back into the raft! It wasn’t too cold and with the wetsuits it was fine anyway.

We were then off going through rapids, down the weirs, back up some of the rapids, boarding the other raft and pulling Charlotte into the water, “Dad, you dick!”. It was a really, really great fun experience, everyone loved it. It was challenging and comfortable in turns, I worked hard with the oaring and was stiff in the evening, very tiring!

So that went on fro over an hour and it was excellent, we finished where we knew we would and Derek was waiting for us and he managed to get some photos but between us we got some good footage – I hope!

So back to the offices to get changed and we handed our the Dark family t-shirts and set off back to the car and more food as by now everyone was very hungry. Quickly after we were off to the hotel to check in and everyone crashed out and slept for a bit. I didn’t want to so after a walk around the block Pokemon hunting I went back to the room but Tash was sound asleep so I took my swimming trunks and left her a message that I’d be in the bar and if she fancied the sauna she knew where to find me!!

About 25 minutes later her and Jack came down and I finished my pint before sitting in the sauna and whirlpool, not the best facilities but they did a job!

We all then got ready and met in the bar downstairs and we stayed there the night having drinks, chatting and a nice meal. Didn’t stay up too late but it was just lovely evening spending time together and finished off a really exceptional day all round

We asked Mum what she wanted to do as her next adventure but she couldn’t think of anything so we need to think more on that! A great day!

Working in Cheshire

So last night I worked late again and this morning up at 5.30am to get the train from Oxford (instead of Oxford Parkway) for once and travelled up to Cheshire for the training with TimStar. It was a long journey but much easier than driving but a fraction more expensive.

Got quite a lot done on the train and then had the session

Went well, a few sticky patches which had I had more testing time would not have happened, had I not tested though it would have been an absolute shambles because loads was missing and not working last night!!

Kept getting updates on the train from James as they were fixed!

Left and managed to get the 3.07pm train so was home about 6.15pm in the end. I didn't get much done on the way back, slept one journey and then started reading 'Eat That Frog' again and it suitably motivated me.

When I got in, after some lunch, I took the books advice and blitzed the action points from the day's session...was really pleased with what I achieved in the time I had. Didn't get to bed until 12.30am and have another early start tomorrow as off to GL again!!!

All quite tiring I must admit!!

23rd Wedding Anniversary meal

Didn’t get too much done in the morning today as still tired and groggy from the weekend’s activities and drinking! In fact I was so distracted I almost forgot about the meeting organised at Pearson for 10.00am but luckily something kicked in and I made it. Had a decent meeting with Sarah and Lisa and agreed to work on a mini project for them with the view to being involved again at a later date – if I can make a good fist of this one that would help me, not sure when I will actually fit it in though!

When I got home Lewis was up and it was nice to ignore my laptop for 45 minutes and chat and catch up, we don’t speak enough and it was good to do so. Loads going on for him and he’s enjoying life at the minute – obviously very important! He and Evie then packed up and went and met Tasha at work for a coffee and I got a few emails out the door but not much else if the truth be told, I wasn’t in the mood…

Tash got home about 12.30pm and we sorted a few things out before driving over to The Hand & Flowers for a meal there at a Michelin Star restaurant…and it was definitely worth its stars! We had a drink in the garden next to a fire…the sun was full out so not sure what that was about…and then inside and a lovely menu with absolutely gorgeous food, it really was a bit special. I went for the cheap option of fish and chips but the pea sauce tasted almost like satay – it was very nice indeed.

We had a nice afternoon and after two hours made our way home, absolutely stuffed to the rafters, I felt quite ill I was so full. Pottered around when back home and took Bess out for a walk and then caught up with some TV in the evening. Oh, before that I popped round to the neighbours from Saturday night and apologised and all is fine. He was mortified by the whole thing and was very apologetic as well, it was actually their baby-sitter that caused it all, amazing. So that’s all sorted, he was delighted I’d gone round to clear the air, as he’d wanted to but just wasn’t sure about it etc, I am pleased I made the first move as it showed I held no grudges about the episode at all.

When Miles and Charlotte came home around 9.00pm we chatted and listened to them and then at 10.00pm Jack came home and he told us of a story where one of his friends had hurt themselves on a zip wire and he was almost crying with laughter he couldn’t tell the story, it was lovely to see him like that, we did wonder if he’d had a drink but it was just this story that made him laugh so much. We all decided around 10.30pm to call an end to a long day and went to bed. Back to normal tomorrow…all too soon!

Posted the photo below on Facebook and got over 80 likes and 20 congratulatory comments – which was nice

 

General Catch Up…late shift!

Haven't done a late shift like this for a long time but I have a DotMailer training session with a customer and they wanted me to cover things that I am not familiar with. It will be interesting to see what happens because they want advice on subject lines, frequency and such like and that's not my area. But I did a bit of research and found things and bulletin points I could use. It did highlight to me how easy it is to get information and use it...I really need to read up more
But along with testing their functionality it meant I didn't get to bed until after 1.00am and needed to be up early for the train. (4th time of being on the train this week!)
I didn't watch it but France beat Germany in the Euro semi-final this evening 2-0 so it's them against Portugal after they'd beat Wales in the other semi-final
Work at GL today was ok, got through a lot of stuff and having been there at 7.30am, as I got the 5.31am train, it definitely felt like a very long day indeed!!
When I got home last night at 7.00pm there was new cardboard packaging outside...Tash had ordered the patio heater for the garden. She'd struggled to put it up so that was my job for an hour. Did it and it's huge, only problem was that it didn't work!! Just hope that the gas canister we are using is only good for the small table top one...will go and get a new one at the weekend.
Final comment, the Tories are voting on a new leader after David Cameron stepped down because of Brexit and it's going to be a woman...most likely Teresa May. So the obvious references are being made to Maggie Thatcher, no one will be like her but it will be interesting to see how she does.

Juno Rocket nears Jupiter

Working in London today after being in Birmingham yesterday and working late last night on a Help Guide for Jason. Quite tired I have to admit as I was then up at 5.00am

Interesting news today was that the Juno rocket probe to Jupiter arrived there today and will be orbiting the atmosphere there for 180 days. This is interesting because this was the launch that we saw at Cape Canaveral, I need to check thigh as it say it was x5 years ago, I can't believe it was that long since we went to the States...perhaps it was.

So today we'll see if there is anything else happening in the world of politics or entertainment, it's just one thing after another lately.

Mad world for certain at the moment.

Lewis passed…

Not sure how but he passed his exams so all the stress that we had about 5 weeks ago when he took them was for nothing…well perhaps not for nothing but thankfully he’d done enough to scrape through meaning there was no need for a re-take of his re-takes!!

Really pleased for him as he was so wanting to stay on the course and be at Uni next year. Whether this is a good thing or not I really don’t know as he doesn’t plough in all the additional work to get up to speed as far as I can tell, he’s very much like me in that respect. Especially as he now has a mentor who he’s meeting and he loves all that and is responding to the bloke he’s working with – much like me when working with Allan.

He is continuing with his review of dyslexia and anything else that will help him with techniques, stress and exam situations – fingers crossed.

He’s been back down to see us a couple of times so it’s been good to see him. I need to be better at keeping in touch with him though, I am useless at communications, it’s not right.

Fathers Day

Had a nice day today and was treated by the kids to loads of chocolate, lovely cards and a dodgy t-shirt from Lewis! Charlotte & Miles made breakfast and it was perfect and then I started working on doing a video compilation of the Paintballing yesterday – I got it finished by the end of the day and it’s visible below:
Oxford City Paintballing

At lunchtime we went out to Forest Farm and collected a load of strawberries so that Tash could make her yearly jam and when we got back home we walked down to the Perch. Bess was funny and was in the water all the time. Charlotte then treated us to lunch, we all has burgers, and I got the drinks. Very, very generous of her as it’s expensive there for the best of us.
Stayed a while and then wandered back home and pottered around the house, I finished that video and then we watched TV whether it was a film, programme or the football, just nice and relaxed.
Didn’t do much else really, we were all pretty tired and had an early night in the end.
Nice day and made me feel guilty that I don’t make more of an effort for Tasha – one year I will.

Jack’s Diary Entry

Jack is working hard for his Citizenship exam which takes place tomorrow and to be honest I am not overly confident in his ability in this, I am quite surprised as his English and writing ability. So this weekend we have been working on it hard and as anyone would confirm, it’s just practise that makes all the different and to be far even this weekend I can see an improvement.

So this morning (Sunday) I was up quite early and he was then up at around 7.30am and I had already decided that I was going to get him to write a diary entry, something that would be a lot of text, as he had a very busy day yesterday, and it would get him writing and hopefully being enthusiastic about something. So below is what he wrote…I’ll get him to do it again in the future.

Title: What I did yesterday – Saturday

I woke up on Saturday morning and immediately had a shower and got ready for training. My dad told me previously that we are going running so I was really dreading it. We got in the car and listened to our usual house music….at 9.00am!

When we arrived I stood with my team chanting at Twariq & Naz in a race at Cutteslowe Park, we were laughing at Twariq because he went the wrong way. Naz came 5th

It was funny when they came back to us to train because we went on another run! I ran next to Harley at the front, my Dad couldn’t keep up so he left us and walked a short cut to the pavilion but we still beat him.

After running we had a fun session on the freshly cut cricket grass – we all had tired legs so it was very slow.

After training we came home and I had to do even more Citizenship revision for my GCSE’s on Monday and Thursday next week. I revised until 12.30pm then I got ready for work, 6 hour shift. When I got to work my legs were shattered and it was so busy. I felt like crying! To get me through I had to constantly be sipping on my nice cool coke, I also tried to stay outside in the sun for as long as possible.

At 7.00pm my shift finished and I had to go home and get ready for my party and I had to be at Hal’s by 8.00pm. I went to the fridge and got out my WKD and Cider and made my way to Cutteslowe, Mum & Dad dropped me off as they were going out to a Race Night for Chloe Holden to race money for her Ecuador trip, I was excited for the party.

When we were on our way I thought we were lost in the middle of nowhere, then a castle popped up out of nowhere and we got outside thinking we were at the wrong place but no, it was just a private school party!

At the party I saw loads of lads I knew from football and rugby when I was about 11 years old, they recognised me and were talking about how good I was when we all played, it was really nice to see them. I came home at 11.30pm and Dad was asleep on the sofa with Bessie so I didn’t wake him and went to bed, a great day and night.

So busy

Working really hard at the minute as I'm all over the place. This week I've been at GL in London on Tuesday, Findel on Wednesday in Enfield which I then drive up to Mancgester to do more training for them in Hyde before coming back down to Oxford Thursday night and I'm back on the train now to London for GL.

I think Tash is finding it hard work as I am quite stretched meaning I'm not much use around the house as I'm not there enough. Can't even say I'll make it up over the weekend as I have a fair amount of football on. Mind you April is always so busy and having the Bank Holiday last week and going to Bournemouth feels like we've not had a break. Hopefully have a BBQ at some point this weekend. 

So we've rolled out the new Spirit v8 to a customer and the training went well and I received some nice comments hut it was also quite hard with a couple of users in either being thick as shit and slowing things down or two scots just talking throughout. Rude!

Anyway, Tash is trying to sort holiday in the US out so with all this work hopefully it will enable us to pay for it without denying out savings...we shall see. Also, the GL work isn't permanent so I need to get out of it whatever I can. 

One good thing about all this is that my body clock is starting to adjust to waking around 5.15am. Partly because Bess has worked out how to get out of her cage and like clockwork she comes up to our bedroom to snuggle up with us...always at 5.00am!! But I've been leaving early so my alarm is set for 5.30am anyway. 

I'm happy to be getting up this early as I'm slowly become more energetic in the morning rather than at night so hopefully this will continue. 

Finally, we've bought a set of bathroom scales. I suggested it as we're both complaining we're overweight but not really doing much about it. Although Tash does more exercise than me so is better than me but without a measure it makes it hard to be motivated...I'm just over 13 stone!!! Fuck!!!! 

Anyway, almost at work so signing off now. 

Lewis 21st Birthday

So Lewis is now 21! How old does that make me feel? Or is that such a cliched term from a parent?

Never mind if it, it does make me realise my mortality and age...scary. 

Anyway, it's not about me, it's him. Unfortunately I'm not around the house today as I have to be at a customers in London but I'll be seeing them later. Don't tell him but a surprise is that we're going to the Ice Bar in Regent Street and then out for a meal afterwards, should be fun. So I am already here in London so that's a bit of a bonus!

We've not got him a great deal, partly because his main present is a personalised number plate which he's already received because of problems it caused with insurance and such like. 

Should be a good weekend of celebrations as we have a family party tomorrow night and then we're going up to Huddersfield with him Saturday to go out with him and his mates, we're staying the night so I suspect it will be a messy affair!! 

Then it's Tasha's birthday which I've not planned for at all...what's new there?!?

Anyway, hopefully all will go well, we've worked hard on sorting out the back garden and getting new plants and some expensive furniture in place so it should be good. 

Well, I am on the tube right now about to arrive at GL so will sign off now. 

Barcelona day 1. 16.03.2016

Up at 5.20am and on the road 30 mins later. Easy run down to Heathrow Terminal 4. No problems with passport control and then into the pub for breakfast and two pints at 7.45am!!

Flight was a bit late leaving and I'm typing this a bit nervous about my connecting flight from Paris because it's a 25 mins window. 

Really excited about this trip, I hope it lives up to my expectations. Emailed tucks and he's there at the hotel at 9.00am. 

Really quick flight across and free beer. Was cheeky and asked for another as we we're descending and they gave me one. Felt very special!!

Landed fine then ran like mad to get to the connecting flight. Got there in good time in the end but that wasn't enjoyable. Very nervous and worried feeling. Now on the Tarmac at Paris waiting to go again.  Said I'd not have any beers but we'll see! Should try and have a snooze. 

Starting our descent into Barcelona and I didn't keep to my plans...they gave us a nice cheese sandwich and then I asked for x2 beers and she smiled and gave me them! Typical English I bet she was thinking!! Feeling a bit light headed I must admit. Ah well. Getting nervous about this weekend. Keep thinking about the football match I'm playing in, I'm so hoping I don't let myself or anyone else down with my lack of fitness. Too late to do much about it now though. 

Jack’s 15th Birthday

So our youngest son is 15 today, we were up early as it’s a normal working day and then downstairs having breakfast (Coco Pops of course!) and he opened his presents. I was pleased in that the Barcelona top arrived and it fitted him really well and he opened other presents and the final one was tickets to see Tinie Tempah at the Brixton Academy on Saturday with x2 of his mates. He was delighted with those and I think he was almost going to cry, it was lovely to see.

It was quite strange only being the x3 of us instead of the family of x5 – something we’ll have to get used to I guess.

We all then had to go to work so I took Bessie out for a quick walk and then notice that the drains were over-flowing, this was the worse I’ve ever seen them so I got my rods out and then experienced for the first time them snapping! The shit just wouldn’t move…literally… So I tried another pole and that snapped too. I couldn’t believe it. Pete then came out and made me feel a bit awkward implying that he’d have tried something else!

We left it that he’d have a go otherwise sort out Dyno-Rod to come along and sort it, I went to work with that awful smell in my nostrils trying to think of what I could do and had a plan of action for lunchtime. Worked at Raintree today so that was lucky but it was full on and busy but it was enjoyable and then came home to see Pete’s rods were out but he’d had no luck either so I had another go with his rods and every got my hands down into the drain in amongst all the sewage and managed to pull out both my broken poles and then I don’t know how managed to work it all loose and remove the blockage. Pete came out and couldn’t believe it and quickly cancelled Dyno-Rod so we didn’t get the charge and all was happy – although the smell was worse and I changed my clothes!!

Back to work in the afternoon and then home and out for dinner to the Harvester in Kidlington, Zoe and the girls came along and it was a nice meal and catch up. The staff were really amused when they had to bring out his cake as it was only a Battenberg cake but as we know he loves those!! Came home and pottered about at home, I had some urgent work to finish, but didn’t finish it and then went to bed at 9.30pm as I want to be off early in the morning to London on the train because working at GL I am getting pissed off with driving and how long that takes so I think it’s the same amount of time on the train but as I am doing now I am able to get some work and emails sorted…or my diary!

We’ll see how it goes!

Got to love Jack’s Facebook profile – I think he cheated on his age so as to get an account!!

End of an era….again…?

It was the over 35’s semi final this evening against Wantage at Wallingford Town FC. I went along expecting to be sub and unsurprisingly I was, bit disappointed but I felt good with my back so was keen to get involved.

It was a quick game but we were poor in the first half and were a goal down. Didn’t get on at half-time and was slowly getting more and more pissed off, eventually we got back into the game and we went 2-1 up. I was put on with 11 minutes left, I was fuming, we scored again and I did some good play to set up a chance that was missed.

Final whistle and we won 3-1, I just got dressed without a shower and drove home, I was so pissed off.

Not sure if it’s my pride, ego or what. They seem to just want fit players and I am not one of those, I have a different quality to give to the team in terms of experience, calmness and quality in possession, but they just want people that are going to run around a lot. I will try and get that little bit fitter but I think my time with the 35s has come to an end, I really don’t know if I want to go back.

Simon asked if I would be available next week implying I would play the whole match, but I don’t want charity, I am either good enough or I am not, clearly for me not to make the starting 11 and then with x5 subs still not get on until the last 10 minutes (4th sub) they don’t trust me to do a job.

It’s been a pleasure but this is ignominious!

*and yes, I am sulking!!

Decent weekend

On Friday I hardly got any work done, I procrastinate so much it’s ridiculous, I know I am doing it yet I can’t help myself. So I was down in Summertown getting stuff for the meal later and then driving Jack to Headington with his mates, just avoiding work!

In the evening Andrew and Alison came over and brought Grace with them and it was a nice evening. Caught up with loads of chat and told them about us travelling to the States in August which they seemed pleased about. It was a boozy or late night, just really pleasant.

Saturday I worked on the patio as we need to get it cleaned up as it looks horrible with the dirt and algae so I spent a couple of hours kneeling down and scrubbing bleach into the damn thing.

I then spent a bit of time downloading a few new podcasts and I found some good ones which I am pleased with and it’s been a bit motivating, we’ll see if it makes any difference or not!

We went to Milton Keynes in the afternoon and took Jack with us and did a bit of shopping, it was quite successful, I managed to get x2 pairs of new shoes and we got other stuff for Tash and Jack

Came home, quite late in fact and had a nice Indian meal that was pre-made…cheats!

Sunday, today, was okay as well. I worked on the patio pressure washing it this time and it took me bloody ages! At least 3.5 hours, I was knackered afterwards and everything ached. I was listening to my phone and podcasts throughout this which was great. I then went to a cycle ride, I have to get back to some degree of fitness, I really have to, so I was slow and steady, quite pathetic really but it was 12 miles in over an hour and I know I can do better but it is the first step…or pedal! We’ll see if I can make it into a routine or not, I am hoping to just have a better shape ahead of our trip to India.

We worked with Jack on some of his homework, he is becoming a real nightmare at the minute, such a bad attitude and argumentative, it’s such hard work and makes this painful. He’s a real teenager and it’s frustrating. Hopefully one day he’ll grow out of it!

In the evening we pottered around and I worked on my laptop and watched TV with Tash.

A nice weekend, as usual it went too quickly!!

Struggling with work & life balance

I'm struggling with everything at the minute

Work is really hard to get motivated for, I just can't be bothered to get my head down and get on with things, I'm distracted by anything other than working, it's ridiculous I know and I am only hurting myself and my family but I am just so tired all the time and make excuses to watch TV or something, I've not really worked hard since December!

My body isn't in good shape either! I am incredibly fat and I am sure this is affecting my back and legs. I'm trying to do a bit more exercise at home now but walking the dog last night I can't run more than 200 metres, that's both through lack of fitness and getting out of breath but also my back/legs hurting.

I'll continue for now to try and lose some weight and get into some shape, especially with our trip to India coming up soon, I am fed up with being embarrassed by fat photos!

Charlottes Gap Adventure–Day 2

Message from Charlotte last night with a video saying how mad Delhi is, provided some video but it seemed normal enough to me. They have a nice room in the hotel which for what they made is amazing. Couple of messages exchanged and we sorted out a WhatsApp group with the Phelans as Miles hasn't touched base with them yet!

Another message from Charlotte this morning saying how tired she was and how much they both hated Delhi so they're not staying any longer and are moving on to Jaipur right away.

Not really sure what that is about but it's their choice, I told her to relax a bit and she's bound to be tired and emotional and it's a completely different culture to what she's used to so it will take time to adjust.

No doubt this will worry Tash but never mind.

She’s tired!!

Got an update later in the day and they had a great day and are really happy – talk about change of mind! They’ve already booked a flight to go down to Kerala which seems a bit early and like they’re running away from the North – seems a shame to me but I’m not going to say too much

London Bus - Colour and B&W Photo

I took this on the Family bus tour to London last year and then using an app obviously tweaked it, I was pleased with the result! (So were a few friends as well…)

Charlotte’s Trip to Asia – Day One

Charlotte and Miles started their Asia Adventure today!

She had a relaxing day doing final preparations in the morning and meeting up with family at lunchtime and then we took her over to Miles house to sort out their bags and then we were off to Heathrow in two cars.

Bit of traffic on the way because of problems on the M25 but we avoided that and were soon parked up in the airport and enjoying a 'last meal' together talking about the coming trip and offering last bits of advice

Saw them off at the luggage check-in and then said our goodbyes - predictably Tash got upset but with good reason, she's off now for 4.5 months - that's a long, long time to be away and all the things that could happen.

Obviously it's crossed my mind the negative things that are out there but you can't dwell on those and just hope there won't be anything 'major'. That's all you can do, they're both sensible kids so I am sure they'll be fine and it will be plain sailing and they will have the time of their lives.

I am both nervous and excited for her.

Came home and I tracked their flight on the internet once it was up and running and the screenshot below shows them over Belgium, I then went to bed!

Really hope it goes well for them, will look forward to updates throughout.

 

Jack Football Week Training

Took Jack and his x2 mates (Awadh and David) to Nottingham University to arrive at 5.30pm after a couple of hours drive. Jack has been very excited about it all day and it was a bit intimidating when we arrived as there were loads of lads all very serious and focussed, Jack looked so small compared to them all I must admit. We registered, got their room keys, checked out his room and dumped the luggage and I then left them to it. Journey home was fine.

I texted him later in the evening and he said all was fine, food was okay and tomorrow he would find out more about his team he's involved with etc, Natasha said she'd had more contact with him when she came in from her drinks night out.

It's hard to know how he'll fare, I am sure he's capable to hold his own and hopefully he will impress. More importantly, perhaps, it will focus his mind on things progressing in terms of his plans as a player or being involved in sport in some capacity such as physio or psychology because the evening seminars sound interesting as well.

Got home bang on 8.00pm and even after telling myself during the car journey I would focus on this, that and the other for my fitness Lewis and I just crashed on the sofa and watch the film called 'Dragon' - this including the main actor from Ip Man which is one of my favourite martial arts films I think. This Dragon film was very good as well, really enjoyed it but sometimes a little hard to follow as it jumped about. Bed at 10.30pm - early start tomorrow!

Happy New Year

Woke up without any sort of hangover around 9.00am and just pottered around the bedroom sorting out the clothes etc until time to meet for breakfast around 11.00am. Everyone was down and once finished went our separate ways, us coming straight home, Holdens and Carrolls both going for seaside walks.

Drive home was uneventful and once home unpacked and all that. 

Didn't do much else, we're both not feeling too good but took the decorations down and Claire brought Bess back safe and sound. She'd had a nice time but was also pleased to see us. 

Round to Sue's for dinner and then home watching films in the evening

Bit of a nothing start to the New Year but let's see how this one pans out shall we?

Life goes on

So I've been bleeding each time I've gone to toilet for x5 days now so decided to go to the doctors to take a look. Obviously I've thought the worse but they couldn't confirm either way. 

They checked and now I've got a prescription so will see what happens over the next few days and whether I need further tests. 

Tash was in such a fucking stupid mood and sulking about everything and being so argumentative as she wasn't feeling well either and needed antibiotics. 

So she's moaning at me and I replied that it was good she was interested in what the doctors said and her reply will stick with me for a very long time indeed:

"Whatever it is, life goes on!"

Whilst I'm not trying to be overly dramatic that really pissed me off. So I walked out and saw Great Grandma, got my prescription and read in the kidlington library and then went down the Botley road...anything to avoid returning home. 

I can't say anything more. 

Bit of a wasted day...

Woke up late and stayed in bed until about 10.30am. Tash was very ill and hungover and remained so for the whole day, literally stayed on the sofa from midday until 9.00pm watching films.

I had something to eat and then went to football at City for 1.30pm and we played Pershore in the over 50's cup. Too many under 50's were there so we didn't get much playing time as you're only allowed x3 on the pitch but it was ok. A very comfortable win in the end and I had a decent run out. 7-1 I think it finished at. 

Had a drink and some food afterwards and then came home and crashed out on the sofa myself and watched films whilst Tash slept

Made dinner and also Jack had a girl round. Called Elsa and it was very sweet indeed, they were just chilling upstairs in his bedroom. He probably thought I'd tease him when she left but I didn't, I'd like him to get involved with girls more so deliberately didn't make a thing about it. 

He didn't make out that she was a girlfriend or anything like that, just mates. 

So after dinner and more skinning around went to bed around midnight. Another wasted day in my life...

University Place & Tears of Joy

Just got of the phone to Charlotte who kept bursting into tears as she's so pleased and relieved to have been offered an unconditional place at Nottingham Trent University. 

Absolutely delighted for her and over the moon, so very, very proud indeed. No stress or anything like that, she's in 

The course sounds right for her as well because it's more the kids one that she was after but more importantly is the fact that it's not got any paper examinations!! Not sure how that works but that's what it is. 

Again, really pleased for her, when I get home from Birmingham and she's back from work I think we'll be having some champagne. 

Will miss her though.  

Firefighting and a PR exercise

Groupcall project went live on Monday and today being Thursday I'm travelling back down to South Woodford to help straighten a few things out. 

Lots of emails back and forth between me and the users and EdCo techies with all sorts of issues relating to data, functionality and processes. It's been so full on and the two days working at Peters Books and Raintre have been constantly interrupted by this. 

I'm absulutely shattered, bed at midnight last night and then up at 5.45am to get the train. Didn't sleep in train either, spent the whole hour sorting through emails and housekeeping. 

I think we're getting there but confidence isn't as high as it could be. But then Darren and I've not had too much support from anyone else. 

Anyway, weiting this in the tube and almost there. Played for the vets last night. We had a cup game that I tried to get out off because of my work but I was told I was needed. However, the other team weren't too good, 2 got injured so we were playing 9, and with 11 they weren't a match really. About 4-0 up at halftime I was able to come off and go home to work! The other lads couldn't believe it when Grossy said, " Jools is coming off so he can go home and work!"

It helped of course. 

Cinema visit to finish my birthday off

As part of my birthday celebration (the last part!) we went to see James Bond's new film, Spectre. We don't go to the cinema very much so it's a bit of a treat when we do. In saying that I will be going to the new Star Wars film in December as well!

So it was me, Tash, Jack, Charlotte & Miles, we collected our tickets and took out specified seats and just as well. It was packed. You couldn't just sit anyway like you used to. I also treated myself to a popcorn as well...birthday treat!

The film didn't disappoint, 2.5hrs long and it flew by. We all really enjoyed it and having Blofeldt back as a villain was done really well. Glad we went. Walked back to the College to get the car and then I needed to work the rest of the night. 

A decent weekend.

Pleased as punch with my popcorn and drink...

Full on day at work

Say I was worried about today but it appeared to go okay. I got to their offices in good time and sat and worked closely with Steve.

Obviously there were a few problems but I worked with the guys at the Education Company and we got things fixed very quickly. 

Many of the problems could have been avoided if proper testing has been carried out in the time they had but clearly not enough had taken place.

Anyway it could have gone a lot worse but thankfully everything was quite positive and I am not overly concerned about the full training on Monday.

I still didn't leave until around 5 PM but I managed to catch the 515 train back to Oxford Parkway and made it home for 7:15 so a long day but quite productive

I am absolutely shattered now and typing this up waiting for Natasha outside of the new theatre know the playhouse as she is watching a show.

There was some drama at home because Charlotte stood on Bessie and the poor dog was limping around feeling sorry for itself and Charlotte was in floods of tears. However all is fine and the dog is as mad as ever she is lovely 

Oxford Parkway Train Service

Decided to try the new train station today to get the Marylebone and was really impressed. Parking currently free because of problems with their machines so that's a bonus immediately!!

Loads of space and nice and clean...well it is brand new! 6.31am train and hardly anyone on it. Stopped at Bicester Village shopping centre where more people joined but I had so much room. Very happy with that. Total journey time was 1hr

Trains back are very 30 mins so it should be fine. Can only use it for Marylebone at the minute and it starts from Oxford Parkway, not sure if they plan on starting in Oxford or not

A good first experience and I'll definitely use it again

A long day..

Was up and out to Bicester for the 6.45am train to London, watched opposite as the one to Burmingham that I will get tomorrow went past. It was then about an hour on the tube and walking to South Woodford and Groupcall 

Today was the first training session for the Spirit install project that has taken up so much of our time in the last few months. Something I was very nervous about which is unlike me. 

It all went okay to be fair and I had nothing to worry about but there were so many questions and new requests, it really was bloody hard work. By the time I left at around 5.00pm I was shattered. I earnt my money today!

Train home and got in about 7.30pm. Chatted to the student a bit and then collected Charlotte from work as she had to get a lift as her bike was locked to Tasha's and she'd kept the key...oops!

Tash went out with Nicki for a few drinks and I sorted of worked on the sofa whilst watching tv, I wasn't really in the mood but didn't go to bed until 12.30am which was stupid as I need to be up at 5.45am tomorrow again as I'm off to Peters Books. 

Jack went to football training which Paddy was doing but he was a bit underwhelmed which was disappointing to hear. He did the same session as before which I thought was okay so surprised it wasn't as good this time. 

Oxford City over 50's debut!

Set the alarm for 6.20am last night and was up and down working until 9.00am. Got quite a bit done, would rather not have to do it but the work's there so might as well do what I can

Got some food then took Jack to football, did some more work in the car and then went and watched. They played Ducklington and once again they proved too strong for our lads. But disappointing really as out lads didn't give it a really go. Ah well. Dropped Jack home and had something to eat and then went down to Oxford City myself for the over 50's vets. 

There were a few familiar faces and the usual silly chatter was taking place. We played Goring who only had 10 players and it was very comfortable. I struggled with my fitness, not impressed. 

We then offered to give them a player so I volunteered and it was ok. They weren't very good so I had to work really hard, I was still really competitive trying to tackle and beat my City teammates. We won in the end by about 6. I was shattered as I played the whole match. 

Had a drink and a chat afterwards and they want me to play regularly which suits me. 

Came home and our new Polish student was here and she seemed nice enough, very chatty and that so I think our concerns about her reduced. In email exchanges she seemed very nervous

I went back out into the office and worked until 9.30pm and then came in and went to bed. 

Worried about the session tomorrow at Groupcall, we've done so much work for them and this project has run and run with so many changes, God only knows what it will be like with people tomorrow

Futsal Tournament

Cut the trees back first thing in the morning and really worked the over!

Got ready and then took Jack to Swindon for the Futsal tournament we’d entered into. I had a pretty full squad but no goalies which was a frustration so we needed volunteers. There was a bit of a balls up when a few teams didn’t turn up so things were re-arranged and I had both my teams on at the same time.

I tried to leave them to it to do their own thing in terms playing time and goalies and it worked really well. We played a few teams we’ve already played and lost to (Ready and FGR) and they clearly thought they’d beat us comfortably…they were mistaken!

It was a league basis and in the combined 8 games my two teams had we won 7 of them. Some good football played and it was enjoyable. Team A went through to the Semi final but Team B seemed to get stitched up and didn’t get through – I still don’t quite get how that happened.

So they played the strong FGR in the semi and held them and that went to penalties and we beat them

In the final we played a very strong team – not sure who they were – but we lost 3-1 in the end. Never mind, it was a good afternoon and they should now have that confidence that they can compete and beat these teams. I was very proud of them.

Jack’s First Proper Concert

He loved it!

We took Jack and Harvey to Birmingham this evening to see Major Lazer in concert, neither had been to a full on concert before, and certainly not on their own. They were excited and nervous as the same time. We drove up no problem and parked opposite Peters Books and I gave them a very quick tour or my area there!

We went to the O2 Academy and the queue was massive, we were worried about them being checked for their age so we decided to wait with them, we had their passports but we didn’t want them to keep them so we waited in the queue and it wasn’t so bad actually. They had no problem whatsoever getting in and then they were gone!

We went round the corner and found a very nice authentic Chinese restaurant (you’re spoilt for choice in the Chinese Quarter!) and had a nice meal. Far too much food but it was good. Tash had a few glasses of wine and a few things to get off her chest at me, wasn’t very pleasant and was a bit unnecessary and out of the blue. I ignored it after initially being pissed off but it was going to ruin the evening.

We then had time to kill so got a nice coffee in a local hotel and then it was time to get the lads, we managed to get them from outside with flukey driving past at the right time but it worked

They were buzzing, so pleased for them, they had such a great experience and are keen to go again asap. They were chatting for much of the way home, we stopped and got them some burgers and made it home around mid-night.

I was pleased they had a good time, the support acts weren’t so hot but Major Lazer were very good – and very loud! It made me smile when Jack and Harvey got in the car they asked if they were shouting because they couldn’t hear themselves properly!

Money and time well spent! We’ll do that again and hopefully Tash will be more relaxed with me!!

New laptop

Testing this out – any good? Seems okay so far!!

Centre Parcs Sunday

Up at around 8.45am without a hangover so nice bonus!! All round to Sue's for breakfast, had a big fry-up. No hurry to do anything as our hooking for an activity was at 4.00pm

So we pottered around and then went for a walk to the Jardin de Sports and had a drink there. Cycling down the massive hill was a laugh and it was pleasant

We then went to the centre shops and did some shopping before people went their separate ways. Jack and I went to the car and found my camera at last and the cycled round exploring. 

Tash needed up home at 2.00pm as she didn't have any keys so we did that, watched some TV and I then got ready and went to the JDS again but this time on the train. 

We then had out table tennis tournament and it was good fun. Jess and I were teamed together and we did well, a couple of exciting games and we made it to the final against Jack and twice we were at a tiebreak but we couldn't quite finish him off and he triumphed. 

Everyone seemed to enjoy that and we then went for a pint in the Spirts cafe. After that we stopped at the park and there was a strange apparatus that enables you to go upside down that was brilliant. We were stupid!!

Got to the swimming pool and we'd timed it so it was dark now and had a few goes down the Rapids. All good silly fun. 

Didn't stay much longer than an hour or so and then got the train home. Had a 10 mins snooze and then round to Niks for dinner. Pulled pork, pulled pork as the chant went...

Everyone was absolutely shattered so it was a quiet night but it was still really pleasant and we had a laugh. A few rounds of pieface were played but no one was really up for it so it didn't last too long

Had a coffee and came home and in bed writing this by 11.30pm

A lovely day with a lovely family. We all get along so well. 

Giving blood & Jack's sleepover

Did my bit for society today by going up to the JR and giving blood. Always a nice atmosphere up here and I wish I could do it more often. Nice people and relatively painless, although I do hate the first time the needle goes in!

Knackered today, stiff as a board and hobbling around, Tash had to help put my socks on I couldn't reach down!!

After the blood donation I went to Aldi and got a load of snacks for Jacks sleepover this evening. He's got about 12 friends coming over, boys and girls, so that's going to be interesting!!

We accepted the idea because we don't really know his mates so it will be a good chance to do so. 

Worked quite late into the early evening before having a bath and then bed. Really struggling to walk around. I'm typing this whilst listening to the music being played outside on the patio

Jack's friends all turned up and it's a nice atmosphere so far, I lit the fire pit and their all sat round it in blankets chatting and having fun. If it stays like that I'll be happy, I'm not confident though, I think there's a few excitable lads here. We'll see, I'm not judging yet