Bit of a wasted day...

Woke up late and stayed in bed until about 10.30am. Tash was very ill and hungover and remained so for the whole day, literally stayed on the sofa from midday until 9.00pm watching films.

I had something to eat and then went to football at City for 1.30pm and we played Pershore in the over 50's cup. Too many under 50's were there so we didn't get much playing time as you're only allowed x3 on the pitch but it was ok. A very comfortable win in the end and I had a decent run out. 7-1 I think it finished at. 

Had a drink and some food afterwards and then came home and crashed out on the sofa myself and watched films whilst Tash slept

Made dinner and also Jack had a girl round. Called Elsa and it was very sweet indeed, they were just chilling upstairs in his bedroom. He probably thought I'd tease him when she left but I didn't, I'd like him to get involved with girls more so deliberately didn't make a thing about it. 

He didn't make out that she was a girlfriend or anything like that, just mates. 

So after dinner and more skinning around went to bed around midnight. Another wasted day in my life...

University Place & Tears of Joy

Just got of the phone to Charlotte who kept bursting into tears as she's so pleased and relieved to have been offered an unconditional place at Nottingham Trent University. 

Absolutely delighted for her and over the moon, so very, very proud indeed. No stress or anything like that, she's in 

The course sounds right for her as well because it's more the kids one that she was after but more importantly is the fact that it's not got any paper examinations!! Not sure how that works but that's what it is. 

Again, really pleased for her, when I get home from Birmingham and she's back from work I think we'll be having some champagne. 

Will miss her though.  

Firefighting and a PR exercise

Groupcall project went live on Monday and today being Thursday I'm travelling back down to South Woodford to help straighten a few things out. 

Lots of emails back and forth between me and the users and EdCo techies with all sorts of issues relating to data, functionality and processes. It's been so full on and the two days working at Peters Books and Raintre have been constantly interrupted by this. 

I'm absulutely shattered, bed at midnight last night and then up at 5.45am to get the train. Didn't sleep in train either, spent the whole hour sorting through emails and housekeeping. 

I think we're getting there but confidence isn't as high as it could be. But then Darren and I've not had too much support from anyone else. 

Anyway, weiting this in the tube and almost there. Played for the vets last night. We had a cup game that I tried to get out off because of my work but I was told I was needed. However, the other team weren't too good, 2 got injured so we were playing 9, and with 11 they weren't a match really. About 4-0 up at halftime I was able to come off and go home to work! The other lads couldn't believe it when Grossy said, " Jools is coming off so he can go home and work!"

It helped of course. 

Cinema visit to finish my birthday off

As part of my birthday celebration (the last part!) we went to see James Bond's new film, Spectre. We don't go to the cinema very much so it's a bit of a treat when we do. In saying that I will be going to the new Star Wars film in December as well!

So it was me, Tash, Jack, Charlotte & Miles, we collected our tickets and took out specified seats and just as well. It was packed. You couldn't just sit anyway like you used to. I also treated myself to a popcorn as well...birthday treat!

The film didn't disappoint, 2.5hrs long and it flew by. We all really enjoyed it and having Blofeldt back as a villain was done really well. Glad we went. Walked back to the College to get the car and then I needed to work the rest of the night. 

A decent weekend.

Pleased as punch with my popcorn and drink...

Full on day at work

Say I was worried about today but it appeared to go okay. I got to their offices in good time and sat and worked closely with Steve.

Obviously there were a few problems but I worked with the guys at the Education Company and we got things fixed very quickly. 

Many of the problems could have been avoided if proper testing has been carried out in the time they had but clearly not enough had taken place.

Anyway it could have gone a lot worse but thankfully everything was quite positive and I am not overly concerned about the full training on Monday.

I still didn't leave until around 5 PM but I managed to catch the 515 train back to Oxford Parkway and made it home for 7:15 so a long day but quite productive

I am absolutely shattered now and typing this up waiting for Natasha outside of the new theatre know the playhouse as she is watching a show.

There was some drama at home because Charlotte stood on Bessie and the poor dog was limping around feeling sorry for itself and Charlotte was in floods of tears. However all is fine and the dog is as mad as ever she is lovely 

Oxford Parkway Train Service

Decided to try the new train station today to get the Marylebone and was really impressed. Parking currently free because of problems with their machines so that's a bonus immediately!!

Loads of space and nice and clean...well it is brand new! 6.31am train and hardly anyone on it. Stopped at Bicester Village shopping centre where more people joined but I had so much room. Very happy with that. Total journey time was 1hr

Trains back are very 30 mins so it should be fine. Can only use it for Marylebone at the minute and it starts from Oxford Parkway, not sure if they plan on starting in Oxford or not

A good first experience and I'll definitely use it again

A long day..

Was up and out to Bicester for the 6.45am train to London, watched opposite as the one to Burmingham that I will get tomorrow went past. It was then about an hour on the tube and walking to South Woodford and Groupcall 

Today was the first training session for the Spirit install project that has taken up so much of our time in the last few months. Something I was very nervous about which is unlike me. 

It all went okay to be fair and I had nothing to worry about but there were so many questions and new requests, it really was bloody hard work. By the time I left at around 5.00pm I was shattered. I earnt my money today!

Train home and got in about 7.30pm. Chatted to the student a bit and then collected Charlotte from work as she had to get a lift as her bike was locked to Tasha's and she'd kept the key...oops!

Tash went out with Nicki for a few drinks and I sorted of worked on the sofa whilst watching tv, I wasn't really in the mood but didn't go to bed until 12.30am which was stupid as I need to be up at 5.45am tomorrow again as I'm off to Peters Books. 

Jack went to football training which Paddy was doing but he was a bit underwhelmed which was disappointing to hear. He did the same session as before which I thought was okay so surprised it wasn't as good this time. 

Oxford City over 50's debut!

Set the alarm for 6.20am last night and was up and down working until 9.00am. Got quite a bit done, would rather not have to do it but the work's there so might as well do what I can

Got some food then took Jack to football, did some more work in the car and then went and watched. They played Ducklington and once again they proved too strong for our lads. But disappointing really as out lads didn't give it a really go. Ah well. Dropped Jack home and had something to eat and then went down to Oxford City myself for the over 50's vets. 

There were a few familiar faces and the usual silly chatter was taking place. We played Goring who only had 10 players and it was very comfortable. I struggled with my fitness, not impressed. 

We then offered to give them a player so I volunteered and it was ok. They weren't very good so I had to work really hard, I was still really competitive trying to tackle and beat my City teammates. We won in the end by about 6. I was shattered as I played the whole match. 

Had a drink and a chat afterwards and they want me to play regularly which suits me. 

Came home and our new Polish student was here and she seemed nice enough, very chatty and that so I think our concerns about her reduced. In email exchanges she seemed very nervous

I went back out into the office and worked until 9.30pm and then came in and went to bed. 

Worried about the session tomorrow at Groupcall, we've done so much work for them and this project has run and run with so many changes, God only knows what it will be like with people tomorrow

Futsal Tournament

Cut the trees back first thing in the morning and really worked the over!

Got ready and then took Jack to Swindon for the Futsal tournament we’d entered into. I had a pretty full squad but no goalies which was a frustration so we needed volunteers. There was a bit of a balls up when a few teams didn’t turn up so things were re-arranged and I had both my teams on at the same time.

I tried to leave them to it to do their own thing in terms playing time and goalies and it worked really well. We played a few teams we’ve already played and lost to (Ready and FGR) and they clearly thought they’d beat us comfortably…they were mistaken!

It was a league basis and in the combined 8 games my two teams had we won 7 of them. Some good football played and it was enjoyable. Team A went through to the Semi final but Team B seemed to get stitched up and didn’t get through – I still don’t quite get how that happened.

So they played the strong FGR in the semi and held them and that went to penalties and we beat them

In the final we played a very strong team – not sure who they were – but we lost 3-1 in the end. Never mind, it was a good afternoon and they should now have that confidence that they can compete and beat these teams. I was very proud of them.

Jack’s First Proper Concert

He loved it!

We took Jack and Harvey to Birmingham this evening to see Major Lazer in concert, neither had been to a full on concert before, and certainly not on their own. They were excited and nervous as the same time. We drove up no problem and parked opposite Peters Books and I gave them a very quick tour or my area there!

We went to the O2 Academy and the queue was massive, we were worried about them being checked for their age so we decided to wait with them, we had their passports but we didn’t want them to keep them so we waited in the queue and it wasn’t so bad actually. They had no problem whatsoever getting in and then they were gone!

We went round the corner and found a very nice authentic Chinese restaurant (you’re spoilt for choice in the Chinese Quarter!) and had a nice meal. Far too much food but it was good. Tash had a few glasses of wine and a few things to get off her chest at me, wasn’t very pleasant and was a bit unnecessary and out of the blue. I ignored it after initially being pissed off but it was going to ruin the evening.

We then had time to kill so got a nice coffee in a local hotel and then it was time to get the lads, we managed to get them from outside with flukey driving past at the right time but it worked

They were buzzing, so pleased for them, they had such a great experience and are keen to go again asap. They were chatting for much of the way home, we stopped and got them some burgers and made it home around mid-night.

I was pleased they had a good time, the support acts weren’t so hot but Major Lazer were very good – and very loud! It made me smile when Jack and Harvey got in the car they asked if they were shouting because they couldn’t hear themselves properly!

Money and time well spent! We’ll do that again and hopefully Tash will be more relaxed with me!!

New laptop

Testing this out – any good? Seems okay so far!!

Centre Parcs Sunday

Up at around 8.45am without a hangover so nice bonus!! All round to Sue's for breakfast, had a big fry-up. No hurry to do anything as our hooking for an activity was at 4.00pm

So we pottered around and then went for a walk to the Jardin de Sports and had a drink there. Cycling down the massive hill was a laugh and it was pleasant

We then went to the centre shops and did some shopping before people went their separate ways. Jack and I went to the car and found my camera at last and the cycled round exploring. 

Tash needed up home at 2.00pm as she didn't have any keys so we did that, watched some TV and I then got ready and went to the JDS again but this time on the train. 

We then had out table tennis tournament and it was good fun. Jess and I were teamed together and we did well, a couple of exciting games and we made it to the final against Jack and twice we were at a tiebreak but we couldn't quite finish him off and he triumphed. 

Everyone seemed to enjoy that and we then went for a pint in the Spirts cafe. After that we stopped at the park and there was a strange apparatus that enables you to go upside down that was brilliant. We were stupid!!

Got to the swimming pool and we'd timed it so it was dark now and had a few goes down the Rapids. All good silly fun. 

Didn't stay much longer than an hour or so and then got the train home. Had a 10 mins snooze and then round to Niks for dinner. Pulled pork, pulled pork as the chant went...

Everyone was absolutely shattered so it was a quiet night but it was still really pleasant and we had a laugh. A few rounds of pieface were played but no one was really up for it so it didn't last too long

Had a coffee and came home and in bed writing this by 11.30pm

A lovely day with a lovely family. We all get along so well. 

Giving blood & Jack's sleepover

Did my bit for society today by going up to the JR and giving blood. Always a nice atmosphere up here and I wish I could do it more often. Nice people and relatively painless, although I do hate the first time the needle goes in!

Knackered today, stiff as a board and hobbling around, Tash had to help put my socks on I couldn't reach down!!

After the blood donation I went to Aldi and got a load of snacks for Jacks sleepover this evening. He's got about 12 friends coming over, boys and girls, so that's going to be interesting!!

We accepted the idea because we don't really know his mates so it will be a good chance to do so. 

Worked quite late into the early evening before having a bath and then bed. Really struggling to walk around. I'm typing this whilst listening to the music being played outside on the patio

Jack's friends all turned up and it's a nice atmosphere so far, I lit the fire pit and their all sat round it in blankets chatting and having fun. If it stays like that I'll be happy, I'm not confident though, I think there's a few excitable lads here. We'll see, I'm not judging yet

Dog or no dog?!?

So Natasha is really close to talking me into buying a dog. We've found a cockerpoo we like and Charlotte has already named him Chester!! About £450.00. I suspect we'll probably get him. Oh dear.

So anyway I worked at Raintree today, really busy and got loads done, was in early and didn't have a break so leaving at 4.30pm was acceptable. 

Came home and had something to eat and then got ready for football, we played at Thame today for the vets and they're likely to win the league this season so we knew before the match we'd be in for a really hard game but also with suspensions we knew it would be doubly hard. 

Sure enough we struggled for the first 10-15 minutes and went a goal down but we got back into it all and equalised. Second half was frustrating as we went 3-1 to sloppy goals but got one back. The game got really feisty and quite a few bookings ensued. We had them rattled and had two excellent chances at the end to equalise but they were spurned so we lost 3-2 in the end. Should have been draw I think would have been fair. Ah well, I will whisper this but I seem to be getting fitter and more mobile so hopefully that will continue although typing this up I'm struggling with my legs and back!

Had a drink afterwards and chatted to Liam Herbert and that was nice to catch up with him, Martin Brown and Dave Tregurtha also played so it was nice to see some old faces. 

Came home and watched the end of a film I started last night and then bed at 11.45pm. Couldn't be bothered to work. 

Will try and get up early in the morning

So let's see what's going to happen about this dog shall we???

Standing on a train

Done my bit for chivalry today...coming back from Birmingham and had to go to New Street Station instead of Moor street because of problems and it was absolutely packed out with loads of people standing. 

I got a seat but a woman not much older than me was stood close by so I offered up my seat and stood for 30 mins instead. Didn't mind as she was pleased. 

Although she didn't say thank you when she got off...ah well 

Decent day at work as well, was at Peters obviously and got a fair amount done. More next week!

Tash phoned me earlier in the afternoon as she'd heard that Claire's husband was found dead in bed this morning. Very, very sad and heartbreaking as they'd just sent their daughter to Uni and were planning a holiday away. Really sad indeed. You just never know when you're going to go. Tash now wants me to have a check up at the GPs which I'm entitled to. Guess I better book up and find out what's wrong with me!!

Writing this on the train so have work when I get home. Finding it really hard at the minute, my motivation is zero

Didn't do very well in the evening. Had dinner watching Hannibal and then took Hack to karate but slept in the car. Came home then watched last two episodes and enjoyed it. Went to bed late without turning my laptop on again. Nightmare. 

Charlottes Birthday - Part 2

So she's 19 today! Where has the time gone? It's so strange. They're all growing up far too quickly. 

We posted the usual comments on Facebook and throughout the day she got loads and loads of well wishes and also via text message which she showed me later and she was pleased about

In the morning we got up early and made pancakes for everyone and handed out her presents which she was pleased with

Normal day at work for everyone although I didn't have much of a day, wasn't with it at all. Felt terrible and didn't work in the end. Slept throughout

Still went to Jack's football in the evening and let Alex do the session. He was okay but I intervened a couple of times as the intensity was a bit lacking sometimes. Decent session in the end though and another good turnout with 16 players all there

On the way home I stopped at pizza express to pick up the food Tash had ordered and then went home. Charlotte was having a few friends over, wasn't as many as we expected in the end and was about 20 or so. We set up outside with the heater and the fire pit and it was a really nice evening. She's got lovely friends who are all chatty and friendly and accept Tash and I being around and see to enjoy our company as well

All of them are growing up and turning into good adults

We stayed up until about 10.45pm and left them to it, about 10 were left and they kept the noise down so that was good. I woke up at 1.30am and a couple were still out there talking but it was Jo problem. 

So our little baby is 19 years old and travelling the world later next spring...scary!!!

Charlottes Birthday - Part 1

We had a match in the morning for Jack's team and they played Cumnor. I was expecting a hard game and this in fact was the case. Cumnor rushed into a 2 goal lead before being dragged back to losing 3-2. 

We missed loads of chances to finish the match but they were kissed and with 4 mins left they equalised, very unjust in my opinion. Ah well, Jack did ok but again didn't really stand out which he needs to remedy. Came home and went out to do some shopping for the party later today and tomorrow. 

Got the house ready and then all the family turned up including Mum and Derek and the Phelans. It was really nice, loads of food, I didn't drink as I needed to work later (although that didn't happen!)

Tash got quite (very!) drunk and it made the very end of the evening unpleasant which was a shame hit the afternoon was great fun. 

Katie brought her pie face game which involves getting splattered with cream, all very amusing! It was a lovely afternoon and everyone really enjoyed it. Derek was downing the red wine so we need to keep that in mind for xmas I think, as well as a selfie stick. 

Everyone left by about 7.30pm and we cleaned up, I got that wrong by hoovering, it was bizarre and uncomfortable and I didn't like. I've just come to bed and left her to it. I don't like her when she's drunk like this as I think it just shows me how much she resents being with me. Not nice. 

So Charlotte is 19 tomorrow and we have 30 kids coming round. We're doing pancakes in the morning so I need to be up and at them first thing. 

So bed for me now and the alarm set for early. There's a red moon tonight so might try and see that. 

Rolling back the years – for 25 seconds!

Worked from home today, hard to get motivated if I am honest, a very unproductive day all told. Just couldn’t get the focus on anything important which is not ideal for a freelancer!

Anyway, got through the day and did get a few things sorted and up to date, not what I should have though!

I went to vets football in the evening, we were home to Chinnor and we all know what sort of competitive game that’s going to be, and it was! We’ve struggled the last couple of games and after a decent start found ourselves 0-2 down at half time, I was tired throughout but carried on. We got back into the game immediately scoring from their kick-off and then straight after that as well, it was bizarre. Suddenly found ourselves 3-2 up and they get clawing us back when it was 4-4 with a few minutes left.

I was linesman for about 10 minutes and then Nathan got a bad injury so I was back on and then went on a run down the wing, didn’t get the cross in but made up for it chasing down a ball into the 6 yard box, pulling it back for Lee Smith to smash in the winner – a good goal and a great team spirited performance.

What was interesting is no-one actually came and celebrated (or even shook hands) with me, there were a few congratulations afterwards but that was strange to see, not sure if that confirms me as a bit of an outsider in the side, not sure. I’m not going to read anything more into it. But again it highlighted my age and lack of fitness because I was struggling throughout the match and had a decent pacey forward against me – next week versus Thame is going to be even harder.

Had a drink and something to eat and then home to watch the end of Watchmen and then bed!

I was pleased with my contribution today, just pleased to not be picking up injuries as I have done before – well I was kicked a bit but not muscle injuries I mean

England match v Switzerland

Long day today, didn't get up too early as so tired. Worked through the day but it was a real struggle

Finished around 4.00pm and then got ready to take Jack to Wembley for the England game. Went up to Bicester train station and then straight into the Wembley station that was only 400 yards from the ground

Walked around a bit and then went into the ground and got our seats. Decent view but high up. The game and the attempt by the announcer to liven it up was poor. The way England played was very disappointing, they lack so much quality in passing and movement. I find it really hard to watch but at the same time it was nice to be with Jack. 

The game only livened up in the last 20 mins when they put Harry Kane on and he scored quite quickly and injected some enthusiasm into the match

We then got to witness history as Wayne Rooney became the England all time top scorer by putting his penalty away. So it wasn't a complete waste of time. 

Waited until the end of the match and then went back to the station through all the rush. Had to wait a while before getting the 22.18 train. Jack fell asleep on the way back I wrote my diary. 

Knowing I've got to work when I get home is a concern. I've got a real shit project I'm trying to get completed and I'm struggling with it. Well, we'll see what happens when I get home and how late I need to work. (Update – I worked until 5.00am!!)

Bobby Moore photo-bombing me and Jack!

Suffering from Nuts Challenge!

I am in agony today. Every single possible muscle is aching and my knee was killing me. Hardly slept at all last night. Made a genuine excuse not to go to Peters to work because I just couldn't walk, the swelling in my knee was unbelievable and I couldn't put any weight on it, unable to walk or drive. I still did their stuff in the day and then the Groupcall project I've got on my plate to deal with in the evening. 

It's really hard work at the moment, I'm really very stretched and it's not ideal for me or anyone else. Not sure how this is going to end, something's got to give. 

I'll keep pushing to get the work done and still do late nights but I'm so tired. 

I hope I get a better nights sleep tonight, we'll see I guess!!

Nut Challenge

This was a fantastic day!

Up at around 8.30am with a slight heavy head, had breakfast, got ourselves ready and then headed off to Surrey after collecting Zoe on the way

We had entered for the Nuts Challenge obstacle event and didn't 100% appreciate what we'd signed up for...we were soon to realise!

After parking we walked to the registration area and saw what was waiting for us, it was mental. Mud and water and obstacles everywhere

Check in and got sorted and then met with Zoe's cousin who we ended up staying with

We went on the 11.00am start and were off. Within 100 metres we were facing our first of so many things to go through

Ditches down and then scrambling up the other side, crawling through mud, waist high water. Slides, cargo nets, tyres, so much I can't even list it all. Even carrying sand bags and tyres. It was absolutely shattering and it took us 3 hours. Partly as a result of staying together through. Everyone loved every minute of it. 

I smashed my knee on a rock which was horrible and made getting round really hard work. Got round and we celebrated at the end. Cold showers to clean up and then drove home, got a macs as well before piping into Sues to wish Tiffany happy birthday. Didn't stay long as had things to do at home

Didn't get much work done and went to bed around midnight as I was so very tired. Decided not to go to work T Birmingham on Monday

Oh, posted some photos and videos on Facebook and loads of people were interested in what we'd done and if we sign up to do it next year I think a lot of people will be interested in joining us

I will say again, that was absolutely brilliant fun. 

Back to Rochester…can’t escape there!

Worked in the office today because I was asked to run training and a data workshop for Learning Resources, as I was driving down there at 7.30am I was trying to think how long it it that I have known Hannah Searle who’s based there and one of the first people I worked with when they became customers, I’ve not seen her for a long time so was looking forward to catching up with her.

Got to Rochester around 9.30am and spoke with Jayne and got things sorted for the day’s sessions and she went off to get them (Hannah and Laura) from the train station. Introductions when they arrived and Hannah was straight over and gave me a kiss greeting which surprised the others there (including me actually as she’s always been reserved.). We worked it out that we’ve known each other for 10 years as I went through the CRM Helpdesk history to check!

Anyway, we went through so much today and it was very, very full on and detailed, but they were both pleased with the work that we did and got a huge amount of progress. But it was draining and I was exhausted by the time we finished as we also had a working lunch.

It was a good day’s work and there were a lot of action points as a result which I will deal with over the coming days, said our goodbyes and said we’d catch up sooner etc and they were gone.

I continued in the office for a couple more hours before making a move and got caught in all sorts of traffic and did have to stop on the way for an hour’s sleep before finally getting home at 8.50pm. Had some dinner and then came out into the garage to work – it’s now 11.00pm and I have another couple of hours I need to go through before the night is over and I can go to bed

It’s all too much at the minute with this work and the Oxford City JPL work I need to do as well – I am fast sinking!

Lake District Adventure–Day 3, coming home!

We were all tired and slept in a bit but had to be sorted and out by 10.00am so got on with it and had breakfast, packed and signed out by 9.40am. 

Drove down to Haverigg as that was on the coast and it was much nicer than expected, the weather was warm and we wandered around the water sports lake and then said our goodbyes to Lewis and he set off home

I didn't quite go straight back and we found an ice cream shop and looked over the dunes before setting off for home at 10.50am

Officially the satnav said it would take 4 hours...I didn't trust that though and with good reason. The concerns I had for traveling up here that didn't materialise certainly did when going home

It was just sheer volume of people trying leave the Lake District at first and then we hit a major blockage because someone on the northbound side of the M6 at J32 was threatening to jump. It was eerie because they blocked off northbound and there was no traffic whatsoever coming up as we were very slowly getting down there. 

We eventually passed the incident and he was still stood the other side of the bridge not holding on. I checked the next day and there was no mention of him jumping

So we carried in down but it was stop and start all the way, very hard work. Stopped at one of the services and it was packed out as everyone else was popping in for a break!

Carried on home and got home at 5.30pm so it took 6 1/2 hours all told. Ah well, it was definitely worth it and it was only the once!!

We unpacked and all that and then ordered a Chinese meal which was a lovely treat to end the weekend with. 

Vegged out in front of the TV for an hour or so and then bed at 10.00pm after Charlotte had uploaded a load of photos from the weekend. They looked really good. 

Great fun.

Lake District – Day 2

Up early at 7.00am, had breakfast and then out on the road so as to get to the meeting location in time so the guy didn’t leave us behind. Only 41 miles but was going to take us about 90 minutes because of the slow roads, and these were slow!

I enjoyed the winding, tight roads and it was quite enjoyable to drive down, especially as we didn’t see any traffic at all at that time in the morning, made Tash very car sick though, I knew it would affect someone!

The scenery on the way was stunning, I didn’t see too much as I was so focussed on the road but made some mental notes of places to stop on the way home to take some photos and that.

Got to Honister Slate mine in plenty of time and the chap, Chris, who was leading us arrived and said we’d wait for another couple who were joining us, so we had a coffee and got ready, the other couple that turned up were a mum and son and they were nice enough so it was a good little group that we had.

So we got harnessed and geared up and made our way up the mountain side and got our first glimpse of what we would be doing, it was a bit mad to be honest! Sheer drops and all we had were metal rungs jutting out of the side of the cliffs to hold onto. Of course we had safety harnesses on but it was still nerve-wracking and hard work.

There were a few groups up there so we missed out the introduction run and went straight to the middle run and that was horrible! So we’re climbing down and up these rungs and then traversing along the side of the cliff face holding on for dear life, everyone was doing well but I must admit I was struggling with it and my arms were burning, legs were jelly and I put on a brave face but was very nervous! I did it, you had to, but I’m not ashamed to say I was scared.

We are our lunch by the car chatting to Chris and finding out more about him before setting off for the next location. 

Driving through the tight and narrow roads with cars coming the other way or avoiding hikers was an experience. 

Got to the place we were meeting the other group and they seemed ok, about 8 of them. So we got geared up in wetsuits and head gear etc and then walked for about 15 minutes up the hill to the start point

I was expecting something the same as Paul's stag party but this was by far much better

The very first obstacle meant sliding down some rocks into a pool going over your head so no slow and gentle introduction and then we were off

It really was fantastic, scrambling through the water and down slides and three times we had jumps we had to make. They were nervy I must admit but we all did them. Some great videos as a result. 

It was over after about an hour or so but with what we'd done in the morning that was definitely enough. We went back to the car, stripped off and got dry clothes on and said our goodbyes to everyone. 

Made our way home and everyone was asleep quite soon, we did fancy some ice cream so we stopped at Grassmere, we've been there before the last time we were up here, found a coffee shop and we all had drinks instead. 

Didn't stay long and then drove again through the lovely scenery stopping a couple of times, took about 90 mins but we weren't clock watching going home!

Crashes out and had pizzas and beers and the kids were on their gadgets. Watch Casualty second part because we expected Charlie Fairhead to die, he didn't! And then some film or other, early night though as we were shattered

That was such a great day, really enjoyed it, but Found those heights frightening, I really am getting old.

Up North to visit Lewis

Alarm went at 4.45am, up and dressed which considering is not gone to bed until 1.00am wasn't bad at all. 

Got everything together and the car packed and got the kids up and we were on the road at 5.40am, about 20 mins later than I'd hoped but not a bad effort

And then we were off with 4.5hours ahead of us...if we were lucky

The traffic was fine in fact and to cut a long story short we made it up there by 10.15am so that was excellent. Much earlier than expected which we'd planned for midday, meaning Lewis wasn't really ready for us! He'd been out the night before and his flat mate Rhys had two mates over and the place was a tip with beers cans and washing everywhere. Never mind, the cottage was nice and it suited him

We went for a walk to the beach and it was really windy and rough so we weren't out for long. Went back to his house to collect clothes etc and then went for a drive to Whitehaven where we had a McDonald's for lunch and then a walk around the town and fishing harbour. It was a nice town and was interesting to see his local town. 

Back in the cars to go down to the log cabin we'd booked and took a detour to see Sellafield Power Plant but as expected we couldn't get too close but it was good to have a nose about from a distance

Got to the place and our cabin wasn't ready so we watched the end of the football on TV and had a drink and a look around the grounds. When we were allowed in we unpacked and settled down

I was shattered and crashed out for an hour in the sofa and then we ate and had a few beers and played card games and Bananagrams and that

We settled in front of the TV for casualty and that was nice to just spend time together. Tash went to bed and we watched MOTD before I too had to give in, early start tomorrow needed as well

A nice day and lovely to have the family all back together for however short a length of time. It's so good we all get in so well and like each other's company. 

I love my family!

Oxford City drafted in!

Worked at Raintree today and it was okay. Got a lot done and it was an enjoyable day, someone was leaving and also Laura’s going to be off now as it’s her wedding next week so they took the chance to have a bit of fun and a joint send-off. Quite nice to be involved for once.

Not much else of excitement to announce from the day, it was nice to cycle there and back and it felt good to get my legs going, pleasing I wasn’t quite as stiff from football today as I was last week. Hopefully that’s a good sign!

Came home and was back out the door 10 minutes later taking Jack to football training. The manager Jack then pulled me aside and told me he was packing it in because of work commitments, I wasn’t really surprised but I was a bit pissed off and didn’t make much effort to hide it. I’m not good at working with people it has to be said! No idea what will happen now, I suspect I will be roped into it more and get things sorted and to be honest if I can sort out one night of training then I won’t mind taking over, we’ll see.

Came home and got caught in the bloody road works traffic so it took over 30 minutes to get down that couple of miles on the by-pass, winds me up!

Worked again in the evening and it was fairly productive, had an email from Charlie at EduKent in answer to my one as Nikita had told me earlier in the day that she was completely shit-faced, sick on herself and everything!! So I sent a sympathetic email to her…yeah right…and she replied saying she’d only just got out of bed around 8.30pm – oh dear! We’ve all been there, can’t believe she got that drunk though.

Anyway, have a nice weekend lined up so got things sorted for that as well, off to Birmingham tomorrow unexpectedly as requested by Claire so that was a nice little bonus

Let’s see what happens with this football shall we?

Struggling a bit today…and another football match!

Woke up around 8.30am with a very heavy head, quick showers, said our farewells and then got the cars to go our separate ways. We’re really proud of Lewis, and the other kids, they’re growing up to be such great kids and they do enjoy being with us which is so pleasing.

The drive home was pretty good and we were back by midday, I was shattered though and really didn’t fancy doing much work if I am honest! Tried though!

Annie came round and I got my hair cut and then carried on working, had a nice pasta meal for dinner and then went down to Brasenose College for another vets pre-season match and this was against the other Oxford City side. We were too good for them but it was a challenging match and we won 3-1. I was against a couple of decent players and it was hard work, especially as they put me at wing back!! My fitness levels are improving…slowly!

Didn’t stay for a drink afterwards instead coming home to watch a bit of TV and then work late into the evening, decided to update some of my diary because like a friend said earlier in the day I do live a very full and busy life and it should be documented. I am not the best writer as any of these posts would testify but it’s interesting to have it down for memories.

It was good to be back down at Brasenose, that place really hasn’t changed in 20 years when we were playing there for Cold Arbour.

Franz Ferdinand in Manchester

Worked in the morning from about 6.00am and got a few things sorted and then from midday we set out to drive up to Manchester, the run was fine and without incident. Tash has a cold so slept pretty much all the way there, she’s struggling with it which is a shame.

Found the car park and Lewis was waiting and then we went and sorted the hotel before having a quick wander around town and then back to get ready. I quite liked what I saw of the place and would be more than happy to return and spend more time up there.

Went to the bar to get something to eat and have a few drinks. Went and found the venue (Albert Hall) and drank at Brew Dog next door – didn’t like that drink in there and then went inside. I liked it there and we continued to drink, Lewis and I were getting quite drunk indeed! He was paying his way, mostly, so that was really nice.

The concert is a collaboration between Franz Ferdinand and Sparks so it wasn’t full on FF but it was still enjoyable and they played some of the hits that we know, we all enjoyed ourselves and it was a good night. When finished we found another bar and had more drinks and then got completely lost on the way home, got a kebab and had to get a taxi back we were so lost and yet we were only x8 minutes away!

Crashed out in the hotel – a great evening

Working on a Sunday…all day!

Woke up around 9.00am and was downstairs in the garage working as I have so much in my plate at the minute. Went okay and I got two of the main projects sorted before having breaks etc. I didn't help around the house at all and just ploughed on. 

The big project at the minute is the Groupcall one as there's so much to sort and so many action points. I worked through their data files and species what was required, took me 7 hours and I'm still not finished!!

Shame I wasn't around for the family but with the time I'm spending in Manchester on Tuesday I think it's acceptable, I also feel better for having done it. 

Bed at 1.00am and then alarm set for 6.50am...not nice

WBA for Jack’s football

Woke up with a hangover today at 7.00am. Up and out by 7.50 taking jack to his football match in Birmingham. We made good time and we're playing near to Edgbaston cricket ground. 

Played against WBA colts but only had 10 players. They worked hard and did ok I feel

Really hard work for them but it was rewarding and we only lost 3-2 after having one of their players for 20 mins

Jack did ok, he's struggling fitness wise I feel so need to work on that

Came back and went to go outdoors to get some gas and found a new chair for camping. 

Pottered around the garden and did bits and bobs for the rest of the day. In the evening Tash and I caught up with House of Cards and then went to bed. A relaxed day.

Relaxing by the sea…

Sat on the beach writing this today at Cala Galdena. In the shade as it's about 31 degrees

Was up at 8.30am today and did some emails but wasn't in the mood if I'm honest. Quite a lot to return to when home which I'm not particularly looking forward to. There's sand here on the beach so I might stick my head in it!!

Drove across the island to get here today and because of the size of the island it didn't take long at all. Going out to a nice restaurant this evening which isn't what we wanted to do but Pauline was insistent that was the plan. 

Jacks sat in the sun reading his book and Tash is sunbathing. Might go and have a snorkel now as apparently it's quite good here. 

Have heard from Charlotte and she's enjoying herself but apparently it's very hot indeed, 40 degrees in a tent, not comfortable but as long as she's having a laugh. Exam results tomorrow, hope she's successful. Fingers crossed

First ever proper golf game…

We all woke up with hangovers today and I didn't get up until about 11.00am. Wayne was worst out of all of us and it was clear no one had any energy or enthusiasm to go out and do anything so we didn't and just sat sleeping and lazing by the pool. Which was actually quite nice

Had some lunch and decided to give the golf a go. I wasn't overly keen on it I must admit but agreed to it and I'm glad I did. We left around 4.30pm, hired me some clubs and sorted out the round details and then went to the driving range to have a practise. I was okay and felt comfortable so after some putting and that we went down to the first tee to get going

I sliced my first shot left and lost the ball...my first ever proper golf shot. Ah well. Wayne was decent as id expected and Paul was a bit more consistent than me. We went through to the 14rh hole before it got too dark to play but by then we were all flagging and tired. We'd not taken enough water or food and were struggling big time. Went back to the reception and everyone was waiting for us and we got some drinks, I had a full large bottle of water, drank the whole lot. 

Went back to the villa and had some pizza by it was after 10.00pm. Time had flown by. I was so tired, couldn't be bothered to do much more than drink coke and check social media before going to bed around 11.30pm. 

I really enjoyed playing the golf and I’d like to think that with regular practice I might be able to hold my own and get a respectable score. Hopefully I'll be able to make an attempt at playing or practicing some more. We'll see!

I did win one hole, but struggled to keep my shot count down, some shots were really good so I was pleased with my first proper round of golf.

Look closely and you will see the ball – it didn’t quite make the lake though!

Zorbing

Woke up in the morning a bit heavy-headed but nothing too serious and then got up around 9.00am to have a bacon sandwich with the family all up. Lewis and Sian left around 10.00am as he really had to get back up North to do last minute preparation for his exams tomorrow and the next couple of days. I really don’t think him coming down for the London tour was a good idea but there you go, it’s done now!

We’re putting him up in a hotel for x2 nights so that he can focus on what he needs to be doing. I shouldn’t put this in writing but I don’t think he’s going to get through the exams, he’s crammed as much into a week but it’s just not enough time to improve on what his previous results were. Of course I hope I am wrong as I don’t want him to fail but I am just being realistic. We’ll see soon enough!

We then met up with Wayne & Kerry and Paul & Pauline came too as we drove down to Reading for the Zorbing experience that the kids had got for me and Wayne for Father’s Day. Hard to get to place and when we arrived it was busy and didn’t look much to be honest, the hill wasn’t very high and the balls we saw coming down weren’t quick or anything. So we signed in and got the H&S briefing and then harnessed up. There was the zorbing we were signed up for and an aqua zorbing which was a lot milder apparently because the woman was pleased when she learned what we were doing – I think the majority do the water one!

So we were driven to the top of the hill and once up there it looked a lot higher and steeper than at the bottom! We were told what to do and then got into the zorb and were strapped in against the walls and then rolled off down the hill…

…if I said it was enjoyable I’d be lying! As you rolled over we started bouncing and each bounce was a real jolt for the back and neck and was uncomfortable, I wouldn’t say painful but you were definitely bracing each time the bounce landing took place. It was funny being in there and I am glad I’d done it, not sure I’d have done it again if they’d offered straight away!

Got out quite dizzy and queasy and Wayne was the same and unsurprisingly complained of neck problems later in the day, as did I. Certainly pleased I’ve done it though and the kids all enjoyed watching us do it.

We dropped Charlotte and Jack home and then Tash & I went to the Fox in Boar’s Hill and met up with all the Holdens for a meal. The food there was fantastic, I had curry and it was really good. Had to wait for a bit but it was definitely worth the wait. It was good to catch up with everyone and we talked about Cornbury and everyone was very excited. We had to leave as they were ordering pudding, because the main had taken a while to arrive, but we weren’t eating more anyway so it wasn’t an issue. Paid our bit and went and got Jack from his Leadership thing he’s being doing for karate. Thankfully that’s over now so no more interruptions to our Sunday afternoons!

Back home we got the tent and other stuff out in preparation for Cornbury and then I did some work, I have a lot on my plate this month and with the amount of time I want to take off I really need to get as up to date as possible. In fact I have taken the wrong decision already by sat here on the train to Birmingham typing up my diary instead of planning the day and doing other work! Ah well, long nights ahead…

I’d decided that I’m not going to work all the time and at 7.00pm I called Jack down and we watched Mad Max together, had to explain a lot to him to give him a background on what it was about but also as things were happening to help his understanding. It’s action packed all the way throughout so he enjoyed it, I liked a couple of instances where there was clearly an homage to the other Mad Max films like the mis-firing sawn off shotgun and the winding music box. There really wasn’t too much story line to it but it was definitely enjoyable, bet it was amazing in the cinema.

I then went back out to the office and did some more work and then to bed around 11.30pm

A fantastic weekend, really enjoyed it.

Family Trip to London

Today was the family trip to London that we’d organised for everyone. Well, Tash had organised! I was up early and down at Sainsbury’s at 8.00am buying more beers and food and then back at the house getting sorted out before picking up Tiff, Paul, Brendan & Ivy so we were all at our house for the pick-up. The workmen arrived as well so were starting on the patio as we left. The minibus we had was actually a coach so that was a nice surprise and we were able to leave our cool box on there so we had cold beers for the journey home!

Once on the coach everyone opened up the beers and cocktail drinks and started on it…it was 10.00am!! Went steady and only had two by the time we were dropped off at Marble Arch and then the fun began…we went and had the picnic in Hyde Park and left after 45mins to get the coach for the first part of the tour.

We were all able to get on the coach together and I enjoyed listening to the facts and showing people where I’ve been working etc. Got off as planned at Trafalgar and looked round there and took some photos and then back on the bus. Sue was struggling a bit with the heat as it was quite hot but she was okay.

The tour took us to the places I’d planned and wanted to see so we went through the London Mile and St Paul’s, the Tower and then back down to Westminster where we got off and boarded a boat for a trip back up the Thames to the Tower again. That was enjoyable on there and listening to the guide was interesting, always nice to hear pieces of information that can be useful in the future.

Off at the Tower and back on the bus for a 10 mins ride to Blackfriars bridge where we walked along South Bank to the Wharf restaurant that we’d booked, we were 30 mins late but it was fine and the location was fantastic. Nice meal and loads more to drink…couple of hiccups with food orders but it was good until we got the bill and they wanted to charge us £49.00 in service charge which we refused and made our own cash payment which turned out to be about £35.00 anyway!!

We walked back to Blackfriars only to find that we’d missed the last bus 20 mins earlier so that was a pain and a bit embarrassing, so we had to jump into taxis to get back to Marble Arch where we waiting for a bit and the bus was 30 mins late to get us but got there in the end. The journey home was fine, not mad as I think everyone was quite tired out, as we left London there was a massive pall of smoke rising into the sky and as we got closer there was clearly a factory fire taking place – it was incredible.

As we passed Barton we dropped the Foxes off, and Miles, then all the Bulls got out at Five Mile Drive and Sue at her road and finally us. We’d had a fantastic day, it really went well and everyone enjoyed themselves I think. We quickly dumped stuff at the house and then made our way to the White Hart as Jake & his mate Shak were performing and when we got there the place was packed out with friends and locals, it was a really good night I was pleased for them and we saw loads of familiar faces.

I got some good feedback from the staff at the pub about my social media work so that was flattering – didn’t get a free drink out of it though! I periscoped some of the performance but we never got more than 6 people viewing which was a shame…then my battery ran down.

Had a few more drinks there but Tash was conscious of my zorbing experience in the morning the next day so dragged me out of there even though I wasn’t ready to leave…ah well. Sulked a bit at home and then went to bed, such a lovely and fantastic day, loads of photos that I need to get uploaded.

Charlotte off, Jack home

Charlotte has swanned off to Barcelona this morning (very early) with Terry taking her and Miles to the airport, we’re picking them up on Thursday. They’re both really looking forward to it and I got a text from her earlier to say they’d found the hotel and all was sorted, they were off to the beach as it was 33 degrees! Very nice indeed. Their hotel is right in the centre of the town so they’ve got a great spot.

No sooner does one arrive than the other leave, Jack has been away for the weekend at Kilvrough for a reward weekend with the school and we picked him up on Sunday evening, he was buzzing and had a great time, surfing and rock climbing and all the things that he excels in! So pleased that he enjoyed himself, but then you knew he would!

Nice to have him back as well, the house is very quiet without him around, but in saying that he gets on your nerves within minutes – it’s a knack he has!!

Lewis struggling at University

Having a bit of a tough time of things with Lewis at the minute unfortunately. He’s really struggling with his revision as he needs to do x3 re-sits and having seen the results he got originally I’d be absolutely astonished if he pulled this out of the hat. They were appalling percentages and the poor lad has the re-takes next week. There’s been a lot of crying and words to try and sort this out but I think he’s going to fail the re-takes and then we need to decide what the next actions will be – it’s a big blow and a shame. But he’s not done the work to get to the level required so he only has himself to blame sadly.

He’s moved into the new accommodation in the Lake District but he’s stressing so much he can’t think straight. We’re doing all we can to help but it’s not doing much or enough for him. I think it will be a case of either staying and doing the whole year 2 again or dropping out. We shall see, I’d love to be wrong and he make it.

Great Grandma’s Birthday trip out

It was Grandma’s birthday last week and for her present we agreed to take her out and treat her to lunch at Waterperry gardens in Wheatley. I finished early and when Tash was home we went and picked her up around 2.30pm and drove out there. Mum and Derek were waiting, we paid and then went for a stroll round the gardens.

They are beautiful, I was really impressed. Tash was distracted as Lewis is stressed about his exam results and next actions required so that was a strained atmosphere between us which is frustrating, I don’t like that.

Tried to ignore it and just enjoy the time with the family like this. Grandma was excellent wandering around and still has the stamina to be able to walk round and enjoy what’s going on. She is amazing, obviously had to stop a few times and she was looking forward to her cup of tea once we got round to getting that! Had some cakes and then time to come home, really enjoyed it.

Took grandma home and did a few thing to help around the kitchen and then left her, heart-breaking as she said, ‘I do hate it when you have to leave and I am alone’, what can you do?

Evening was nice but that was a lovely day – glad we did it

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Fathers Day…well Family Day now!

Father day has been changed to family day at the behest of ...erm... my family. 

Woke up early and pottered around, kids got up and I got some cards and lots of sweet things, very nice indeed. Had a fry up which was good and then did some work outside on the patio then got ready to go out

Nikki, Gaz & the girls plus Paul & Bren and my family and we walked down to the Perch. Nice and hot day so it was perfect. Had a couple of Moretti and some food and then walked back to our house. In fact it was x3 Moretti...such a fine beer. The pub was really busy and it was enjoyable and a laugh with is all there. We're such a crowd and we have fun

Vicki stepped in a cow pat (twice) so that was highly amusing and watching the kids all playing football and having a laugh made it great

Back at our house we opened the beers and the wine all flowed between us adults as the kids all agreed to drive! Result!

I then opened some out nice wine and me, Gaz and Nik all got quite pissed, no surprise I suppose! They stayed until quite late and then left, finished my drink and the staggered to bed. 

Big hangover the next day!

Really enjoyed it though, so proud of all out family getting on so well. 

          

Bloody patio!

Still a problem! Barry came round this morning to look at what I’ve done and what else needs doing – I think a lot is required! When he left I did half an hour to make use of the skip before it’s removed and then I went to work. I was a Raintree today and just got on with what was on my plate, loads to do and was productive. I was tired though and had a 20 mins snooze in the sun!

Finished at 4.30pm and Barry was working in the back but wanted to stop and chat so we had a beer and discussed next actions. We need yet another skip and a full day on Saturday to clear it all again, I will try and do some tomorrow when working from home, just to get some done.

Had some food and then took Jack to football training, I didn’t watch as I sat in the car and had another snooze and did some of the diary as well.

Didn’t go to karate training as it was too late so went home and watched some TV (Mamma Mia) and then Hannibal and then to bed, long day, not sure why but  both Tash and I are shattered at the minute. It’s not enjoyable.

Charlotte enjoyed her first day of freedom – it was nice weather so she was out having a picnic all day – alright for some!

Charlotte finishes exams….and school!

Worked in London today with Scholastic on this Data Mining project and the meeting went fine. I then did training afterwards with a new starter and that was good as well. Left there at a decent hour meaning I got home by 5.00pm which was my hope.

Today was Charlotte’s last exam today and that’s it then, no more school for her. Spoke to her and she said she found it okay so that was pleasing. When she got home she was going to go out with Rosie (not everyone’s exams finished so there weren’t many of them) but not until 9.00pm in town so we got some vouchers for Pizza Express in the Golden Cross and booked a table for 7.30pm. Went and parked in Tasha’s work and wandered down there. Jack & Niamh came with us so it was nice, Lewis couldn’t make it unfortunately.

Just had a normal pizza meal and celebrated – nothing crazy though.

Nice to spend time with them and chat and then we walk her to the Varsity club where she met Rosie and she really liked it there, we got texts later from her impressed with it.

Back home, did some work but that was it and then to bed.

Great Grandma’s 95th Birthday

Travelled to peters books in the morning and had a very full on busy day which included training the new starter Stewart that was a bit tough going. Got loads of other work done and then came home on the earlier train so as to be home in time for going out yet again!

Dropped by Decathlon to take Jack's broken bike in and I was delighted that they agreed to fix it for free so that was a bonus as taking it to Summertown would have been over £50!!

Got home and caught up with Charlotte and her Psychology exam today was a bit of a struggle so she wasn't too confident. We'll see, it's her last one tomorrow and then that's it, she's completely finished with school. 

Tash and I then got ready and we went down to the pub in Yarnton to meet up with the family for Grandma's birthday...she's 95!

Mum, Derek, Sue & Simon were there and it was a very pleasant evening and we enjoyed it. Stayed for the full 2 hours and had a nice time. 

Got home around 10.00pm but still had work to do so finished around 11.30pm. A long day but it was good to spend time with Grandma. Bless her

Summertown Tournament & Jack Dee

Had a bit of a lie-in this morning and sorted out bikes as these were broken and had to go to Halfords to sort Tasha's out. Got there in the end. 

Had lunch then cycled up to Cutteslowe 

Park for Jacks 5-a-side tournament and it was enjoyable watching him, although he was quite rusty to be honest. Took a photo of him in a City shirt and posted online and it was very popular

Peter and Luke were playing at the same time for u16s so I watched them as much as possible and I have to admit I was impressed with both of them. Peter is slightly ahead of Luke but they do play different positions so hard to compare. They did well but lost in semi-final which I missed as I had to get back for the theatre. Jacks team didn't progress from the group stages but I was pleased he got the time under his belt and wasn't struggling with his knees too much afterwards, that's what is important to me. 

Went out in the evening, well 5.20pm, as Charlotte dropped us in town and we met Nik and Gaz at the Red Lion for a drink and ten wandered over to Gino's in Gloucester Green as they rave about it

It was definitely a nice restaurant and we had a good meal, Gaz and I had a bottle of Chianti and it was lovely. Once done we then walked to the Playhouse for our evening with Jack Dee. More wine!!

In the foyer we filled out cards with our "problems" and then these were read out by Jack and he had 4 comedians as a panel including Rich Haw and it was an amusing evening and good idea. Worse to follow was after the interval my name and problem was read out and I had the microphone and had to speak, I hated it as I was quite tipsy so was worried about slurring. I think I did ok

The only downside was that the two sessions were only 45 minutes long and we felt it was over too quickly and you felt a bit short-changed leaving at 9.10pm

We went back to the Red Lion for another drink and ten went our separate ways and Lewis came and picked us up

Enjoyable but too much food and definitely too much drink with work tomorrow!

 

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Catch Up

I have no idea where the time has gone but I've not had any of the discipline that j had at the start of the year with keeping this diary up to date. It's a shame because I'd done so well in the first couple of months. Not sure what's happened really, I've just become very lazy and slack with it all. 

Not sure where to start with this update. I'll not try to cover everything with this so let's see what happens

I'm on the train traveling to Peters books right now. They've reduced my hours to only two days a month which is a disappointment but they shouldn't have because they definitely need me more involved. Ah well. Work is hard at present, I'm back doing a lot more with EdCo and we know the stress that includes and sure enough it's happening. I'm try to be better at managing it but it's not ideal

Raintree is going ok and I honk they're happy with what I am doing for them

Lewis has been around for a couple of weeks now which has been good but seeing how he spends his time is a bit disappointing, he's likely failed a couple of exams and will need to take retakes but there is no method or effort or quantity to the revision work he's doing. He's gone up to Lancaster yesterday to look at houses for his Sellafield work but I think he's wasting his time and will have to drop out. I hope I'm 100% wrong but I'm not so sure. 

On the other hand Charlotte has been brilliant and is working so very hard. It's great to see the dedication she's putting into her work and we just wish Lewis would follow her example. She's stressing last night but she really couldn't do any more work than she already has done. She deserves to do well, fingers crossed. If she doesn't do well in her exams with the work she's out in then I really don't know what she will do as it will be clear that exams aren't for her!

Jacks knees are still playing him up. He was at physio yesterday and given a load of exercises to do so we will see if he works on those and sorts himself out. He has been training with the Oxford city JPL side a couple of times and he's good enough to play and it would be good for him. They want me to run the team but I don't want to. His time at Horspath is over and he's leaving them to play for Oxford City on a Sunday now. Can't blame him, Horspath wasn't enjoyable. 

I worked with Barry on our patio at the weekend. All day Saturday I was picking up concrete and filling a skip. Really hard work and I was shattered by the end of the day. I didn't stop and I did my fair share, certainly a good shift. It's Tuesday today and I am still aching. So glad that I'm not doing that as a normal job!!

Normal Day for Dark Enterprise

Worked in Birmingham at Peters Books today and wasn’t planning on getting the early train as I was to bed so late last night but I woke up at 5.55am so thought ‘Sod it, in early, out early!’. Lovely sunny day and it stayed like this the whole time, which was good as the cricket first Test against New Zealand started today. I kept an eye on it and it was a nightmare start as we were about 35 for 4 until Joe Root got a hold in the match and got a partnership of 161 or something so a bit more respectable by close of play. It’s tempting to be watching it as I have Sky Sports access! We’ll see tomorrow!

I was so tired on the way in and slept on the train and then had a very full on day in the office, loads of work I needed to lough through and still loads on my plate when I needed to leave at 4.30pm. I can get more work there that’s for certain! Will push Claire to let me do son, but also work from EdCo is piling up as well.

Didn’t hear from Mum throughout the day so assumed all was fine and that was confirmed at the end of the day.

Heard from Tucks, all is fine in their household so that’s pleasing. Typing this on the train home with a huge long list of things I need to do tonight, including a remote training session at 8.00pm on DotMailer – what was I thinking off when I agreed to that?!?!

Derek out of hospital

Worked at Raintree today but didn’t get into the office until just after 9.00am and got my head down, loads to be done and to be far I got it done so that was pleasing. Had to pop out at 11.45am to the school as Tash was panicking about her boards she’d lent to Jack for his school project so I got those and dropped them at her office and then paid in a cheque but needed to go to Kidlington as Summertown was so crowded I couldn’t park. That was bad news as I went to Greggs and got 2 Belgian buns for £1.00 – and yes I did eat both of them! I am not going to look remotely okay on holiday! So my planned quick 20 mins turned into over ran hour!!

I stayed working until 5.30pm and then came home, had something to eat and then started working upstairs, I wasn’t very focussed but I got some things done and then went and worked downstairs as I was waiting to give Mum and Derek a lift home from the hospital which was going to be later as Derek had received the operation on his hand.

They called at 11.00pm so I went and got them and all was well when I dropped them home, they were pleased with the help we’ve provided, but that’s the least we can do so it was fine.

Came home, watch some of Elementary and then went to bed around 12.30am – far too late yet again!

Mum & Derek Car Accident

Did absolutely nothing today – very lazy and wasted day indeed! In saying that when I picked Jack up from karate my day became a lot more interesting!

Driving back I got a call from someone who told me they were a paramedic and they were taking Mum and Derek to the JR following a car accident they’d been involved in, they weren’t harmed I was re-assured so I wasn’t panicking and told her to tell Mum I’d be there shortly.

Dropped Jack off, had a shower and then went up to the Emergency section of A & E and found Mum on a trolley in the corridor strapped down with a neck brace and all manner of action going on around her (not for her I hasten to add!). Derek was in one of the Resuscitation rooms so was in a bit worse shape than Mum. I spoke to the paramedic before she left and then I stood by with Mum and chatted and kept her company for the next ‘few’ hours. She was okay, very battered and bruised and the collar was more precautionary than anything so I wasn’t overly concerned for her and it was quite relaxed. I was concerned about Derek as we couldn’t get to see him but I later found out he was similar to Mum but he’d also cut his hand and fractured his chest bone – not good.

I got the story from Mum and basically an American couple had driven across the road and slammed into Mum’s side (she was driving) and caused a couple of hours of delays by completely blocking the road. Mum couldn’t get out and everyone was concerned for whiplash. They actually cut Mum out of the car! It was definitely not their fault and witnesses backed them up, but the car is obviously a write-off

Bank Holiday Monday

Got up at a decent time in the morning and made myself a banana shake, it was excellent! Pottered around in the morning and mowed the lawn but felt at a bit of a loose end so got Green Flash out and went for a cycle ride. I did just under 14 miles and it was quite hard if truth be told. Arms and hands hurt but then also my bum!! Forgot how being in the saddle is quite painful. 

I am glad I've started though so need to try and keep it up. Very good workout but it tired me out and all my body is aching the next day as well!

When I finished I met with Tash at her mums as Nikki and Jessica were there and had something to eat. Watch some TV as its Star Wars day and then we went home to get changed. 

Collected Jack from Harvey's and took him to gym at 4.00pm and then Tash and I went to the woods to wander round the bluebells. Really quite surprised on the initial arrival because they've been chopping down loads of trees and it looked very bare. Thankfully that was only the first hundred meters or so and it was back to normal once you walked more into the woods. Didn't walk for too long but it was pleasant

Came home and sorted dinner, I then went and got Jack and we settled down to watch the last x3 episodes of Season 2 of House of Cards. Really enjoyed it

Charlotte came home pleased that she's been offered a full time role at the college which sadly means she won't be going to babysit for Tucks which I'm disappointed about. 

Had a bath and then bed at 10.30pm. A decent weekend.

Don’t play 3v3 against u14’s

Worked at Raintree today, cycled to work as part of my fitness push (hardly a push to be honest!) but more because it was a beautiful sunny day, very pleasant start to the morning. Was there by about 8.20am and it was another busy day, both for them and other customers I needed to get things sorted for!

Got a lot done, had a useless training webinar with one of the reps – nothing she tried could get a connection to my machine which was frustrating. Raintree are terrible for providing loads of food and I sit right next to it all so it’s very hard to resist. I tried some chocolate sweets and they were wonderful…had more than a couple in the end!

Stayed until 4.30pm and cycled home and hopefully have got the patio work sourced so it’s a case of getting it done now before Tasha’s birthday, I don’t think that’s going to happen!

Went out to football in the evening and there were only x5 players there. I still went ahead with the session and it was fun, I joined in and found it quite hard work. I am very rusty but also so unfit. We played 3v3 and I was awful. Kept getting nutmegged! And I was badly out of breath, but I didn’t feel too bad in the evening or in the morning so not all bad.

Came home and everyone was home so we watched some family TV (Ant & Dec’s Saturday Night Takeaway and also Gogglebox). I’d have rather watched House of Cards but it was nice for us all to be together and having a laugh. The night sped by and it was soon 11.00pm and time for bed!

View from the Shard…not

Up and out the hotel by 10.00am, left the car and walked to London Borough Market, didn’t take too long and it was a lovely warm day so was enjoyable. Got to the market and it was a better version of the Indoor Market at Oxford – it was actually great, loads of free samples of cheeses and hams and that and we went to town on many of the items!

Everyone got something to eat for breakfast although I didn’t as I want to lose some weight and today is when I am starting! We continued walking round and taking it all in and then walked over the the Shard. We weren’t prepared to pay for the viewing option of about £25 per ticket so intended to go to the Aqua Shard restaurant and bar but when we went to the reception we were turned away because of Jack having trainers and casual trousers on.

Didn’t make a fuss and left, quite disappointing really.

Had a coffee in Starbucks outside and then walked back along the river taking in the sights on the way, lovely that was. I like that walk along the South Bank. Made our way back to the hotel and then drove home around 2.00pm. The kids were knackered and slept the way home.

Got back, unpacked and I had a snooze before we relaxed around the house and then had dinner in the evening. Charlotte went over to Miles and Lewis went skipping in Birmingham, Tash and I watched the last x2 episodes of the first series of House of Cards – excellent viewing!

Bed at 11.00pm!

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