Jack’s Sports Day

We’re not allowed to go and see Lewis & Charlotte’s sports days any more as they’re grown up now so it’s still a pleasure to go and watch Jack’s one. Perfect weather today as far as they were concerned with no rain or sun so nothing to worry about.

Jack is so competitive at all he does and you could see his disappointment when not winning races, but he won his skipping race and came second at the sprint, ‘waiter’ race and the long distance race so he was pleased with his performance.

The school is good because it is inclusive and the kids that clearly can’t run or do well are not criticised by the other children for ‘letting the side down’ as would be the case perhaps when older, it nice to see them all cheering on some of the children who are quite clearly not physically able, it’s a great way to introduce humility to a lot of these other kids at a young age.

I was speaking to Jack about it in the car taking him to karate as there is one particular lad who’s clearly disabled but the whole school love him and encourage him which is impressive as we all know how horrible kids can be!

I’m now sat outside Charlotte’s gymnastics class for an hour whilst she, Isabella and Rosie work on the bar, this week I think. Normally it would be mum doing it but she’s not feeling well after her most recent chemotherapy on Friday and has been off work today and yesterday. We’re wondering if it is only sickness and tiredness or whether it’s more of her hair coming our and it’s depressing her and she doesn’t want to be seen.

We’ll get to the bottom of it and will probably just turn up on the doorstep and see her, Tash plans to anyway.

Jack’s skipping race can be viewed here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3qmiVZRf9o0 – he’s quite shy and retiring at the end!

Race for Life & other things – making it hardly a lazy Sunday…

Charlotte & Natasha ran the 2011 Race for Life this weekend, both doing a great job of completing the course in exactly 30 minutes which for them was really good, it was incredibly hot as well so all the more impressive. It was packed there at the University Parks, they had 7,500 participants along with Dads and kids supporting tells you how many were there.

They ran with Kerry, Chloe and Sharon. Katharine Casey was there too and it was her birthday so there was a ‘bring and share’ picnic organised afterwards which was nice, loads of lovely food! Stayed there for an hour or so, whilst all the kids played football or did their acrobatics or competed with each other at something or other like climbing trees and the like.

We then went up to the Rover Cowley Works as there was a Family Open Day there so we met up with Holdy and Millar and pottered round taking the kids to the various stalls, they’re all competitive in their own way on the running machines and rowing machines and anything else – funny to watch them. Stayed there for a couple of hours and then went over to Bicester to see Nikki and Gaz for a barbie.

 

Stayed there for a few hours as well!!!

All day it’s been unbelievably hot, we’ve had crap weather this summer so far and Sunday/Monday were forecast to be hot and we’re all moaning that it’s too hot…can’t win eh?

Had a good day though and it was great to see everyone, managed to get some good photos as well

 

 

 

 

Jack found a unique way to cool down in the heat when he got back to our house!

Visiting Wimbledon with Charlotte

Had a great day yesterday when I took Charlotte to Wimbledon for her first time. Mum got some tickets from a chap at work so we took them on as Mum and Sue are going to the Men’s finals as well…it’s alright for some! Tash couldn’t get the time off so I took Charlotte instead.

Left Oxford around 10.00am and made our way to the Park & Ride in the local College and it was nice and easy and we made perfect timing to get there. Charlotte didn’t stop talking the whole way there, mostly about rubbish but it was nice to listen to!

When we got there she was really impressed, I don’t think she had much idea as to what to expect and couldn’t believe the size of it, the numbers of people (it was packed) and the money evidently on display everywhere! We had a walk around some of the courts and the tennis was under way on some of the outside courts so we watched some of that before making our way to Henman Hill, or is it now Murray’s Mount, and we started on the packed lunch watching the huge screen.

We were on No.1 Court sat right at the very back but it was a good view as you got to see everything and could appreciate the angles and quality of the tennis on show, we were in the shade though so were quite cold but we got to see some good tennis from the following players:

 

- Andy Roddick v Andreas Beck (Roddick won but it was a decent match)
- Wozniacki v Parra Santonja (Women’s game in under an hour – Wozniacki destroyed the other girl!)
- Robin Soderling v Phillip Petzshner (looked to be good but we left after first set – Soderling won 3-1)

After the Roddick match we sneaked out and sat on the Hill, or Mount?, and had our strawberries and cream – they were great and as we’d taken our own we had loads more than the punnet for £2.50!!

We saw Sue & Simon just below us but we didn’t get the chance to have a chat and catch up with them, sent a couple of texts but that was it, we left at 6.30pm and got some chips in Merton and then got home for 9.00(ish). We were very lucky with the weather, it’s been raining today and Day One as well and we got uninterrupted play which you always worry about here in the UK!

It was a lovely day and it was good to spend time with Charlotte as just the two of us, she’s a lovely girl – I am very proud of how she’s growing up. My only regret is that I didn’t leave my phone at home, I couldn’t help answering it and sending work emails and the like and it just made me feel washed out at the end of the day and I didn’t feel I gave Charlotte enough attention – I won’t do that again and will be more protective of my time with her and the family in the future.

That’s my intention anyway!

Weekly round-up…

It’s been a very busy few days, and I am writing this sat in a school reception area watching Lewis do skipping with some of his old friends from the Jump Nation competition here in Kingston-Upon-Thames. They’ve opened a class and there are about 25 kids in there of all ages and Lewis is one of the oldest. The team from Pulse are here so it’s nice to see some old faces although the journey here was a bit of a pain and took 2 hours because of the rain and traffic. Not sure how many times we’ll be coming but I have done the ‘Good Dad’ thing and brought him along and will let him decide what he wants to do, just a 135 mile round trip is a bit of a pain and clashes with Taurus training on a Monday. (Updated comment – he loved his time there tonight and wants to come again)

Talking of long round trips, last week I was in York training 2 Science Learning Centre users on SPIRIT – 7 hours round trip but thankfully stayed overnight on the York University campus on Thursday. That was interesting to see how it’s all set up and it would be fantastic experience for any one of the kids to attend. I was very impressed indeed. Training went well but it meant I didn’t get back home until 9.00pm on Friday night, made the weekend a whole lot shorter!

Sunday was Father’s Day, the kids know me too well and Charlotte got me a bag of toffee and Jack got me a bar of chocolate, Lewis got me the world’s biggest mug – yes it was bloody huge and I filled it up with coffee, drank it out of principle but won’t be doing that again…half measures will be plenty in the future.

Father’s Day was also Summertown Stars 5-a-side tournament, my A team did really well and got to the quarter finals and were all over Cumnor but they equalised with seconds to spare and then beat us on penalties which was frustrating as we’d have had a semi-final with Kidlington had we won as we deserved. Ah well. They had a presentation for me at the end of the tournament (my parents!) and they gave me a card with loads of nice thank you comments but also another Red Letter Day voucher – incredibly generous.Tash and I will probably do something together such as a pamper weekend or something like that, we’ll got through the website and spend it well.

Last Sunday was also busy, Lewis, Nathan, Gaz, Paul, Jason and I went paint balling as part of our Xmas present from Tiffany. Poured with rain the whole time but it didn’t dampen our spirits and we had a great time. Spend too much on the paintballs but it was really good, I was very impressed. Apart from at the end when I got hit too many times and it bloody well hurt! I think I’d do it again, but I must admit I prefer the Laser Gaming, probably because it doesn’t hurt!

I think I mentioned in a previous post that Mum’s hair is coming our gradually, it’s only thinning out at the minute but she’s only halfway through the chemo course, so she and Tash went out to the wig shop this week and had a laugh sorting one out. It’s the one thing that Mum was really worried about but I think she’s just got on with it as something she can’t avoid so is taking it in good spirits.

That’s it, Charlotte and I are off to Wimbledon tomorrow, we have tickets for No.1 court so looking forward to that, it’ll be nice just the two of us. Hopefully the miserable rain that we’re experiencing right now will disappear and we’ll have a long day of it – I’ll take the brolly just in case though!!!

A child’s wisdom…

"Dad, you're hair is going grey"
"Yes I know Jack, I'm getting old"
"You're not going to get another girlfriend looking like that!"

Mum’s Second Chemotherapy Session

Mum had her second session on Friday and once again came out of it saying that it all went fine and she wasn’t suffering any ill-affects which again was really pleasing to hear.

Spoke to her on Saturday and Sunday and the same thing, felt tired but thought that might just be the tablets that she needs to take. She and Derek had been out for the day to Stratford-Upon-Thames and watched some films back at home as well.

Tasha emailed her today though and unfortunately she’s started noticing that some of her hair is coming out, so the cold cap treatment might not be doing its work. I didn’t speak to her but Tash will persevere and if need be then Mum might look at getting a wig or at least some scarves.

This is what she was dreading, but I think her attitude is that “whatever happens, happens!”, but I think she’s not too pissed off because she’s getting through the treatment with such minor affects when expecting to be really sick and everything.

We’ll see.

Paul Scholes retired yesterday

One of my favourite players, Paul Scholes, retired from football yesterday. One of the best players in his generation and hugely admired amongst his peers, International and UK-based. There was loads of stories and accolades that can be found about his but he was looked up to by other players which can be no better compliment.
Some people on Twitter and noticeboards were criticising his tackling ability, or lack of, but that’s not relevant when you run a YouTube search on his goals and contribution if you ask me and shows a complete lack of understanding of the game.
Unless of course they were simply wanting to buck the trend and say something contrary just to be ‘clever’!
Thankfully, he’s not dropping out of football altogether and is going to continue being involved in a coaching capacity, I don’t much care that it’s with Manchester Utd as I don’t support anyone but for him not to pass on his skills and experience to younger players then that would have been a shame.
I wish him all the best good fortune in the rest of his career.

Another Great Weekend…

Bank Holiday weekend, what didn’t we do?!?!

Friday after work we had a BBQ and invited Jason & Sharon Millar and their kids, Wayne & Kerry Holden and their kids and Liam & Zoe Carroll and their kids so a bit of a houseful, or more to the point a garden-full as we stayed out all evening! As usual far too much to drink but all the banter and silly chat and it was a lovely evening. Got a fire up and running which always goes down well with the kids as they can toast marsh-mallows and add wood to the fire. Who doesn’t enjoy playing with the flames once in a while? Late night but well worth the effort, we enjoy having people round for food and drink.

Saturday was the Cholsey 5-a-side tournament for Lewis’s team, they did really well and got through to the quarter-finals but then were cheated out of it by some outrageous decisions but the local referee. I don’t get involved with the silly chatter but I was so close to going mental! I bit my tongue as I didn’t want to get some crap fine, but Sammy got sent off for telling the ref he was shit – he was right but he’ll still get a suspension and £40 fine, not worth it for some uptight bully!

In the evening it was the Champions League final between Man Utd and Barcelona at Wembley. Currently Barcelona are the best team in the world and they proved as much in front of millions of viewers winning 3-1, it was incredible to watch. They can’t be touched at the minute, they have the best players and team ethic where they pass the ball constantly to work the space and beat down their opponents. No one could begrudge them the win and they made it look so easy against a Man Utd team that are hardly lighting up the world but are still one of the top five teams around – but FCB simply looked like they were training! Messi, Iniesta, Xavi – gifted players that we’re very luck to watch at this time in our lives.

Sunday we went out for a cycle ride down by the river, past the Perch and into Oxford, nice to explore a new route. Jack spent some of his HMV voucher on a DVD, popped into the Old Prison complex to treat ourselves to a Krispy Kreme donut and then back home along the river again.

In the evening Tash and I went out to Newbury Racecourse as she was provided with VIP tickets for the Rod Stewart concert which was the first leg of his UK tour. So we were treated to a couple of free drinks in the VIP suite and then right down near the front of the stage to see the concert. At 66 you wouldn’t guess his age, the concert was brilliant and he played for 2 hours. So many songs that are memorable, you forget the ones that he’s sang in the past. Felt a bit guilty as there were at least 20,000 people so we left during the last song, “Do ya think I’m sexy” and then heard the encore “I am sailing” in the car park and left so as to miss the traffic, to make it worse they then released a huge firework display!

I’ve never left a concert early to beat the traffic and I will never do it again either!

So if that wasn’t busy enough on Bank Holiday Monday we took the kids down to Bath for the day, poured down with rain the whole time so that wasn’t much fun but we wandered round the Roman Baths which was really interesting and then had a bit of a walk around a walking tour. I’d downloaded the walking tour on everyone’s mp3 players the night before but for some reason they weren’t impressed that the now have a playlist called “Bath Tour”…no pleasing some people is there? Treated ourselves to Pizza hut at the end of the day to cap off a lovely weekend.

It was good to spend time with the kids today, they’re funny when they’re on form, each has their own personality to bring to the family and as much as it grates sometimes and we bicker we have a good laugh the majority of the time. It’s a shame I didn’t record us singing along to “Your Song” in the car on the way down…a most amusing rendition.

So all in all, quite a busy weekend really, now back to work for a rest…yeah right!